Why should I hate people?

@sjvg1976 (41131)
Delhi, India
October 11, 2021 8:26am CST
I personally dont find any reasons to hate people. Sometimes people misunderstand me but that doesn't mean ,I should hate them. Being a mature person it should be the attitude. I dont mind if someone doesn't talk to me, Let them take their stand and I will take mine. What about now? How do you feel when someone ignores you when you're not wrong?.
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@snowy22315 (170892)
• United States
11 Oct 21
I would probably ignore them back. It sort of reminds me of when I was a kid my mother told my sister and I that if we knew in our hearts we were right we didn't have to argue..which lead to both of us saying repeatedly, "I know in my heart, I'm right so I'm not gonna argue." at a higher and higher volume..
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
11 Oct 21
Hahaha....so you were taught this in childhood itself.
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@paigea (35783)
• Canada
12 Oct 21
Oh my gosh, I can just picture that. Your mom was right though.
@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
11 Oct 21
I think hate is a rather strong word for this scenario - if being ignored or disagreed with makes someone hate another person, mylot is definitely going to be hard on your emotional health!!
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
11 Oct 21
Yes, hate is a strong word but what else can be used when someone ignores you when you are not wrong. Its sad people make perceptions.
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@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
11 Oct 21
@sjvg1976 Better to shrug it off. Here's some helpful advice.... Ecclesiastes 7:21,22 '...do not take to heart every word that people say, otherwise, you may hear your servant calling down evil on* you; for you well know in your heart that many times you yourself have called down evil on others.' Isn't it true? All of us, at some time or other, have not responded to someone, or weren't paying attention, or even said something negative that could have offended someone.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
11 Oct 21
@sulynsi I am talking about a person here in mylot. Strange he has deleted my response too on one of his posts.
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@RebeccasFarm (86914)
• United States
11 Oct 21
I do not usually hate but only the things people do, not the person.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
11 Oct 21
Hmm..you have been wise for doing it. But when they keep on reading the same thing, again and again, dont you start disliking that person.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
11 Oct 21
@RebeccasFarm like your attitude Rebecca
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• United States
11 Oct 21
@sjvg1976 Yes I do indeed, but then I just move on and do not bother about them. They will not change and it will not benefit me to be involved with it.
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@LadyDuck (459890)
• Switzerland
11 Oct 21
I try to ignore those people. If I did nothing wrong and they ignore me, it means that we are not "compatible".
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
11 Oct 21
But a few days back before we were compatible but dont know suddenly what happened.
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@LadyDuck (459890)
• Switzerland
12 Oct 21
@sjvg1976 I do not know, but this may happen, for no apparent reason people change attitude.
@cacay1 (83228)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Oct 21
It happens to me too all I do is ignore them. J also don't Iike to talk to avoid malicious misunderstanding.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
11 Oct 21
And that's good. It's better not to make things worse.
@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
11 Oct 21
Rightly said. I agree. I too don't hate anyone. If someone ignores me even when I am not wrong. I move on.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
11 Oct 21
That's the right attitude. Why should I waste my time thinking about that person?.
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@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
12 Oct 21
@sjvg1976 True indeed
@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
20 Oct 21
I don't hate people. They're not worth my time at all.
@divalounger (5849)
• United States
12 Oct 21
The issue is almost always with them--they are entitled to be in a funk or bad mood or whatever--I figure that if they want to ignore me, it is because of something going on for them--and I try to honor that by giving them the space they need.
• United States
12 Oct 21
Some people just won't admit when they are wrong and tend to blame others instead of looking at themselves If you know you're right I doubt you'll be able to change someone else's mind
• Midland, Michigan
12 Oct 21
Sometime I try to work things out with them because they must also think they are correct. If they are a friend or someone I see a lot working things out it's best.
@JESSY3236 (19008)
• United States
12 Oct 21
I agree. I have decided that I should let it go if it's not worth it.
@paigea (35783)
• Canada
12 Oct 21
I don't hate people for thinking differently than me. I do hate some criminals who cause harm.
@franxav (13638)
• India
11 Oct 21
I don't mind as long as they don't insult me.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
11 Oct 21
Yes and why should we?
• Philippines
11 Oct 21
We ignore those that annoy us, and they do the same to us. But annoyed is different from hate. Doing despicable things to your fellowmen is worth hating.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
11 Oct 21
I am not annoyed. Maybe he is I cannot say. Let him be.
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
12 Oct 21
I ignore them too. That's the best thing to do.
@jobelbojel (34730)
• Philippines
12 Oct 21
I hate some people around me before. But I have learned to forgive. My heart was heavy but was completely free of hate when I released forgiveness.
@jstory07 (134842)
• Roseburg, Oregon
12 Oct 21
I would ignore them back if I am not wrong.
@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
12 Oct 21
It is not my problem anymore if they do not want to listen to what I say. Let us just mind our own business and mind theirs. We cannot please everyone
@aninditasen (15780)
• Raurkela, India
12 Oct 21
There's no need to hate such people just avoid them too. I of course hate scheming people who are always at their butts to harm you.
@Yadi22 (218)
• Indonesia
12 Oct 21
what kind of people do you hate?