Differing Tastes

By Jabo
@jaboUK (64361)
United Kingdom
February 20, 2022 8:36am CST
One good thing about living on my own is that I can watch whatever I want to on the television. When my husband was alive I watched very little because our tastes differed so widely. In his latter years TV was his main source of entertainment so I never argued. I didn't care enough to get another TV - I had my computer and puzzles etc. so I was quite happy. Anyway now I can please myself. My favourite programmes are documentaries, especially about nature, history or real life situations. I also like quizzes, detective dramas and some sport (not football or boxing). I never watch soap operas, cooking shows, Westerns, house make-over shows or sit-coms, and I turn off anything with too much foul language. Do you and your partner (if you have one) have similar tastes when it comes to TV? Photo is of my amaryllis
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
20 Feb 22
When it comes to sports, no, we have totally different tastes, he loves them and I have no interest in them.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
My husband was very into all kinds of sports but I like very few.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
20 Feb 22
@jaboUK I did watch some basketball with my late husband mostly when the Pacers were playing. His favorite. It made him happy if I cheered with him even though I didn't understand it.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
@bunnybon7 The main sport my husband and I both liked was horse-racing.
@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
20 Feb 22
I usually read when my wife watched her television shows. I was just not interested in the shows she liked.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
@DaddyEvil I don't likke watching on my computer, I like a bigger screen.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
You were in a similar situation to me Rob. Do you and Pretty like the same things or do you both keep to your own rooms?
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
20 Feb 22
@jaboUK We don't even own a television. We both spend out time talking, reading or watching videos on our computers in our own rooms. When our internet goes out, I have a gazillion movies on an external hard drive and we watch those until the internet is fixed.
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@crossbones27 (48435)
• Mojave, California
20 Feb 22
I am so sorry, never knew your husband passed. Nah, me singles for life. I do not think there is a women on earth who could put up with my lifestyle. I could conform a bit but do I want to, Hell No Why I have much respect for people who can pull off that feat.
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@Janet357 (75656)
20 Feb 22
Are you single but ready to mingle?
@LadyDuck (458233)
• Switzerland
20 Feb 22
My husband and I have similar tastes when it comes to TV. We both like detective stories, very old "films noirs", documentaries and real life situations. We both hate soap operas and stay away from cooking shows. He likes some westerns and this is the kind of films that I cannot stand. Your amaryllis are gorgeous.
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@LadyDuck (458233)
• Switzerland
20 Feb 22
@jaboUK - I wanted to buy a bulb of amaryllis for Christmas, but we avoided to go shopping, so I missed when they were available.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
You're lucky that you have a lot of shows that you both like, and your tastes seem similar to mine. Glad you like the amaryllis - a friend gave it to me as a bulb in a pot at Christmas and it has now just come into full flower.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
@LadyDuck I've never had one before - truth to tell I'm not all that keen on pot plants, but this one is gorgeous.
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@xFiacre (12598)
• Ireland
20 Feb 22
@jabouk And what a pulchritudinous looking Amyrillis it is too! I rarely watch TV and my wife is in charge of it anyway. I don’t know how to work it.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
You don't know how to work it!.
@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
@xFiacre I can understand that but it's not a lot of fun in the garden in the winter
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@xFiacre (12598)
• Ireland
20 Feb 22
@jaboUK It’s all complicated wwith various remotes and wot not and I don’t really care for it. Rather be out in the garden.
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• Northampton, England
20 Feb 22
What is it with women and crime dramas !
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
Surely men like them too? My husband did - they were one of the few things we watched together.
@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
21 Feb 22
• Northampton, England
21 Feb 22
@jaboUK women are always plotting how to get rid of their men when they cheat ;-)
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
20 Feb 22
I too never watched much TV until now. It was always on in my house but I always left the kids or a husband watch while I worked or read some of my many, many books I had. Now I watch about 80 percent of my time. No sports, hardly ever documentaries. Mostly comedy, some drama, and catching up on all the shows I missed in the past.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
20 Feb 22
@jaboUK yes. would be lost without my tv and internet and pc.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
TV can be a real blessing for people who are mostly confined to the house, as I believe you are.
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@rebelann (111189)
• El Paso, Texas
20 Feb 22
Beautiful amaryllis, this was mom's favorite flower. Lucky me, Roscoe doesn't care what I watch so I try to find good crime dramas, science fiction shows like star trek or star gate sg1 and once in a while I'll find a movie I like. I watch some documentaries about nature, history or events on YouTube via my computer but not that often.
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@rebelann (111189)
• El Paso, Texas
20 Feb 22
Those short clips are about all I really watch on YouTube.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
I've no interest in science fiction and very rarely watch films, and I only look at YouTube when directed there by someone like yourself.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
20 Feb 22
Lol to some sport (not football or boxing). -me either
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
You and I seem to be on the same wavelength don't we?
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
20 Feb 22
@jaboUK no to boxing even if one of the most famous Philippine athletes is a boxer Lol
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@DianneN (246838)
• United States
20 Feb 22
Beautiful amaryllis. Hubs and I usually have the same tastes in TV shows and movies or we choose something we both would enjoy. Evening is our time together.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
21 Feb 22
That sounds lovely, ideal in fact.
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@DianneN (246838)
• United States
21 Feb 22
@jaboUK Thanks!
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
20 Feb 22
Leo loved sports and news. He had a tv in the bedroom to watch and I watched what I liked in the living room. I still watch tv in the living room and everytime I go in the bedroom I feel like I should see him there in his easy chair.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
I can understand how you feel. My husband's empty chair still gets to me sometimes. We never had a TV in the bedroom so that wasn't an option for us.
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@Hannihar (129482)
• Israel
21 Feb 22
@jaboUK Actually if my cat gets attention she will watch whatever I am watching and only want her pets. I like all kinds of things and have Netflix and love it.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
21 Feb 22
I've never bothered to get Netflix, I find enough to watch on normal TV.
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@Hannihar (129482)
• Israel
21 Feb 22
@jaboUK I am glad for you. I had cable before that was so bad and the other cable was not right for me so when Netflix came here I decided to get it and glad I did.
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@nela13 (55700)
• Portugal
20 Feb 22
My husband likes movies a lot, I prefer documentaries, cooking shows, real life...
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
21 Feb 22
Sounds like your tastes differ quite a lot from your husband's.
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@nela13 (55700)
• Portugal
21 Feb 22
@jaboUK yes, sometimes we watch TV in separate rooms.
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@sharonelton (25013)
• Lichfield, England
21 Feb 22
I envy you. I wish I could watch what I want. My mother likes watching Emmerdale. I can't stand Emmerdale!
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
22 Feb 22
You are in the same situation as I was with my husband, but I was mostly able to immerse myself in my computer etc.
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@sharonelton (25013)
• Lichfield, England
23 Feb 22
@jaboUK My Mum wanted to watch a programme last night about a guy suffering from long covid! Come on! Why would I want to watch that? I refused and watched Ben Fogel's New Lives In The Wild instead and she was livid! She went in the dining room to watch the other programme but not until it was over half way through so she missed half of it anyway!
@much2say (53958)
• Los Angeles, California
20 Feb 22
Beautiful amaryllis! I don't watch much tv for the most part. We "can" have similar tastes, but I just can't sit there to watch a screen for a long time. But if I'm not going to watch, then he'll put on the stuff he really enjoys watching (historical stuff, documentaries, etc).
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@much2say (53958)
• Los Angeles, California
23 Feb 22
@jaboUK Yes, definitely!
@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
Sounds as if you've reached a workable compromise, just as we did.
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• China
21 Feb 22
Beautiful amaryllis ! My wife is a couch potato and likes the detective dramas the most, so I hardly watch TV, except that once in a while we watch a hit soap opera together.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
22 Feb 22
Your situation sounds like mine when my husband was here.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Feb 22
Very nice flower, being alone makes sense for there's no opposition, no competition. You can do what you want freely.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
22 Feb 22
You've hit the nail on the head Erly.
@Shiva49 (26202)
• Singapore
21 Feb 22
My wife likes serials which are too long drawn and over dramatic for my taste. We do watch sports together. Then when it comes to you tube videos, we watch them separately but tell each other what are good to watch.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
22 Feb 22
Yes, serials can be long drawn out and if you miss an episode you don't know what's going on.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
20 Feb 22
I'm not married yet but I hope to have good experiences when that time comes. I live with my parents and siblings and our tv preferences are different
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
I hope your future husband will like the same things as you, but even if he doesn't you will still manage.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
21 Feb 22
@jaboUK yes. I hope so too. Thank you
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Feb 22
Love your amaryllis. Such a gorgeous color.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
It came in a kit as a Christmas present. I kept it on the kitchen window sill until it bloomed then brought it onto the dining room table.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Feb 22
@jaboUK So pretty.. Such a deep stunning color.
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