I return a book after a long time

@JudyEv (325696)
Rockingham, Australia
July 26, 2022 8:09pm CST
I received a nice note yesterday from a friend from our previous hometown. We were both in the writing group there and she used to write the most quirky children’s poetry. She thanked me for returning a book to her. The book, The Beekeeper of Aleppo, had been on our bookshelves for months. Vince had read it and recommended it to me. I had put off reading it as it is about the flight of a Syrian couple who had lost their son during the war. Eventually, I did read it and discovered her name and address on the sticker on the cover. She had taken it to writing group once to lend out. I had no recollection of having taken it home and was mortified to think I’d had it at least twelve months. So I posted it back with a letter of apology and received a nice note back. I rarely lend my favourite books because it’s all too easy for them not to come home. Often, I can’t remember who I lent them to and then they are lost forever. The photo is Vince’s. He likes taking photos of bees.
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@RasmaSandra (73365)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
27 Jul 22
That is an awesome photo a really nice capture of the bee, Glad you discovered the book and could retune it to her,
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Jul 22
I felt bad when I found the sticker but the book is now back where it should be.
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
27 Jul 22
I also like taking photos of bees, but I have not many that are not blurred. I am glad you could return the book.
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
28 Jul 22
@JudyEv I use my digital camera, the camera of my husband has macro lenses, but I prefer not to use his stuff.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
We both have quite good lenses on our cameras which makes focussing on bees a bit easier.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
@LadyDuck I have a point and shoot that I mostly use but we both have fancier cameras for the endurance rides.
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@rsa101 (37948)
• Philippines
27 Jul 22
That is so nice of you that you still returned it despite the fact that you could have kept quiet that the book was in your possession since I do not think no one will really trace it back to you. I am sure that the owner is super happy to see her book back.
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@rsa101 (37948)
• Philippines
28 Jul 22
@JudyEv Maybe it was your husband that borrowed it?
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
Thanks for the kind words. If it hadn't been for the sticker, I wouldn't have known who the book belonged to. I can't believe I don't remember borrowing it.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
@rsa101 No, because the lady and I both belonged to a writing group and sometimes a person would bring in a book for others to read. Vince didn't belong to that group so it couldn't have been him who borrowed it.
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
27 Jul 22
I used to loan out favorite books but finally stopped when they didn't come home and I'd have to buy the book again if it was part of a collection I wanted to keep. (Yes, I always put stickers into my books with my name and address on them but it didn't help them find their way back home.) I'm sure she was very happy to get her book back again.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
I've rebought books that I didn't want to lose. I bought secondhand ones. I don't buy new books now.
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
28 Jul 22
@JudyEv I don't buy any books now. (We don't have the money to buy books and we don't have room to store them since we moved into this smaller house.) I found a site online that gives ebooks away and get all my reading material from them now. I read the ebooks on my phone using the Kindle app.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
@DaddyEvil That's a good idea but I don't really want to read books on my phone or whatever. I'd rather borrow from the library or pick up cheap books from thrift shops or garage sales.
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@kobesbuddy (74545)
• East Tawas, Michigan
27 Jul 22
This sounds like an amazing story, about this Serian couple's life. I don't lend my books now. I gave a couple books away, to people who appreciate books. One book I lent out, it was never seen again.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
Refugees can have a terrible time trying to get to a safe country. Those of us living in 'safe' countries have much to be thankful for.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
@kobesbuddy Me either but reading some of the stories, even if they're fiction, they sound very realistic based on what we've heard on the TV news, etc. And from the stories that refugees tell.
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@kobesbuddy (74545)
• East Tawas, Michigan
28 Jul 22
@JudyEv I never fully appreciated my stable, safe environment, until now!
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@oahuwriter (26780)
• United States
28 Jul 22
A happy ending! Pretty flower!
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
I was pleased to hear from her and know that the book arrived safely.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jul 22
@oahuwriter We don't go there till September but now we have another place to go to in August
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@oahuwriter (26780)
• United States
28 Jul 22
@JudyEv Yes, satisfying ending. How is house-sitting going?
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@youless (112108)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Jul 22
In the past we often liked to borrow a lot of books from the library and we would return it on time. Otherwise we would be fined for some money After the pandemic, we haven't been to the library yet as sometimes it could be shut down suddenly due to any cases.
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@youless (112108)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Jul 22
@JudyEv That is nice.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Jul 22
We have a small library at our village but we can keep the books as long as we like. It's nice not to have to worry about returning them in two or three weeks.
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@ptrikha_2 (45464)
• India
27 Jul 22
So it sounds like something worth reading. And good that you remembered and returned the book in time!
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Jul 22
Living in such a relatively peaceful country, it's hard to imagine the hardships some face. Books like this can be quite enlightening.
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@ptrikha_2 (45464)
• India
27 Jul 22
@JudyEv Yes you are right!!
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
27 Jul 22
I have noticed that too Of all things lending or borrowing books stay that way with no 'return' operation (lol)
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
28 Jul 22
@JudyEv The delay of one year notwithstanding (lol)
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
I hope I've learnt by now not to lend books.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
@allknowing There is a saying 'Neither a lender nor a borrower be' and it is good advice.
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
27 Jul 22
Sometimes we tend to forget to return things we borrowed without even a recollection of borrowing it. I have lost lots of books and cassette tapes because they were borrowed by my friends. I rarely borrow things. I prefer to buy my own.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Jul 22
I try not to borrow now. It's too easy for things to go astray.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
27 Jul 22
@JudyEv That's why I don't borrow. I'm afraid I might lose it and have to pay the person.
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@FourWalls (62112)
• United States
27 Jul 22
An excellent photo of the bee! You have to be patient when it comes to them and hummingbirds. Glad you returned the book. Now, as someone with a college degree in library science, I have to talk to you about your overdue book fine….
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@FourWalls (62112)
• United States
27 Jul 22
@JudyEv — we’ve all been guilty.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Jul 22
I felt so bad when I saw the sticker - but not bad enough to send it home before I'd read it. lol
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@LeaPea2417 (36431)
• Toccoa, Georgia
27 Jul 22
I remember lending a book to someone and never got it back. But, it ended up being no big deal.
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@LeaPea2417 (36431)
• Toccoa, Georgia
28 Jul 22
@JudyEv that's true.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
I guess mostly it's not big deal but sometimes you lose a book that you really wanted to keep
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@Ronrybs (17849)
• London, England
27 Jul 22
Same here. I keep my favourite books close, as I'd hate to lose them. That has happened to me several times in the past
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
I've rebought a couple (secondhand) that I lent and didn't get back. Half the problem is that I can never remember who I lent them to.
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@Ronrybs (17849)
• London, England
28 Jul 22
@JudyEv Exactly!
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@Dreamerby (3049)
• Calcutta, India
27 Jul 22
I am scared of bees...wouldn't dare to go near them
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Jul 22
They can certainly give you a nasty sting. And it can be very dangerous if you're allergic to them.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
@Dreamerby I think I would have done the same!
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@Dreamerby (3049)
• Calcutta, India
28 Jul 22
@JudyEv Yes I am nowhere near bees. Many years back, the tree parallelly opposite to my room nestled a beehive and 4-5 bees flew in. I moved out of my room and slept in my study room.
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@GardenGerty (157545)
• United States
27 Jul 22
This is what happens with us with books. My grandkids love to borrow books from me.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
Hopefully, with grandkids you know where the books are and can eventually ask for them back.
@wolfgirl569 (95105)
• Marion, Ohio
27 Jul 22
Glad she had marked the book
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
True. Without the sticker, I would have thought I'd bought it off a stall or from a thrift shop or somesuch.
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@xFiacre (12594)
• Ireland
27 Jul 22
@judyev Never lend books or pens.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
Very good advice. I am wondering now if I have any other borrowed books on my shelves. I must go through them one day.
@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
27 Jul 22
I wish I'd thought of putting stickers on my stuff. I've lost count of the number of books I've lent out and never got back. I also lost a lot of vinyl that way back in the 80s. Records, not clothing!!!!!
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
I never offer to lend books now. At long last, I seem to have learnt the lesson. Occasionally someone might ask to borrow a book. Haha - I had a vinyl skirt once that looked a bit like leather. I don't think I ever lost it.
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@LindaOHio (156060)
• United States
27 Jul 22
I don't like lending my books out either! Great picture.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
I seem to have learnt the lesson at last and rarely lend out books now.
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@sarik1 (6771)
27 Jul 22
It is sounds nice . have a nice day.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jul 22
Thank you. I hope your day is going well too.
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