I am Obsessed with Van Life

United States
January 8, 2023 1:55pm CST
Someday, I want to live in a van. Yep, you read that right. But actually, my goal is to do it for a year and travel around the U.S. I have been following a few people that live in their vans full-time for a while now. They have videos on YouTube. Some do it because they want to travel and have freedom, others do it because they can't afford an apartment or house. I follow a couple of seniors who live in their vans because of that. I told a few of them about myLot hoping they might join and we can learn more about their lifestyle and adventures, especially since a few members have said we need new members. What do you think, could you ever live full-time in a van? Or a truck camper or an RV?
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@MarieCoyle (59198)
8 Jan 23
I think I could live in an RV for awhile. I know it sounds weird, but I want to live in a dwelling with a real bathroom, and that is generally not found in a van. But some of those RV's are just swanky(and expensive!) anyone would be happy to live in one of them, I would think.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
11 Jan 23
I understand about the bathroom.
@MarieCoyle (59198)
9 Jan 23
@Kouponkaren I used to have to drive the grandparents huge RV for them during their last years in it. Yes, the water and search for a dump station and fees for it, etc. are a hassle for sure. If it's only you in the van, an RV toilet would work.
• United States
9 Jan 23
@MarieCoyle I certainly understand why you feel that way. When I first started thinking that I would like to do this someday, I was thinking of a small RV with a bathroom, but then I realized I would have to learn all about black water and gray water and find dumping places, and if I were to do this, I would be doing it on my own. It seemed too complicated for me. I want to simplify my life by doing this. So there are some alternatives which first and foremost would be to use a public toilet whenever possible. The second is a boat or RV portable toilet, the third is a bucket and a bag! Ha ha! I think I would like to try a composting or RV toilet if it won't smell.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
8 Jan 23
I too have consider this instead of an RV. Not sure about my two cats.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Jan 23
@Kouponkaren I agree and would have to pass.
• United States
9 Jan 23
@CarolDM Some van lifers bring their cats along and keep them on a leash outside. I can't imagine the van would smell very good though with a litter box inside. Yuck.
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@wolfgirl569 (135722)
• Marion, Ohio
9 Jan 23
Maybe for a few months. But not full time
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• United States
9 Jan 23
@wolfgirl569 I hear you on that. My goal is for 1 year, BUT I may only make it a few months and then decide I have had enough. We will see what happens and if it ever works out for me.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
11 Jan 23
Not even for a night
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@wolfgirl569 (135722)
• Marion, Ohio
9 Jan 23
@Kouponkaren I know someone doing small time. She has an RV and has just hopped in and took off for a month or 2. Like that would not be bad. A friend of hers checks on the house while she is gone
@sallypup (69176)
• Centralia, Washington
8 Jan 23
I kind of like the idea of van life IF it did not mean my having to drive in heavy traffic to get to my next spot. How do you take care of the basic necessities like using the bathroom? My hubby really wants me to drive to our old town and pick up some treasures that he left with friends. I do not want to even think about the 5 hour trip there and then back.
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• United States
9 Jan 23
@sallypup I am sure there are ways to take the back roads wherever you want to go. It just may take you a long time to get places rather than taking major roads through cities.
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@NJChicaa (127133)
• United States
8 Jan 23
I know someone who does van life. She is from here but has spent that past few years on the West Coast. She is so happy.
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• United States
9 Jan 23
@NJChicaa Oh you should invite her to join us. I would love to hear about her adventures.
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@spiderdust (14756)
• San Jose, California
8 Jan 23
With all the kids? No. But as a single or couple? Absolutely.
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• United States
9 Jan 23
@spiderdust Some people do it with kids and homeschool them. I would have loved to do that but my kid's father couldn't even go camping with us for a week so he definitely would not have bren up for that.
@spiderdust (14756)
• San Jose, California
9 Jan 23
@Kouponkaren With a blended family, we have a LOT of kids. They would feel too crowded with van life.
@kaylachan (84776)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
8 Jan 23
No, I don't think so. I like solid ground under my feet. I don't mind taking a ride in our van, but that's as far as it goes for me.
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@RebeccasFarm (91297)
• United States
8 Jan 23
There is one myLotter here who was doing that exact thing..I forget her name Karen but they were all over the place. I could indeed but the only problem for me would be..I can no longer drive on highways.
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• United States
9 Jan 23
@RebeccasFarm So do you mean she isn't on myLot anymore? I would love to follow her adventures. Or is she not living that way anymore?
@marlina (154103)
• Canada
11 Jan 23
No, sorry I could never do that. I like my big house and all the commodities in it.
@Fleura (35005)
• United Kingdom
8 Jan 23
Well I used to live in a tiny boat (6 feet wide by 20 feet long) so I know I could do it, although not sure I could share the space with anyone else.
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@Fleura (35005)
• United Kingdom
9 Jan 23
@Kouponkaren Yes I lived by myself, if I had to share that space with anyone I might have killed them I'm sure I could live in a van but the snag is you have to have somewhere to park it, at least some of the time.
• United States
9 Jan 23
@Fleura Did you live on the boat by yourself? I am sure if you could live on a boat, you could live in a van.
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• Eugene, Oregon
27 Jan 23
It doesn't really appeal to me, but I really liked the movie Nomadland with Frances McDormand. Some actual van-living people were featured in it too.
@JudyEv (382036)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Jan 23
We spent a total of nine months in a motor-home. Five months the first time and four months the second. I could do it forever if we were travelling through different places.
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• United States
9 Jan 23
@JudyEv You're my kind of gal Judy!
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@Ronrybs (21497)
• London, England
9 Jan 23
I have heard of this, but can't say it is my cup of tea. I'm not adverse to staying in one spot!