Retirement Fears?

@Kandae11 (57231)
February 9, 2023 1:35pm CST
She retired after 30 years at the same job and for an entire month after retirement she drove her car to her former office building and parked it there. Heard of someone who was so depressed after retirement , he committed suicide. It is hard to tell why retirement affects some people the way it does. For me, when it is time to retire after working at a job for 30 or 40 years, I would feel very free - free to do all the things l never had time to do while working. ( By the way l self retired from a govt. job years ago and started my own business) What about you? If you are retired, how did you feel about it? If you are not yet retired , are you dreading it or looking forward to it? Pixabay image.
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@RasmaSandra (98004)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Feb 23
I was glad not to have to worry about going to work anymore but then I also did not work at one job my whole life, I like to be working online and making up my own time,
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@Fleura (35034)
• United Kingdom
10 Feb 23
@Kandae11 I have been doing it for 13 years. I enjoy it too and certainly don't miss the stupid meetings and office politics. But on the other hand I do have some good friends I met through work and I wouldn't have met them (or many other interesting people) otherwise.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
10 Feb 23
@Fleura Good friendships will last even after retirement. I too do not miss the daily regimen . Even though my job had me out of the office more than at my desk.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
10 Feb 23
I like working on my own. I have been doing it for 17 years.
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@LadyDuck (502491)
• Italy
10 Feb 23
I am retired and more than happy to be retired. I am never bored, I have the feeling i am more busy now than when I worked.
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@LadyDuck (502491)
• Italy
10 Feb 23
@Kandae11 - I agree we can finally do what we always dreamed to do.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
10 Feb 23
There is so much we can do when retired.
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@DaddyEvil (174482)
• United States
9 Feb 23
I was pushed into retirement without any of the "safety nets" that are supposed to be there. It's scary and upsetting. *shrug* But there's nothing I can do about it.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
9 Feb 23
My brother was a maths and music teacher in a high school and he was not prepared for retirement but he had to. Now a few years later - the school system is reeling from the loss of teachers heading for greener pastures overseas. And they are trying to rehire some retired teachers. I hope everything works out okay for you.
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@DaddyEvil (174482)
• United States
9 Feb 23
@Kandae11 Thanks. Good luck to your brother.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
9 Feb 23
I retired early and have never been happier, although I loved teaching. Some don't know what to do with themselves and have no hobbies or interests. Others get sick and die. Fortunately, we planned ahead for retirement when we first got married.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
9 Feb 23
@Kandae11 I agree. I know a teacher that planned to retire, but her pension wouldn't cover it. So she worked for 42 years until the powers that be forced her out by eliminating her job. Now she is substitute teaching in her old age.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
9 Feb 23
If there is no retirement nest egg, no close knit family relationships it will result in depression. It is always wiser to plan ahead.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Feb 23
I was really pleased to retire as was my husband. I do know that some find it very difficult to deal with.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Feb 23
@Kandae11 That's a shame. I guess we had a lot ot things planned that we wanted to do and now we had the time to do them.
@Kandae11 (57231)
10 Feb 23
My brother was very unhappy for months after.
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@Beestring (15372)
• Hong Kong
10 Feb 23
My cousin also got depression after retirement. As for me, I am semi-retired. I don't have a full time job now. I work as a freelancer.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
10 Feb 23
I still do some freelance along with taking care of my business.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
10 Feb 23
I’m a long way from retirement age which is good and bad. What kind of business did you open?
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
10 Feb 23
@Kandae11 oh that sounds so nice! You should share a photo of them so I can see some.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
12 Feb 23
@shaggin. I do a variety of sizes and styles. This shows one style
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@Kandae11 (57231)
10 Feb 23
Handmade local dolls for the tourist market here and a few other Caribbean islands.
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@allknowing (153530)
• India
10 Feb 23
I did not wait for retirement but gave up working on my own.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
10 Feb 23
That is what l did also. I left long before retirement age.
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@kaylachan (84785)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Feb 23
My husband has been retired for two months tomorrow. We planned for it ahead of time, a year and a half to ee exact. And we waited until he was mentally and emotionally ready. He finds it so freeing, too.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
10 Feb 23
It is best to prepare in advance. There are so many good aspects. Someone told me - no more alarm clocks in the morning.
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@quantum2020 (12054)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
11 Feb 23
I have worked for different companies throughout my life. With one, I worked for almost four years and that is the most time I´ve spent with a company. I consider myself retiring since the moment I felt free from an 8-hour daily schedule. I occurred almost 15 years ago. That is the time, I started focusing on jobs online. I have been doing jobs online for about 12 - 14 years and I have combined them with offline jobs that do not require more than 2 to three hours a day. Many people ask me if I'm a retired person but I always tell them that found a better way and not time-demanding way of obtaining the money to pay rent and groceries. I have hopes that in the near future, I will find more rewarding ways for making a living
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@Kandae11 (57231)
12 Feb 23
I hope that the year ahead brings you all the success you desire.
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@quantum2020 (12054)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
12 Feb 23
@Kandae11 I hope that too. I´m trying to find ways to succeed at that objective
@RebeccasFarm (91297)
• United States
10 Feb 23
I am not afraid of aging, yet I am worried to be immobile.
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• United States
10 Feb 23
@Kandae11 People here work well into their 80s and beyond Kandase, some do anyway.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
10 Feb 23
People who retire are not old . Governments have a cut off age for work and persons with a lot more to give are wondering what to do with themselves.. Especially when no nest egg for retirement was put in place while they were employed.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
10 Feb 23
@RebeccasFarm. Here the retirement age is 62 l think, but some retired persons take other jobs where there is no age limit.
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@1creekgirl (44560)
• United States
11 Feb 23
I loved my job as a secretary at our local Health Department for 27 years, but that last year was brutal. I retired and never regretted it. We had no way of knowing that two years later our daughter in law would die suddenly and we helped our son raise his two year old baby.
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@1creekgirl (44560)
• United States
12 Feb 23
@Kandae11 Thanks, Kandase.
@Kandae11 (57231)
12 Feb 23
Everything happened at the right time. So sorry about your daughter-in- law.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
10 Feb 23
I started looking forward to retirement on my first day at my first job. I really didn't want to work, but knew it wasn't an option. I'm now happily retired for the past almost 8 years. I am busier now doing what I love than I ever was working and enjoying my life so much more.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Feb 23
@Kandae11 Yes, it was good for me. I've always loved writing and have been doing it since I was a child.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
12 Feb 23
You are busy doing something you really enjoy doing. Retirement was good for you.
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@db20747 (43419)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
9 Feb 23
I am worried whether I will have enough money. Impossible to save for retirement. Many times it's made out to be great, but a lot of people have to continue to work because things are so expensive.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
9 Feb 23
The investment companies say investing would be the best thing , some years before retirement of course, but not everyone thinks ahead. Some thitry year olds may consider retirement a lifetime away. A good idea would be to find ways for additional income ..
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@snowy22315 (208938)
• United States
10 Feb 23
Retirement is good if you have enough money and something to occupy your time.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
12 Feb 23
Definitely, - money and hobbies.
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@Fleura (35034)
• United Kingdom
10 Feb 23
I can understand that. For a lot of people their job is such a big part of their life that without it they feel that they have lost their purpose. And of course if it is a prestigious job then they have more to lose, they go from being, for example, chair of a big corporation to being just another old person. Not fun.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
12 Feb 23
Some feel like they are no longer any use to society. They should never think that way, they made their contribution now it is time to relax and look after self.
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@porwest (112876)
• United States
9 Feb 23
I am very much looking forward to it. I think the key is having things you want to do, and of course having made the right financial plans to actually be able to afford it and enjoy it. Not many people do that. I have heard many horror stories, but usually they stem from those ill-prepared for retirement.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
10 Feb 23
There is so much to do , so much one can do - if the funds are there.
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@porwest (112876)
• United States
12 Feb 23
@Kandae11 They key is in making sure the funds are there. When I retire the last thing I want to be is stuck in the house.
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