Do you exchange Mobile phone with your partner?

@Icydoll (36713)
India
February 22, 2023 3:32am CST
Hello everyone hope everyone is doing fine. I want to share about a movie that I have watched recently. The movie is very good with a message. The basic plot of the movie is about the trust . In Movie the couple were asked to exchange their mobile phones by the actress father . So that the couple can know about each other. After Many fights between them ,knowing some truth about each other they end up building more trust in each other by understanding.The movie ended up by giving message to all to have trust in people . I think couple should have there own space while having the respect and trust in each other. What's your opinion on exchanging mobile phones with partner?. Is to okay to share everything with partner?. What's your thoughts on this?.
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33 responses
Anna
@LadyDuck (486090)
• Italy
22 Feb 23
YES, it is okay to share everything with my husband, this is the only way to stay married for a long time. We have our own phone, but he can use mine and I can use his phone, no problem about that.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (486090)
• Italy
22 Feb 23
@Icydoll Hiding something to our partner is wrong, it's not a good base for a long relationship.
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
22 Feb 23
@LadyDuck that's true , i have seen some people hiding things from their partner and later go to divorce
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
22 Feb 23
That's nice to know, you are very lovely couple .
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Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (42496)
• Delhi, India
22 Feb 23
I don't think there is anything wrong with sharing the phone with a partner. My wife still uses my phone and sometimes even checks WhatsApp chats of friends.
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Ifamous
@ifa225 (14468)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 23
Does she check your discussion too here in mylot?
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
22 Feb 23
Not everyone is a gentleman like you or get good wife like as you got .
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
22 Feb 23
@ifa225 she might check lol
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Ifamous
@ifa225 (14468)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 23
We can't do this as he is doing all his jobs in his mobile phone. And the phone will ring all day from his bos asking the situation in the office
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Ifamous
@ifa225 (14468)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 23
@Icydoll we give each other privacy, I never open his message, so does he. Since we have no secret to hide, we often talk about who has message us lately
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
22 Feb 23
@ifa225 that's nice to know that understanding and bonding should be there in relationship .
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
22 Feb 23
I have understood,it's not possible in some situations like you said . Do you have your own personal space?.
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Twinkle
@Teekaaa (11642)
• India
22 Feb 23
There's nothing wrong with sharing mobiles with a partner. It adds to their trust in one another. I see it this way. Having said that personal space has to be given respect and encouraged.
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Twinkle
@Teekaaa (11642)
• India
22 Feb 23
@Icydoll absolutely! I'm doing good, Icy. Thanks for asking. How are you? I just logged in after a long time & I saw your post. I really got excited & feel happy to be back. :))
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
22 Feb 23
@Teekaaa i missed you, i know you would come back , i recently come back after one year. So you watched the love today movie How is your brother and family??
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
22 Feb 23
I agree with what you said twinkle. Trust is the important key factor How are you doing twinkle?? I'm surprised to see you. Glad that you are back . How is life going on ??
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CarolDM
@CarolDM (203405)
• Nashville, Tennessee
22 Feb 23
If you can't trust your partner how can you have a solid relationship. You can't. Relationships are built on trust.
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Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (42496)
• Delhi, India
22 Feb 23
That's what I also felt.
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
23 Feb 23
Completely agree with your thoughts my dear friend. Trust is the main basement for any relationship.
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Meli
@astutimeliana723 (4686)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 23
That's you in the photo with your patner? I once exchanged social media passwords with my boyfriend. But there are only small things that are a problem. Until now I have not done it again. It's enough to trust each other, it's even calmer, rarely fight.
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
23 Feb 23
It's not me , it's from the net Oh meli sorry about that problem, some really wants to share everything with partner while some don't like it at all wants some personal space . So are you committed now
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
23 Feb 23
@astutimeliana723 I'm single and happy soul
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Meli
@astutimeliana723 (4686)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 23
@Icydoll Yes, now we are still committed, trust each other, and provide each other with privacy. How about you?
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rakski
@rakski (149297)
• Philippines
22 Feb 23
Of course, it is okay. Communication and trust is by the key to a good bc relationship
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rakski
@rakski (149297)
• Philippines
24 Feb 23
@Icydoll I agree
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
23 Feb 23
Yes, trust is the key dear
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DianneN
@DianneN (247157)
• United States
22 Feb 23
Hubs and I trust each other completely, but don't find it necessary to exchange our phones. He answers mine and I answer his at times and we open each other's texts if we know the person texting. Nothing to hide in our long marriage.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247157)
• United States
23 Feb 23
@Icydoll Thank you! You are too sweet
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
23 Feb 23
I know That you both are lovely couple with good understanding.
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Valerie J. Routhieaux
@just4him (318787)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Feb 23
I don't know why it would be necessary to exchange phones with anyone. You either trust the person or you don't. Exchanging phones would only bring problems to the surface and destroy relationships. Only people with trust issues would even suggest such a thing, and probably not even suggest it but go into their partner's phone to see what they've been doing. I would never trust such a person. Nor would I give my phone to someone else. Yes, I have trust issues, but I would NEVER look into someone else's phone for any reason.
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Valerie J. Routhieaux
@just4him (318787)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
23 Feb 23
@Icydoll You're welcome.
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
23 Feb 23
Yeah i agree Exchanging phones would only bring problems to the surface and destroy relationship. Thanks for sharing the thoughts my friend
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (364832)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Feb 23
I don't really see the point of this but perhaps I'm old-fashioned. I honestly don't think we have any secrets from each other so it wouldn't be a problem for us.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (364832)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Feb 23
@Icydoll It's such a shame that people can't do the right thing and stay true to each other. If they want to break up, that's fine but don't around behind your partner's back.
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
23 Feb 23
That's nice Judy , i know you both are Lovely couple This generation most of them Hides things from there partner so the film attracted many people, mostly youth .
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
23 Feb 23
@JudyEv i agree with you judy . Being cheated and staying with dishonest people is more painful .
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Abishek S K
@Lignitecityabishek96 (7120)
• Cuddalore, India
24 Feb 23
Are you talking about "Love Today" movie?
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Abishek S K
@Lignitecityabishek96 (7120)
• Cuddalore, India
24 Feb 23
@Icydoll Watched on OTT
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
24 Feb 23
@Lignitecityabishek96 did you like the movie ?.
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
24 Feb 23
haha yes right guess . Did you watch it
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Arunima Singh
@arunima25 (92538)
• Bangalore, India
22 Feb 23
I find the story interesting. Can you name the movie?? I would like to watch it. Well, on my personal note I think as a couple, we share almost the whole life together. But I feel that when certain personal spaces are invaded, it becomes toxic and suffocating.
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
22 Feb 23
Completely agree with your thoughts. The movie is Love Today . It is a Tamil movie . You can watch it with subtitles in Dailymotion.com. hope you will like it.
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Arunima Singh
@arunima25 (92538)
• Bangalore, India
23 Feb 23
@Icydoll Oh! I see. I will check it out..I have never watched a movie there.Do we need some subscription??
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
23 Feb 23
@arunima25 no it's free to watch .it's similar to YouTube
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Jojo
@Sojourn (13834)
• India
22 Feb 23
I don't exchange it so to say, but she often checks on my phone.
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
23 Feb 23
Oh, are you okay with it when she check ?
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
23 Feb 23
@Sojourn that's nice understanding and lovely bonding you both have . I wish you both to continue like this.
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Jojo
@Sojourn (13834)
• India
23 Feb 23
@Icydoll Yes, because she checks it before me only
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Adie
@Adie04 (17355)
•
23 Feb 23
I would like to do this, but I guess no man wanted to. I hope I could get to do this.
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
23 Feb 23
@Adie04 yeah it is , but some guys really don't share lol .
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
23 Feb 23
you know most of them here responded that they don't have problem in sharing their phone. I hope you get the guy who shares his mobile.
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Adie
@Adie04 (17355)
•
23 Feb 23
@Icydoll Does it mean sharing the mobile along with the phone number card inside it?
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Jenaisle
@Jenaisle (16543)
• Philippines
23 Feb 23
It's okay to be open to your partner, however, each should respect the other's privacy. ie. business communications, etc. But if my partner wants to exchange cell phones I would oblige happily. I don't have anything to hide anyway.
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
23 Feb 23
Yes i do agree that each other should respect their privacy or own personal space.
Judy Story
@jstory07 (146260)
• Roseburg, Oregon
24 Feb 23
We only have one phone between the two of us.
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
24 Feb 23
Oh alright judy , that is good
Thelma
@thelme55 (77619)
• Germany
27 Feb 23
Yes, it is okay to share everything with your partner. We both have our own smartphone. He is allowed to use mine and I am allowed to use his phone. No problem with that. We trust each other.
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
28 Feb 23
I do agree, trust is very important in any relationship.
Hanni Harel
@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
22 Feb 23
@Icydoll By way thank you for that message. I give my mobile phone number to those that need it. I think that one has to make sure that they feel safe and secure with their partner before they share things with them. I feel that trust has to be earned by people and that you cannot just trust someone if they are nice to you because one day they may stab you in the back and use the information to their advantage you gave them so do what you feel is best and start little by little with people and not only your partner.
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Hanni Harel
@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
22 Feb 23
@Icydoll Thank you very much. You are very welcome that you appreciate my thoughts.
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
22 Feb 23
Very true and wise words from you hanni . I appreciate your thoughts.
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Yadah
@Yadah04 (3435)
• Philippines
25 Feb 23
I don't know really. I love my privacy. It is not that I have secret to keep, but sometimes it just helps one's self to have a certain space.
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
25 Feb 23
I agree privacy is also important to all .Some people misuse the privacy to hide secrets .
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Faye
@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
24 Feb 23
Sure, it's alright to share everything, though a sense of privacy and indpendence is nice too even if there is nothing to hide
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
24 Feb 23
Yeah privacy is also matters sometimes.