Do you attend phone calls when you aren't in a mood to talk ?.
By Icydoll
@Icydoll (37202)
India
March 4, 2023 2:03am CST
Hello everyone hope everyone is doing fine. I would like to share about one situation. One fine evening my mother is talking with his brother over phone. Then mom gave the mobile to her sister when she came. Mother went to do some work. So sister took phone and talked sometime. She suddenly completed the talk and gave mobile to me without asking that able to talk or not . I'm having the sinus headache and not in a mood to talk in call. I'm not at all ready to attend the call.I told her you should ask me before that I'm in mood to talk or not .She said it's not fair attitude. She said I never seen a person doing anyone like this .
I don't think it's my mistake ,not everyone will be in same mood everyday.When being sick or low i don't take or attend any calls . She should understand that and not force me to attend call.
Do you attend phone calls when you are not in a mood to talk ?. How would you react ?
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36 responses
@DaddyEvil (126888)
• United States
4 Mar
I don't like to talk on the phone. My friends know to send me a text if they expect me to answer them when I have time and feel like talking. A friend tried to hand me his phone to talk with someone and I hung up on them without talking at all.
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@DaddyEvil (126888)
• United States
4 Mar
@Icydoll Yes, I agree... Ask before you call. 
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@Icydoll (37202)
• India
4 Mar
@DaddyEvil that's what I should do . Some of friends message me before call .that's a easy way to approach without giving trouble to others .
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@astutimeliana723 (4390)
• Indonesia
6 Mar
Me when I get a call but I'm too lazy to talk, just keep quiet pretending I don't hear, later if it's important He'll also send a WhatsApp message. I wonder why He have to call when he can still send WhastApp messages. *Shrugs* 
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@Icydoll (37202)
• India
7 Mar
@astutimeliana723 
this is funny . Did you had lunch?.
this is funny . Did you had lunch?.1 person likes this
. Hope you are okay.. All the time 
. Hope we can get back to healthy.
@Teekaaa (11577)
• India
4 Mar
@Icydoll we can't expect people to understand us all the time. Things like this happen. We should not keep thinking about what has happened. Maybe the next time, if we are in a similar situation we must tell the other person at the other end, the true reason, in a polite way.
I ain't a person who feels comfortable talking over the phone. If it's important I'll. But I feel more comfortable texting. Even my friends know the same. However, I feel like I should change this.
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@Icydoll (37202)
• India
4 Mar
@Teekaaa She is the one who always keep teaching me and argues with me all the time wantedly like she is the only person knows everything. Even she does the same thing with mom . Being elder sister to her she fed up at times to make her understand.
That's very simple thing and least common sense to not trouble others when they are sick . I literally have sinus headache for 4 days she knows that how painful it is . In that situation i can't handle calls and of course she kept silent will all my argument
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@dgobucks226 (32943)
•
11 Mar
If you're not feeling well, I can understand your attitude. You could also just say on the phone to the person how you're feeling and if you could call back later when you feel better. The only calls I don't answer are one's from telemarketers or scammers. Anyone I know is in my contacts, so the name comes up when they call.
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@Shivram59 (31015)
• India
6 Mar
@Icydoll Most of the times I attend calls.If sometimes I'm not in a mood to attend them;I think some of my friends or relatives might be seeking my help.
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@Shivram59 (31015)
• India
7 Mar
@Icydoll Exactly.But if you ignore taking the call;you can't know if it. was an emergency call.
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@Icydoll (37202)
• India
7 Mar
@Shivram59 emergency call would be something that they continuously do calls ,so we can come to know it . The situation i faced was the person was in online just for chit chat and other person is forcing me to talk when I'm sick suddenly handed over phone to me . I think it's very uncomfortable
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@FayeHazel (40391)
• United States
6 Mar
No, I don't take phone calls when I don't feel like it. You had a headache, most certainly that is an alright reason to not feel like talking
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@FayeHazel (40391)
• United States
7 Mar
@Icydoll You bet :-) Yeah, I agree. Not feeling good is a good reason to not want to chat at the moment.
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