I love you so much
By Jenaisle
@Jenaisle (14078)
Philippines
April 10, 2023 3:29am CST
In romantic love, when do you know that the person you love truly loves you in return? When someone says, "I love you,' when would you believe that what he/she is stating is true?
Do you observe his/her actions? or do you listen to all that he/she says and derive your conclusions from that?
What is your ultimate sign that he/she loves you in return?
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15 responses
@aninditasen (17032)
• Raurkela, India
10 Apr 23
It really difficult to understand true love. I have spent 34 years with my husband but I can't say how much he loved me. He did tell several times that he loved me but sometimes was very inconsiderate.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
10 Apr 23
I know what you mean @aninditasen . There are times when our loved ones are indifferent. I sometimes do it too, out of anger.3 people like this
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
10 Apr 23
Saying the words doesn’t mean someone does. I associate love with acts. Since every how there own way of showing or giving love. I look and either one try to know that person way of showing time they love me. Someone giving me something out of no where they they know I’ll love or appreciate show me they love me to what degree don’t know. For my husband he is a touched so things like hugs, kisses, holding hands anything of a physical touch is love.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
10 Apr 23
@ShyBear88 I agree with you. Love cannot be truly defined.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
10 Apr 23
@Jenaisle Yep that is why it's called Love language because no two people know how to express love in the same exact way. For some people its physical, gifts giving, receiving, for some people its acts like completing a task for that person, for some people its words.
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@toniganzon (72545)
• Philippines
10 Apr 23
I'm not sure exactly how to answer that. I guess you can just feel it when you are truly loved, valued, and respected.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
10 Apr 23
@toniganzon you have good intuition. That' great. It comes wisdom.
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@toniganzon (72545)
• Philippines
10 Apr 23
@Jenaisle because when you know, you know. But when I was younger, I didn't really know much about it.
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@arunima25 (90128)
• Bangalore, India
10 Apr 23
There would be no correct answer to it. Sometimes even actions can lie..I would rely more on intuitions. When there is love, you feel it. I don't know how to put it in words.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
10 Apr 23
@arunima25 Yes, a person who is loved back is blessed.
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@RebeccasFarm (94527)
• Arvada, Colorado
10 Apr 23
My love has turned to utter disdain due to maniacs.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
10 Apr 23
@RebeccasFarm I see, but I'm sure there will be more fruitful things that would still happen in your life.
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@RebeccasFarm (94527)
• Arvada, Colorado
10 Apr 23
@Jenaisle What I mean is I am finished with love as it was not good for me.
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@innertalks (22695)
• Australia
11 Apr 23
I do not think that it matters that much, as long as we love them genuinely on our side.
How they love us back again is largely up to them, I think.
That is loving them unconditionally.
If I feel loved by them, that is good, but if I do not feel any love, I will still love them, as much as I can do so.
With my mother, I loved her, and I could feel that she loved me, but that motherly love, is different from romantic love, I guess.
@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
11 Apr 23
Of course, we should love our parents and our spouses unconditionally. I understand your point. You have indeed a selfless love. The woman you're going to love is lucky. But this is on the assumption that the person being wooed wants to know if the love that the person is proclaiming is indeed true.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
11 Apr 23
@innertalks That's a wonderful love story. I hope couples think that way so that there would be fewer divorces. Than you for this valuable lesson in life.
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@innertalks (22695)
• Australia
11 Apr 23
@Jenaisle Yes, most people want to test the love to see if it is a true love, and reciprocated by the other person.
I married someone, without doing that, and the love has blossomed on both sides, because we trusted each other unconditionally, without needing ever to test the love.
@LindaOHio (188217)
• United States
23 Apr 23
My husband has been with me for 57 years in October, 53 married. I'm sure he loves me!
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@LindaOHio (188217)
• United States
23 Apr 23
@Jenaisle Thank you very much. I don't know what I would do without him.
@dgobucks226 (36490)
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14 Apr 23
In determining whether that person is sincere in their love for me I go by the old adage, "actions speak louder than words." Ones who love you show you in how they behave towards you.
