I Lived With a Thief

@jobelbojel (34729)
Philippines
May 6, 2023 10:20am CST
As some of you know that I am back working onsite. My WFH stint ended in February but still have the chance to go back home in July. I took the risk renting on a bedspace set up. I am the first tenant to occupy the first bed at the third floor in February. And in March a new tenant arrived. It was a risk to trust the person not knowing his background. He was so nice to me. He was friendly. And I would not know it was his tactic to lure me into that good behavior. There were instances that we went to 711 together. We ate and chatted before the incident. It was as if we were friends. Other store owners thought that were really closed friends. He is in his fifties and disabled. I doubted him when there was an incident of inside Job robbery at the unit where I am staying. That was on April 21st. I already have a hint the following week because he seldom return to the dorm whenever I am around. On April 28th, the worst part of my stay at the dorm. It wasn't safe at all to trust anyone. I trusted the owner's decision to accept him as a tenant. Well, I was wrong. At 8 am, he came home to the dorm. I was still awake. But already sleepy. That day at 6 am it is as if my mind talked to itself and said start packing. If only I listened to my alert mind and not my sleepy head, I would have found out that my Jansport backpack was already stolen. My sleepy head won, at around 9 am I felt sound asleep. I did not hear anything from the other tenant. At around 10:30 am I woke up. I don't know but it was as if something pulled me. I reached to my bag to check the time, I can't touch anything. I stood up. Saw no sling bag. My phone was no where to be found. I run as quickly as possible downstairs. I asked the store owner at the ground floor if he saw the guy from the 3rd floor. He said he just went down 10 minutes ago. I went out to look for him but he was out of sight. We checked the CCTV, he went out at 10:23 AM carrying my sling bag. He walked past the students and turned left, when I walked past the students so fast, and turned right. If only I was early, I could have caught him. My phones and cash were stolen. Even my IDs.
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@Beestring (13320)
• Hong Kong
6 May
I'm so sorry. Did you report the case to the police?
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
6 May
Yes I did. But have never went back to the police station for the police report. One thing, we don't know his real name and address.
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@Beestring (13320)
• Hong Kong
6 May
@jobelbojel If the police could see his face on CCTV, there's still a chance he can be caught.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
7 May
@Beestring I have to go back to the police station
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@MarieCoyle (28517)
7 May
I hate when this happens. Some people are despicable, and he is one of them. Sharing space with a stranger is often not the best or the safest. Sorry that happened to you.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
14 May
It is indeed not safe. I am talking to my brother now. I want to share apartment with him again.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
23 Mar
@MarieCoyle Thank you, Marie. I never had the chance to report back here. Well, I did not go back to the police station. First, they don't have the name of the person.
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@MarieCoyle (28517)
14 May
@jobelbojel One of my girls had an apartment with another girl when they were in college. The other girl disappeared one day--with everything of value she could find that belonged to my daughter. After that, no more roommates. I really do not like thieves. I hope you can live with your brother!
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@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
6 May
I`m sorry to know that I really don`t like to stay in a room with other tenants. It is better for me to get a room for myself because I can`t sleep good if I am with someone I don`t really know for a long time.
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• Germany
6 May
@jobelbojel I understand that kind of room sharing should atleast have some cabinets with lock or locker so you can atleast lock your things
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
7 May
@m_audrey6788 that's one thing I asked the owner.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
6 May
Same with me. But I took the risk because I am on a tight budget.
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
6 May
I'm so sorry that happened to you! I hope the police can help you get your stuff back again.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
7 May
I don't think I would get them back. He might have sold my phones. It is not secured here.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
7 May
@DaddyEvil I accepted that people are getting darker and darker.
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
7 May
@jobelbojel I see... I'm sorry that happened.
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@LindaOHio (156157)
• United States
7 May
I am so sorry. I hope you reported the incident to the police.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
7 May
Yes,. I did. But for the lack of details we can not proceed with the next step.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
7 May
@LindaOHio No video but the premise cctv captured him carrying my sling bag
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@LindaOHio (156157)
• United States
7 May
@jobelbojel You have video of him taking your backpack.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
7 May
Oh no, I am so very sorry about this. It is just so hard to trust anyone these days. I hope the police can help you.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
14 May
I hope so. I have not been to the police since the same day I reported the case.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
14 May
@jobelbojel Good to see you. I trust your situation has improved. Take care of yourself.
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@AmbiePam (85496)
• United States
6 May
Oh, no! I am so sorry. That is just an awful thing.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
14 May
it was very awful.
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@kixsh101 (2103)
• Philippines
7 May
this is sad and traumatic. This is one of the reasons I won't opt to besspace.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
14 May
I took the risk. That's what I got from it.
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
7 May
I am sorry for you. You should have checked his personal details before being close to him. There are people who easily get people trusted on them and then they rob them.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
7 May
yes, lesson learned my friend.
@RebeccasFarm (86754)
• United States
6 May
Oh so what is going to happen to that thief?
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• United States
7 May
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
7 May
He is on the lose. The owner did not get his address.
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
16 May
I am sorry to hear that.. It is really hard to live with people you don't really know. I am curious, how much do they charge now for bedspace or room for rent per month?
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
23 Mar
Last year it was 3,000 per month.
@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
7 May
Too bad experience. The landlord should be cautious in accepting tenants. He should asked for police clearance, etc.for securiity reasons.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
7 May
that's work in progress.
@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
30 May
Sorry to hear about loosing your bag and money. It is the man you think you can trust especially even a disabled person that will catch you off guard.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
1 Jun
Learned my lesson not to trust people right away.
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@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
6 May
Oh dear this is not good. He tricked you into trusting him It is very risky to trust anyone without knowing them quite well. It's horrible that we need to think like that. I think you will have learned a lesson from this.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
7 May
I was tricked and learned a lesson for sure.
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@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
7 May
@jobelbojel That's good. It will not happen again
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