Beauty And Cheating

I think part of it is how seriously he takes his wedding vows and how much he cares if he hurts his wife or not.

Probably it's down to moral character - and being a decent human being.

I believe most men cheat because there is something missing inside of them. They think a beautiful wife will fix it, and when it doesn’t, they look to someone else to fill that hole in their life. Instead of doing the work required to fix what is wrong in their heart they seek an outward solution to an inward problem.

Yeah it just happens that way..it doesn't matter if you look like Cleopatra..they always want someone else and most of the time that next one looks like doghsite.

Beauty is NOT everything. After a while a man has enough of "only" beauty. They want also to eat good food, to find a clean home. To have a companion who shares their joys but also their problems. If all what they have is a pretty face and body, they go search for someone who can listen to them.

I was always faithful but men who stray may do so because they want to try something/someone new/different. Some men may also want confirmation that they're still "young and attractive" even if they're the ugliest man on Earth. When young(er) women come on to them, it gives the same thrill they got when they were actively pursuing their wife/partner. ALL men, whether faithful or not, LOOK at other women. That's just part of being a man. Looking is not part of touching, though. (Women, whether they acknowledge it or not, also look at other men.) And yes, I was approached by other women when I was married. It was extremely flattering but I loved my current wife and knew it wasn't worth losing what I had... until something in the relationship pushed me to seek a divorce. (I've been married and divorced twice.)

As some men grow older, no matter how beautiful their wives are, many still want affirmation that they are still attractive, so they go in search of someone who could validate their worth again. Insecure men may not find the admiration of their wives enough for their male ego, so they find someone who could bolster their ego once more. I'm not a man, so I may be wrong. This is only based on what I have observed and read, and I am not generalizing. There are many reasons why men go astray and this is only one of them.

Sometimes it is the women that tempt men and men cannot resist.

That's their nature. They cannot be faithful to one person. Maybe after a point of time they think they are bored of their partner and search for someone else. I hate such people who are of this nature.

I really don’t understand adulterers at all. Why even get married if you can’t be faithful.

I found your post kind of odd. What does physical beauty have to do with cheating? A woman (or a man) is not a "keeper" because of initial physical attractiveness. That wears off pretty quickly. Other factors are way more important. People cheat because some need is not being satisfied.

If a man is straying, the fault goes to the wife. Her vows said she was to love, honor, and respect him. If they honor their vows, he won't stray. She builds him up with her words and actions. The same is true for the wife who strays. If a man has no respect for his wife, she will look for it somewhere else.

The reasons why some men with beautiful wives may choose to cheat are complex and vary from individual to individual. It's important to note that infidelity is not limited to men or based solely on physical appearance. Infidelity can occur in relationships for a multitude of reasons, including personal insecurities, unmet emotional needs, lack of communication, boredom, or seeking validation outside the relationship. Factors such as wealth or perceived attractiveness may influence some individuals' choices, but they do not solely determine a person's likelihood to cheat. It's crucial to remember that every person and relationship is unique, and generalizations may not capture the complexities and nuances involved. Faithfulness in a relationship is built upon trust, mutual respect, open communication, shared values, and emotional connection. These factors, along with personal integrity and commitment, contribute to maintaining a strong and fulfilling partnership. It's worth noting that both men and women can experience infidelity, regardless of their partner's physical appearance. Cheating is not a gender-specific issue and can occur in relationships irrespective of external factors.

I have had the same question for a while. I asked my friend the same question the other day and she told me that her husband told her that when men aren't able to do the things they want with their wives then they look for other ladies to satisfy them. I did ask my husband the same question he says it's temptation but if ones really love their wife they won't cheat on them no matter what.

Its complex. There many different motivations and causes that are unique in every situation. This only goes to show that its not just beauty alone. Men can cheat if they are unhappy and not satisfied emotionally in their relationship, feels neglected, unappreciated, bored etcetera. Some have issues within themselves that they needed to feel validated by pursuing other women. Some feels a sense of excitement, newness going for extramarital affairs. So many reasons but these are definitely never an excuse for infidelity. There is no justification for cheating!