7 simple tips to gain more friends on MyLot

@Jenaisle (14078)
Philippines
May 25, 2023 8:26am CST
Gaining new friends on MyLot can be easy if you adopt these 7 simple ways. I’m not speaking as an expert but I’m sharing these tips based on my own experience. So, your experience may be different from mine and I welcome any tips you would like to add. 1. Always try to reply to any comments on your discussions 2. Take time to reply to discussions of those who commented on your discussions 3. Reply to new discussions – even those who have not replied to yours – if you have something to say. 4. Don’t write condescendingly Just because you’re good at English doesn’t mean those who aren’t are dumb and you could speak down to them. 5. Avoid generalizations There will always be good and bad in any country. Avoid generalizations. 6. Interact sincerely People can detect if you are sincere or not. Always be sincere when interacting because behind every person is an interesting unique story. 7. Be open-minded We have different personalities, so try to be open-minded. Each country has its own culture and practices. If you’re not doing some of them. Don’t be a snob or don’t show arrogance just because you appear to be more educated, elegant, or wealthy. Learn to accept other cultures from all over the world. These are only a few of the many things you may want to do if you want to gain more friends here on MyLot. What about you? What made you gain more friends on this site? I’m sure many would appreciate it a lot if you share these tips with us. Thank you.
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@sjvg1976 (41134)
• Delhi, India
25 May
Good tips!! Always respond to the responses you get on your posts/responses so that a person maybe able to know more about you and that's how the friendship builds.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
That's correct. Through time friendship comes when you keep interacting sincerely.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
@sjvg1976 More than 600 followers is a lot. In fact, you have more followers than I do. But you're right, there are some MyLotters that we constantly interact with. Have fun mylotting.
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@sjvg1976 (41134)
• Delhi, India
25 May
@Jenaisle I have not made many friends here but I love to talk to few of the people here regularly.
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• India
25 May
I guess I am doing these
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
@Butterfingers That's great, Keep doing it and will pay off eventually.
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@sjvg1976 (41134)
• Delhi, India
25 May
How many friends did you make here then?
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• India
25 May
@sjvg1976 I am sure many are
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@popciclecold (35025)
• United States
25 May
Good tips, thanks for sharing.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
You're welcome. Are there any tips that you want to share? Happy MyLotting!
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@AmbiePam (84628)
• United States
25 May
I miss your posts.
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• United States
25 May
@AmbiePam Thank you.
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@RebeccasFarm (84363)
• Wheat Ridge, Colorado
25 May
Everyone is my friend here thanks for these tips
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
You're so friendly and approachable that's why.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
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• Wheat Ridge, Colorado
25 May
@Jenaisle Yes I am the black widow spider
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@Tampa_girl7 (48855)
• United States
25 May
I love my time here on Mylot. I always try to be kind and friendly.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
I love it here too. You're friendly and kind indeed. Thank you.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48855)
• United States
25 May
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@Subase (88)
• Indonesia
27 May
I think Mylot is more fun compared to other social media. All members are very responsive and fun so it will reduce stress.
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@MarieCoyle (27149)
25 May
I honestly think the key to being here is to be accepting of other's cultures and differences, as well as likes and dislikes. No one is going to agree with everything everyone says or does, they just aren't. It's that way in everyday life, and in places like this. I tend to lean towards this being somewhat of a learning experience--we learn from others, and they learn from us. Acceptance is the true key, in my opinion. But, that's just me!
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
That's the keyword, acceptance. Yes. thank you so much for this tip. It is what you say it is. Very well-explained too. Again, thank you, Marie.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
26 May
@MarieCoyle I borrowed your expression and used it here on MyLot already. May I use it back to you? YOU ROCK as well, Marie. Thank you.
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@MarieCoyle (27149)
26 May
@Jenaisle I really like this post you made. It's something we all need to think about. We are all different, it's always been that way and it always will be. Like I've said before, you rock!
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@youless (112091)
• Guangzhou, China
25 May
Most Mylotters are friendly and it is easy to make friends here
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@youless (112091)
• Guangzhou, China
25 May
@Jenaisle Being friendly to others and you will have more friends here
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
@youless I concur.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
I have to agree. It's easy to make friends. Do you have additional tips to share?
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@snowy22315 (168376)
• United States
25 May
Good tips
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
Thank you. Happy Mylotting.
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@DaddyEvil (137251)
• United States
25 May
These are excellent tips.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
Wow, you're here DE. Thanks for saying that. I wonder why you aren't posting any new discussion? Anyway, Have fun the rest of the day.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
@DaddyEvil I understand now,
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@DaddyEvil (137251)
• United States
25 May
@Jenaisle You're welcome. I don't like answering the same questions again and again on a discussion. I prefer to talk to people on their discussions instead. Thanks. You, too.
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@akalinus (40322)
• United States
25 May
I love this @genaisle. You stated this very well. Each point is true. I think the don't write in a condescending way is important. Some people scold others for various reasons. Let love and respect for others shine through.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
I'm glad you agree. It's true, let's love nd respect one another.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
@akalinus I agree we need love not only on MyLot but all over the world,
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@akalinus (40322)
• United States
25 May
@Jenaisle Yes, the world needs a lot more of this. A lot of people are hurting.
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@just4him (303325)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
25 May
I've been doing what you suggested for many years. I gain friends by being friendly and cheerful.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
Yes, I noticed. Thank you for being friendly to me as well.
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@just4him (303325)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
25 May
@Jenaisle You're welcome.
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@Metsrock69 (3470)
• United States
25 May
Very good tips. I always try and respond to all of my comments. I also go searching other pages for more content
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
That's a good thing to do. You would discover more ideas and gain more friends.
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• United States
25 May
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@lovebuglena (42907)
• Staten Island, New York
25 May
I’d say agree to disagree if there is ever a topic where opinions clash. Also, don’t just talk about yourself. Ask about the other person. That’s if you’re having a conversation in the comments.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
Thank you, those are great pointers. Sometimes, I hesitate to ask about the other person because my question might be too personal for him/her. I'll remember this from now on. Happy MyLotting.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
@lovebuglena Yes, sometimes I do that. Thanks for the pointers.
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@lovebuglena (42907)
• Staten Island, New York
25 May
@Jenaisle It can happen that we are commenting and we end up talking only about ourselves without even realizing we are doing it.
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• Indonesia
25 May
What a good tips. Thank you for sharing, My Dear. I hope I can practice all of the tips. Borahae
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
You can my dearie, you're an upright and smart person. . You're still young and you could develop these traits more as you grow older. Borahae.
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• Indonesia
26 May
@Jenaisle Thank you very much for your kind words, My Dear. I'm glad I can learn so much through mylot, including your posts. Borahae.
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@shaggin (71573)
• United States
26 May
This is a really good list you have come up with. Being open minded or understanding is definitely needed with the differences in cultures here. I so agree there are good and bad in every country! People who don’t respond to the comments they receive irritate me!
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@shaggin (71573)
• United States
26 May
@Jenaisle oh good point about it being like ignoring someone who is talking to you
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
27 May
@shaggin Right, it's the same thing.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
26 May
Same here. It's disrespectful. It's like talking to someone who ignores you. Yes, we all need to adjust to the culture of each one of us. Thank you and happy MyLotting.
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@LindaOHio (153181)
• United States
26 May
Good tips. I got friends just from talking to people over a long period of time and exchanging information about where we live, etc.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
26 May
That's wonderful to be friends even outside of MyLot. Have a great weekend.
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@LindaOHio (153181)
• United States
26 May
@Jenaisle Thanks. You have a great weekend too.
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@manikarnika (3222)
• India
25 May
I hope , most members of mylot were aware about this.Nice article.Thanks for sharing
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
25 May
You're welcome. Yes, I do hope more will read the post. I know many MyLotters know these things already. So, these could serve as reminders. Happy mylotting.
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@banksim (5196)
26 May
thanks for your generous tips, i am not regular but some time i use mylot
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
26 May
You're welcome. You may want to come here more often and enjoy the conversation and interaction among members.
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@banksim (5196)
26 May
@Jenaisle ok i will try to do
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@Nakitakona (56322)
• Philippines
26 May
I do agree with you. When did you join with this site?
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
26 May
I joined more than 10 years ago. left for several years and then rejoined again.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
26 May
@Nakitakona I see., welcome once again. I hope you remain active.
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@Nakitakona (56322)
• Philippines
26 May
@Jenaisle ok. We have same situation I have been here several years and became inactive then later rejoined under new username for I forgot my pwd.
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@Subase (88)
• Indonesia
26 May
Thanks for sharing, this is very useful for me as a new member in Mylot.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
26 May
You're welcome to the site. I hope you would be active so we can interact more. Happy MyLoting.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
27 May
@Subase That would be great. Have a fun weekend.
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@Subase (88)
• Indonesia
27 May
@Jenaisle Thanks sis, I will always try to be active and respond to every comment,
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