~Starting at the Beginning-Love Bombing~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85295)
Valdosta, Georgia
August 7, 2024 4:16pm CST
The first stage of narcissistic abuse is the Love Bombing stage.
Picture this...a sheltered, immature 19 year old girl looking for love and having no real experience with it.
A "sweet" guy comes along, showers her with affection/compliments/false promises of the future/and hope for a Happily ever after. This girl thinks she found her prince charming not realizing he's the devil in disguise all along...
To start the Happily Ever After promise they had to be "by themselves" he said. So isolation began, away from friends and family.
More to come...
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@celticeagle (178436)
• Boise, Idaho
7 Aug 24
It's so nice to see you here again after so long.
This scenario doesn't sound good.
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@celticeagle (178436)
• Boise, Idaho
8 Aug 24
@LovingMyBabies .......I am fine. Daughter and grandson too.
So sorry to hear this is happening to you. I've been through it too. Things will get better for you. You have many friends here who care about you. I hope he seeks some help.
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@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 24
@celticeagle Thank you so much! Unfortunately he doesn't see any fault in himself so he will never seek help.
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@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 24
@celticeagle It's good to be here, I hope you're doing well!
It's the nightmare of my life sadly, but soon it will change.
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@RasmaSandra (88028)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
7 Aug 24
Sounds like one of those thriller movies where nothing good can happen
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@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug 24
@RasmaSandra Sadly, this is part of my life story. 
And it is a nightmare.
And it is a nightmare.4 people like this
@RasmaSandra (88028)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
7 Aug 24
@LovingMyBabies sorry to hear that
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@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug 24
@RasmaSandra Thank you, the Lord will open new doors so I can leave with my children soon.
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@GardenGerty (165387)
• United States
8 Aug 24
Since I have known you so long, I can remember all the times you guys moved and how you moved far from your family.
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@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 24
@GardenGerty Yes, tactics I didn't realize were that until very recently.
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@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug 24
@just4him I'm so so sorry. =( I'm grateful the Lord opened my eyes to my husband's true colors so I can save money and leave with my children.
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@just4him (318795)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Aug 24
@LovingMyBabies Thank you.
I'm glad the Lord opened your eyes too. I wish you only God's best for your future.
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@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 24
@LindaOhio Thank you, my heart has been broken of being with a complete fake but God will restore all that has been lost!
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@LindaOHio (197990)
• United States
9 Aug 24
@LovingMyBabies You're very welcome.
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@2ndchances24 (10781)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
8 Aug 24
Yep that is how I ended up with my 1st & 2nd 1 both
were the same way & after 4 yrs with both I left them
& found my prince charming when God put him n my life.
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@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 24
@2ndchances24 Yes!! I'm trusting the Lord next time around to bring me the one I was actually meant to be with here on Earth. I'm soooo glad God brought you your true prince charming!! 
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@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 24
@2ndchances24 The Lord showed me I'll end up with someone who He wants for me, after I heal!
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@2ndchances24 (10781)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
8 Aug 24
@LovingMyBabies you'll know when the right 1 shows up
just for now focus on what YOU need to do in life & what
you want to succeed in, cause you know some people never
get the chance to have a partner in life & live just as happy.
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@kareng (78698)
• United States
10 Aug 24
@LovingMyBabies I am glad you are back on myLot so we can all help support you as you move on! Big hugs!
@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 24
@kareng Thank you, it gets so much worse with what I've been through but God will restore all that's been lost. 
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@snowy22315 (194565)
• United States
7 Aug 24
Sorry you two are on the skids. However, what will be, will be.
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@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Aug 24
@snowy22315 It's time to stop being abused, and the Lord gave me peace about leaving.
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@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
17 Sep
@rebelann Mental and emotional abuse is just as bad, I've lived it for 20 years and it's awful.
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@rebelann (114414)
• El Paso, Texas
17 Sep
Yes, both are really bad but thankfully you've never suffered bruises or broken bones, those 2 can become fatal.
@LeaPea2417 (38234)
• Toccoa, Georgia
8 Aug 24
I know I say it a lot to different people here and other places online, so I feel like a broken record, but I really am praying for your situation.
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@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 24
@Leapea2417 Praying for others is the greatest gift you can ever give them! Thank you!!
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@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 24
@Juliaacv Yes absolutely he did just that, I just couldn't see it through Rose colored glasses.
Thank you, I'm praying it saves someone else before it's too late for them!
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@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 24
@paigea I wish it was too, thank you so much.
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@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 24
@Shiva49 He is exactly that!! And I was too young and blind to see it until just recently.
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@everwonderwhy (7383)
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8 Aug 24
@LovingMyBabies Kids growing pains. Or love gone sour and dangerously selfish.
Or love gone sour and dangerously selfish.1 person likes this
@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 24
@everwonderwhy Nope emotional and mental abuse sadly.
@LovingMyBabies (85295)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 24
@everwonderwhy I do, I'm so grateful the Lord has blessed me with great people in my life. 
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@everwonderwhy (7383)
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8 Aug 24
@LovingMyBabies Do you have close and trusted family and friends for your plan of escape?
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