A lifetime of gardening

@JudyEv (382240)
Rockingham, Australia
December 19, 2024 6:35pm CST
My mother loved her garden and spent hours in it every day. Because of our climate, our potted plants need shelter from the sun so rather than hot-houses we have shade houses. She had two ‘shade-houses’. If a frost was predicted in the winter, she’d light two old kerosene lanterns and leave them burning in the houses overnight. Mum was always propagating plants from cuttings or seeds. She would donate dozens of potted plants for various street stalls including the Red Cross. This organisation had one big stall each year and towards the end of her life, Mum was donating upwards of 100 plants. Several men would come in the morning and load up their vehicles with the pots. Mum was always encouraged to be behind the stall to tell people how best to grow whatever it was they might be buying. She never belonged to the Red Cross but she was made an honorary Life Member for her contribution by way of her plants. The photo shows Mum with her tools of trade. Over the years, one spade and the fork have been worn down to half their former size.
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@wolfgirl569 (135819)
• Marion, Ohio
20 Dec 24
She did a wonderful thing with those plants. Lovely picture of her
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Dec 24
She was always whistling when she was in the garden. It made her easy to find.
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@wolfgirl569 (135819)
• Marion, Ohio
20 Dec 24
@JudyEv That would and shows how much she enjoyed it
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@snowy22315 (208994)
• United States
20 Dec 24
Your mom sounds like a hard worker and a generous soul.
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Dec 24
She was certainly a hard worker. I think women of that era mostly were.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
20 Dec 24
She is adorable here . . . I can totally see the family resemblance . My goodness, you weren't kidding about all those plants stemming from her garden . . . she truly had green thumbs!!
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Dec 24
@JudyEv Where'd she learn to be such a fine gardener - does it run in the family ?
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Dec 24
@much2say My sister is a good gardener but I have a bit of catching up to do!
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Dec 24
Just about everything grew for her. I'm enjoying having a few plants now.
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@kaylachan (84815)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
20 Dec 24
Sounds like she had a green thumb.
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@kaylachan (84815)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
20 Dec 24
@JudyEv That's good.
@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Dec 24
Just about everything grew for her.
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@jstory07 (148734)
• Roseburg, Oregon
20 Dec 24
Your mother really loved her gardening.
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Dec 24
If I couldn't find her, I'd just follow the hose.
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
20 Dec 24
i never thought how different climates need different thing - like "shade houses". never thought about it. your mom seems like a generous lady did you keep tradition or someone else continued to take care of plants?
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Dec 24
I am trying to be a better gardener now. My sister is a very good gardener.
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Dec 24
@aureategloom My friend chose roses for their scent and when you walked through her garden, you could smell the roses without even trying to.
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• Bosnia And Herzegovina
21 Dec 24
@JudyEv my mom also used to have a big garden, but she stopped doing it few years ago, i still don't know why. and my grandma, she loves her flowers. she has many different flowers in her garden, but mostly roses. it looks really nice.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
20 Dec 24
What a great memory and photo of your mom! What a nice honor to receive an honorary Life Member to Red Cross. She deserved it! I can see you in her face!!
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
20 Dec 24
@JudyEv I have always been told I took after my dad in looks but now later in life I can see how I do look like my mom too.
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Dec 24
Others have said I look like her but I can't really see it. I don't seem to have her green fingers but I'm working on it.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
20 Dec 24
How wonderful she did had such a green thumb and used it for such good. I see a few resembles between you and her.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
20 Dec 24
@JudyEv your dimples and nose I think are what I see
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Dec 24
Others have said I look like her. I can't really see it myself but that's okay.
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Dec 24
@shaggin Oh okay. That makes sense.
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
20 Dec 24
How come you are not as much of a green thumb?
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Dec 24
My excuse could be that I haven't had much of an opportunity. The last 20 years, before th last five, I had to contend with the kangaroos and I preferred the 'roos so didn't worry too much about the garden. But I'm trying to do better now.
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
21 Dec 24
@JudyEv Honestly, I would prefer the roos too, but because I am lazy...LOL
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@rebelann (117244)
• El Paso, Texas
20 Dec 24
What a wonderful memory of you mum. I'm sure she's smiling down on you as you praise her.
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@rebelann (117244)
• El Paso, Texas
20 Dec 24
Yes, they truly are. I'm sure she's in Heaven and is keeping an eye on you.
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Dec 24
Mums are so special, aren't they? I hope she is happy in a garden in Heaven somewhere.
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@RebeccasFarm (91297)
• United States
20 Dec 24
Gosh your Mother was such a lovely lady..so endearing Judy.
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• United States
21 Dec 24
@JudyEv Yes mine the same RIP both.
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Dec 24
My Mum was a darling. Everyone loved her.
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@rakski (156506)
• Philippines
22 Dec 24
You don't really be a part of it to be really a part of it, as they said. She made more than enough contributions to them
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@rakski (156506)
• Philippines
23 Dec 24
@JudyEv she's an awesome lady!
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Dec 24
Yes, that's true. They were very good to her and helped a great deal with picking up her and the plants, etc and looking after her on the day. She was in her 80s and 90s at the time.
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@noni1959 (13048)
• United States
20 Dec 24
What a beautiful lady and such a wonderful tribute.
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@noni1959 (13048)
• United States
20 Dec 24
@JudyEv I love this story. What a beautiful lady.
@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Dec 24
She gave away thousands of plants in her lifetime. Barely anyone left the house without something.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
22 Dec 24
It's a nice feeling to spread the joy to others through what you enjoy doing.
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Dec 24
It is indeed. Mum loved giving plants away to others.
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@Juliaacv (56298)
• Canada
20 Dec 24
I noticed the size of the prongs on the fork and how little 'shovel' there was left on that one handle. She must have been so very passionate about her plants, that is so admirable. I suppose that is where you get your love of gardening from.
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Dec 24
I haven't always had the opportunity to garden much but I'm getting into it more here.
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@RasmaSandra (98033)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
20 Dec 24
I love that photo of your mom, She looks like a determined gardener,
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Dec 24
I'm sure gardening was what kept her so fit and healthy.
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@LindaOHio (222534)
• United States
20 Dec 24
What a wonderful picture. Your Mum did a lot of good in her life. Have a good weekend.
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Dec 24
She was very generous with whatever she had to share.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
20 Dec 24
Wow!. I am glad that her good work and contributions have been recognized.
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Dec 24
Thanks. She was very humbled to get the award.
• Philippines
20 Dec 24
Your mom was very kind, and she truly is beautiful!
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Dec 24
Thanks. Like many Mums, she was very special.
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@Beestring (15372)
• Hong Kong
20 Dec 24
Your mother is an extraordinary woman.
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Dec 24
She was very kind to many people in her lifetime.
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