Birthday Dinner Tonight for my Husband

@kareng (80243)
United States
December 22, 2024 10:05pm CST
I tried to get him to go out last night for his birthday dinner, but he didn't want to get dressed and just go out to eat. This man is hard headed, but I suppose a good thing we didn't go. We would have been going back to McComb again today if we had gone last night. He chose Santa Fe Cattle Co. for his birthday dinner and that is where we went...after he ran into Harbor Freight for a new gas can. He needed a new can to put diesel. He got ribs, green beans and fries. I opted for fried fish, a green salad and a baked potato. Everything was good and we had an excellent server. After dinner I ran into Walmart to pick up milk and coffee creamer. They were totally out of coffee creamer and did not have a single carton of any size and brand. Humm. So, I have a question for you guys--Do you always not think of everything you need when you go to pick something up? We were just at Home Depot the other night and had to stop at Lowe's. Ladies, does your husband do this also or is mine just scatter-brained? Photo Credit: Pixabay, Public Domain
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@Tampa_girl7 (54715)
• United States
23 Dec 24
I try to have a list of what we need. I check it off as I get the items. It really helps.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
15 Mar 25
@porwest A running list is always good!
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
I like my list and try to make it as it is found in the store. That is good until they rearrange!
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@porwest (112804)
• United States
15 Mar 25
I always have a list. It really does help. It's too easy to forget something, and because I shop multiple stores depending on the price, I don't want to run out of something.
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@MarieCoyle (59149)
23 Dec 24
It sounds like you both had a delicious dinner. I hope he had a nice birthday. My ex forgot everything. Car keys, where he was going, lists, forgot to get gas ALL the time, the kids said he forgot their names, birthdays, everything. So in my opinion, your husband is doing great!
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
23 Dec 24
The funny thing is he always thinks that I am the one that is very forgetful. He has his share of senior moments!
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@MarieCoyle (59149)
23 Dec 24
@kareng Just try not to be forgetful on the same days, take turns!
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@Dreamerby (10111)
• Calcutta, India
23 Dec 24
@AmbiePam (120640)
• United States
23 Dec 24
That dinner sounds excellent.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
23 Dec 24
We enjoyed it and I enjoyed no cooking and dishes to stash in dishwasher!
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@marguicha (230351)
• Chile
23 Dec 24
Happy belated Birthday!
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
23 Dec 24
Thank you!
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@Juliaacv (56180)
• Canada
23 Dec 24
Happy belated birthday to him! You and he had a great celebration spending time together going for the drive and meal out and shopping. Shopping today would be very busy I am sure. When I go out I always make a list of places to go and what I need where. I started that practice when we were younger and we lived in a little rural village. We tried not to make any unnecessary trips to town.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
Thank you! I am a list person also and do the same thing. I try to do all the errands on the list when I go out. Sometimes I have one or two left that I will move up to the top of the list for the next trip.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
@Juliaacv I miss that price matching! Nobody does it around here anymore.
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@Juliaacv (56180)
• Canada
24 Dec 24
@kareng On my grocery list, I draw a line down the middle and list the items that I will price match as the grocery store that I shop at matches, but they like to have them up on the belt at the very end. Listing them allows me to pull up the app so that I can show the flyers to the cashier. I am a list lover.
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@sallypup (69162)
• Centralia, Washington
23 Dec 24
That reminds me of shopping on Amazon. Hubby and I will order something. I'll say You want anything else? No. Next night: I'm out of hearing aid batteries. And on we go..... Happy birthday to your hubby.
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@sallypup (69162)
• Centralia, Washington
23 Dec 24
@kareng It must be a hubby wife thing. That conversation is exactly what goes on at my house.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
23 Dec 24
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@snowy22315 (208807)
• United States
24 Dec 24
Not currently married, but friend doesn't forget things as much as just getting the wrong things. I have taken to putting pictures on his phone of exactly what I want, and tell him to ask somebody if there is any doubt! Marie from here once asked her hubby to get her a zucchini and he came back with a cucumber
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
I have done the picture thing too! You have to sometimes! That's funny on the zucchini and cucumber! Well, he got the right color!
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
24 Dec 24
That took me to an incident when my sister pointed out to her husband that he had not brought a certain thing that was in the list she had given him. The prompt response was "Who looks at your list?"
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
I imagine that she didn't think it was funny though!
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
24 Dec 24
@kareng There was no love lost between them anyway
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@FourWalls (86623)
• United States
23 Dec 24
Oh, I do it all the time. Can’t blame hubby because I’m not married. Does Santa Fe Cattle still have that little loaf of dark bread? Ooh, that stuff was so good.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
No, they serve rolls now. And all of a sudden, the last two times we went there we were served 3 rolls. I guess we are supposed to split a roll. The other night we were offered a refill on rolls and got 4 in the second serving. It may be that they are running low or too many orders coming in at one time. Who knows. Just odd!
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@rakski (156303)
• Philippines
23 Dec 24
Happy birthday to your husband!!!
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
Thank you so much!
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@rakski (156303)
• Philippines
24 Dec 24
@kareng welcome
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
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@RasmaSandra (97954)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
23 Dec 24
Glad you have a nice meal for his birthday, I have not been in a store for ages, Everything I get I get online, If I entered a store now I would be like Alice in Wonderland,
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
He deserved a treat!
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@LindaOHio (222280)
• United States
23 Dec 24
I'm glad you and your husband had a nice dinner. I do all my shopping online now. I can add something to my cart if I think of something extra. Hubby is no longer home as you know. Have a good week.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
Hoping you have a nice week, Linda. I'm so glad you get to spend Christmas Day with your husband.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
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@LindaOHio (222280)
• United States
24 Dec 24
@kareng Thank you. Yes, he was excited that I was coming tomorrow.
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@porwest (112804)
• United States
23 Dec 24
Usually when I go anywhere I have a plan and a list. But I am also anal retentive. lol Happy birthday to him, though.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
Anal retentive-- imagine that!! Thanks for the birthday wishes for the hubs!
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
28 Dec 24
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@porwest (112804)
• United States
28 Dec 24
@kareng I know. Shocking, right? lol
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
23 Dec 24
did you find milk and coffee creamer in the end? first eggs, now this i'm the one that forgets we bought groceries on saturday and this morning i woke up and i'm like "we need to buy rice soon" he looked at me in disbelief
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
I got milk, but no coffee creamer. No biggie, we are just using milk in our coffee.
@wolfgirl569 (135664)
• Marion, Ohio
23 Dec 24
I think they are all scatterbrained
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
I agree!
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@JudyEv (381960)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Dec 24
Vince rolls through life without a lot of thought sometimes and we often find ourselves having to backtrack.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
I can relate to that. I see my hubby doing that too.
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@Dreamerby (10111)
• Calcutta, India
23 Dec 24
Glad you spent the day well and shared beautiful moments
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
24 Dec 24
Yes, that is what counts!
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