A wigwam for a goose's bridle

@JudyEv (382021)
Rockingham, Australia
February 23, 2025 8:25pm CST
@DaddyEvil wrote about a phrase his father used that made no sense to him. I can remember some phrases which adults might use if a child asked a question they didn’t want to answer, or simply couldn’t be bothered explaining. My father would be in the middle of doing something and I’d ask him what he was making. He’s sometimes answer with ‘a wigwam for a goose’s bridle’ which made absolutely no sense whatsoever. Any other similar stories? The photo is of geese at my nephew's place
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@allknowing (153530)
• India
24 Feb 25
As kids there have been so many stories told that we believed then.
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Feb 25
We were all quite gullible as children.
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@allknowing (153530)
• India
24 Feb 25
@JudyEv The famous story was when both mother and father would go to see a movie we were told they were going to a doctor for check up My sister and her husband always spelt the word and one fine day their son said he knew what they were talking about
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Feb 25
@allknowing We would spell out 'ice-cream' in front of our 4-year-old and one day he said 'Can I have one'. lol
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@FourWalls (86680)
• United States
24 Feb 25
Now you know I had to look that one up. Wikipedia says it’s one of two things: something nonsensical, or “none of your business.” I had never heard that before, but I like it!!!
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Feb 25
It mostly meant the second for the times I asked.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
24 Feb 25
When my children were small, I tried to explain everything in the best way to my children. That was because I was too young. I learnt a long time later that my children had understood something else.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
25 Feb 25
@JudyEv I wholly agree with that.
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@Fleura (35007)
• United Kingdom
24 Feb 25
What do you mean by 'something else'? I always explained (and still do) everything to my children, and I wasn't too young!
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Feb 25
I think people need more training in being parents. It's such an important job but there seems no training for it.
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@DaddyEvil (174405)
• United States
24 Feb 25
I tried not to tell Pretty things that didn't make sense. If she asked, I'd explain whatever she asked about.
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@DaddyEvil (174405)
• United States
24 Feb 25
@JudyEv Thank you. I always tried to be...
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Feb 25
You were such a good Dad. It's obvious in so much of what you say.
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@Deepizzaguy (122141)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
24 Feb 25
I remember a saying that my late dad would say which was "Your mother wears army shoes.' I did not understand what me meant to say.
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Feb 25
It sounds similar to one member of the household 'wearing the pants'. Perhaps your mother was quite strict in some ways.
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@Deepizzaguy (122141)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
24 Feb 25
@JudyEv My late mom was strict in terms of having her children behave in public and not give anyone reason to make comments about our behavior in public as bad persons.
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Feb 25
@Deepizzaguy There seems to be many parents nowadays who don't care how their children act in public.
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
24 Feb 25
That's funny.
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Feb 25
If I was told that, I knew I wouldn't be told anything more.
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@BarBaraPrz (51819)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
24 Feb 25
So, did you ever ask him about it when you were older? My mother would make "figgy-miggy" for supper, basically leftovers heated up in a pan.
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@BarBaraPrz (51819)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
25 Feb 25
@JudyEv I think it's exclusive to my brother and sisters. My husband didn't know what I was talking about the first time I said it to him.
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Feb 25
@BarBaraPrz So probably unique to your family.
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Feb 25
No, I didn't follow up on it. I haven't heard of figgy-miggy. I wonder if anyone else knows that term.
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@jstory07 (148730)
• Roseburg, Oregon
24 Feb 25
That makes no sense at all.
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Feb 25
No, it doesn't. Just some silly words.
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@Juliaacv (56241)
• Canada
24 Feb 25
I really like this one. Often my husband will tell me how the girls asked him why why why alot on certain days. That saying would come into handy and may silence them for 1 why, but he would need a few back ups.
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Feb 25
They might stop and ponder on it for a short time. Or less they'd immediately ask what a wigwam was! lol
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@Tampa_girl7 (54715)
• United States
24 Feb 25
That is a sweet memory for you I’m sure.
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Feb 25
Kids have so much to learn, don't they?
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@1creekgirl (44560)
• United States
24 Feb 25
That is really strange, isn't it? Did you ever figure out even remotely what it means?
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@1creekgirl (44560)
• United States
25 Feb 25
@JudyEv Probably!
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Feb 25
I think he just wanted me to go away or perhaps he enjoyed seeing my puzzled face. lol
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@franxav (14591)
• India
24 Feb 25
The smallest boy in my foster family stumps me with his questions. I try to give sometimes evasive answers but in the long run I have to give the truest answer possible.
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Feb 25
It's surely best to be as truthful as possible. I can't remember the circumstances under which my parents would say this to me.
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@Ronrybs (21497)
• London, England
24 Feb 25
That is a strange one! I must have lead a sheltered life as I can't recall any weird sayings
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Feb 25
Here's another for you. About people getting their 'just desserts'. What sort of a phase is that?
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@Ronrybs (21497)
• London, England
25 Feb 25
@JudyEv Not heard that one in a while
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@Dreamerby (10111)
• Calcutta, India
24 Feb 25
I looked up the word- wigwam. Yeah it doesn't make any sense. Wigwam for a goose might have made sense.
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Feb 25
Yes, true but it's just a silly expression.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
26 Feb 25
Huh never heard that phrase your dad said and I wonder how it came about. I feel like as an adult I can start to piece meanings together but as a kid and teen most phrases people said rarely made sense. I like this pretty straight forward.
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Feb 25
Everyone is different. We have a friend who likes things black and white too. She doesn't really get jokes very well.
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@Orson_Kart (8259)
• United Kingdom
25 Feb 25
That’s a great saying, and not one I’ve heard before. I remember, as a young lad, being told if I asked adults where they were going, getting the answer: “To see a man about a dog”, or “there and back to see how far it is” It was usual well-dressed men going to the pub.
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Feb 25
I've heard both those but particularly the one about the dog.
@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
24 Feb 25
Most of the time we remember the things which have no meaning.
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Feb 25
I guess because they have no meaning, they stick in our mind more.
@wolfgirl569 (135742)
• Marion, Ohio
24 Feb 25
Mine just told me not to worry about it.
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Feb 25
Fair enough.
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@RasmaSandra (98005)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
24 Feb 25
Those are such cute geese. I have never heard of that saying,
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Feb 25
I haven't heard it since I was a child.
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• India
24 Feb 25
It is interesting how these quirky phrases from past stick with us. It’s amazing how adults sometimes have these go-to-responses when they do not want to answer something or do not know how to explain. Your dad’ phrase “a wigwam for a goose’s bridle” is one of these strange, mysterious answers that children had to accept. I often used to hear from my parents “It’s not the end of world” whenever something minor went wrong, even if I felt the same at the time. I also have heard “that’s the way the cookie crumble” and it made no sense then. This kind of sayings might have a way to distract or deflect us without any long explanations. It’s funny how these little moments and phrases shape our memory!
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@JudyEv (382021)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Feb 25
Yes, I've heard those too. We do have some strange sayings.
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