Weird encounter

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Kenya
March 10, 2025 4:58am CST
I met a man 4 days ago. I didn't tell him yes to marriage since I want to date first. We were to have out first date yesterday. He never honored his time took around 2hours late. I canceled the date and went to see a friend. The guy insulted me so much via the phone.i told him no I can't date him and he doesn't deserve a second chance. He's weird, narcissistic,immature. Gosh, I'm just wondering how some people just feel entitled.. That was my Sunday, did you have a good weekend?. What are your thoughts about this weird guy in question?
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@porwest (99739)
• United States
10 Mar
I am trying to wrap my head around why you would have agreed to a date in the first place after the guy proposed BEFORE even meeting you. That would have been my FIRST red flag. lol
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• Kenya
10 Mar
I thought so too but it escalated I had planned to tell him on his face that it's no for me since the first day meeting I didn't lile how he even talked
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@porwest (99739)
• United States
10 Mar
@Laurakemunto Seems like you dodged a bullet. lol
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• Kenya
10 Mar
@porwest and am very glad about it. I just wonder why some people are just aggressive, hurt, manipulative and can't take rejection in a positive manner
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@JordanLader (5918)
• Sparta, Tennessee
10 Mar
I'd probably do the same thing you did just with a lot of attitude. I've never been one to tolerate being disrespected especially when I didn't do anything the other person did. My weekend was great. A lot of fire department stuff and a structure fire.
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• Kenya
10 Mar
Yes I was to give him my peace of mind physically but lol the guy is not a human being
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@allknowing (145323)
• India
10 Mar
My week end was good Had left overs and so no cooking
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• Kenya
10 Mar
That's nice I wish you a blessed new week
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@DaddyEvil (147698)
• United States
10 Mar
He proposed before your first date? Run, don't walk, run the other way!
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@DaddyEvil (147698)
• United States
10 Mar
@Laurakemunto There is something wrong with him. I'm glad you aren't looking back.
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• Kenya
10 Mar
Yes it's so weird and am glad never looking back
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• Kenya
13 Mar
@DaddyEvil yea very true I'm never looking back
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@rakski (135693)
• Philippines
10 Mar
What a weekend you have! Good thing you just go your way.
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@rakski (135693)
• Philippines
11 Mar
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• Kenya
11 Mar
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• Kenya
10 Mar
Am glad I had too.
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• United States
10 Mar
I think you were smart to not get involved with this guy. Sounds like he would have made a terrible partner
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• Kenya
10 Mar
Very right you can imagine even the way he's talking just aggressive and talking bad of his fellow workers whom I don't even know
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@snowy22315 (189126)
• United States
15 Mar
Last weekend was OK. You are definitely better off without strange dude. You probably dodged a bullet.
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• Kenya
16 Mar
You are very right about that
@Orson_Kart (7335)
• United Kingdom
25 Mar
Is this someone you’ve been in an online relationship? Asking you to marry him after 4 days is a bit quick. I think you’ve had a lucky escape if he then abused you on the phone. Good luck with your next venture into the world of love!
@jstory07 (143874)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Mar
That man sounds like a jerk you are better off without him.
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• Kenya
13 Mar
I agree with you some people are just so indifferent
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@wolfgirl569 (115782)
• Marion, Ohio
10 Mar
I would not have agreed to a date at all.
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• Kenya
10 Mar
He's more than weird
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13 Mar
thanks laura for sharing the experience . for what good quality did you find in that person? Sometimes if people are rude there is no point spending more time with them
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• Kenya
13 Mar
That's why I declined everything to do with him for my peace of mind
@grenery8 (16672)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
11 Mar
unless he was saving his or other people's lives, he doesn't deserve a chance. really sorry.
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• Kenya
13 Mar
True I did put a capital fullstop.
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• Kenya
14 Mar
@grenery8 sm trusting the universe to us locate each other soon
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@grenery8 (16672)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
13 Mar
@Laurakemunto and with right. some better person should walk into your wife.
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