A chance remark made my night

@JudyEv (362906)
Rockingham, Australia
July 16, 2025 2:37am CST
Amber (@AmbiePam) put up a photo of her 80-year-old aunt Lana who looks incredible for her age. It reminded me of what happened on Monday night when we went to listen to a sea shanty group at a pub. Vince, his brother and I were there. It was quite crowded and we ended up sitting in a booth opposite three strangers, who were very pleasant. There was a husband, wife and their son who was the designated driver. The husband sang a couple of shanties and had a good voice. At one point, I was chatting with the wife and she asked which of the two men was my father. I didn’t laugh then but I thought it was hilarious and couldn’t wait to tell my ‘fathers’ on the way home. I am actually older than both of them but obviously I don’t look it.
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@LadyDuck (483401)
• Italy
16 Jul
Poor Vince, I am sure that he did not appreciate a bit.
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@LadyDuck (483401)
• Italy
16 Jul
@JudyEv Oh my goodness, I remember that my brother did not appreciate when the family of his wife (at his wedding) asked how many years younger his sister was. I am 18 months older.
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@JudyEv (362906)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Jul
@LadyDuck In our village there are a lot of couples where the wife looks a lot younger than her husband. I can imagine your brother being a bit upset.
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@JudyEv (362906)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Jul
I think his brother appreciated it even less!!
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@allknowing (153539)
• India
16 Jul
That did not make just a night but I am sure it will make your many days.
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@allknowing (153539)
• India
16 Jul
@JudyEv I think many of us go through this experience at some point in our life.
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@JudyEv (362906)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Jul
I have to admit I've told a few people already. lol
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• United States
16 Jul
That's hilarious and a huge compliment. I trust you rubbed their noses in it. For the next several days
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• United States
16 Jul
@JudyEv Hahahah That's really funny. I'm sure everyone laughs. Except them.
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@JudyEv (362906)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Jul
I've been calling my BIL 'Pop' and having a grand old time with it!
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@DaddyEvil (159626)
• United States
16 Jul
I bet both your "fathers" were laughing like maniacs after you told them that. I agree, you don't look your age, either.
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@JudyEv (362906)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Jul
Yes, they thought it was very funny. I'll be sure to remind them of it for a little while.
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@DaddyEvil (159626)
• United States
16 Jul
@JudyEv I don't blame you. I would, too.
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@wolfgirl569 (122304)
• Marion, Ohio
16 Jul
That was a great compliment.
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@JudyEv (362906)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Jul
It was indeed. I'll be reminding them of it from time to time.
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@JordanLader (6476)
• Sparta, Tennessee
16 Jul
I'm sure that will be a joke for a long time lol glad you had a great time and walked away with am amazing memory
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@JudyEv (362906)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Jul
Thanks. It's a good joke to have up my sleeve.
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@AmbiePam (102883)
• United States
16 Jul
That is SO cool.
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@JudyEv (362906)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Jul
Thanks. I was pretty chuffed. I won't let them forget it for a little while longer. lol
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@snowy22315 (196004)
• United States
17 Jul
Ha, Ha...someone once thought friend was my father. He is 10 years older than I am, but he would have been awfully young to be a father..although stranger things may have happened!
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@JudyEv (362906)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Jul
With all the couples in the village, a lot of the wives look much younger.
@xFiacre (14334)
• Ireland
16 Jul
@judyev That’s what most women long to hear!
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@JudyEv (362906)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Jul
I think this is about the third time it's happened but the first was when we were in our 40s.
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@sallypup (66006)
• Centralia, Washington
16 Jul
Good remark. I love sea shanties.
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@JudyEv (362906)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Jul
This group is really good and they have a great guy singing bass. You can just about feel the reverb when he hits a really low note.
@Fleura (32565)
• United Kingdom
16 Jul
Did you tell them? And what did they say?? I laughed to myself the other day when someone described me as a 'young lady'!!
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@JudyEv (362906)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Jul
I spun them along for a while on the way home, saying I heard something that was really going to wreck their evening. They thought it was hilarious. As we got older, 'age' seemed to change. 'Old' are people older than us, and anyone under about 40 is seen as 'young'. Of course, we're only k idding ourselves but there you go. I remember vividly the first time a 'young' person stood up and offered me her seat on a bus.
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@Traceyjayne (5243)
• United Kingdom
16 Jul
That’s brilliant …it must have made you feel really good ….not so much Vince or his brother ….lol
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@JudyEv (362906)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Jul
I didn't tell them until we were on the way home but we all thought it was hilarious.
@LindaOHio (200675)
• United States
17 Jul
Good for you! I am often told I don't look my age either because I have very few wrinkles on my face....the rest of my body is crap though!!! lolololololol
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@JudyEv (362906)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Jul
I think the light wasn't the best in that barroom!!
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@LindaOHio (200675)
• United States
19 Jul
@JudyEv Don't short change yourself.
@Beestring (15781)
• Hong Kong
16 Jul
That's a huge compliment. I think the "Fathers" also had a good laugh.
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@JudyEv (362906)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Jul
They did indeed. We giggled about it all the way home.
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