I Thought We Found A Dorm.

@rakski (143493)
Philippines
July 17, 2025 11:04pm CST
Yes, we were happy yesterday that we were able to finalize and discuss the condo unit with the owner in front of my daughter's school. Everything is clear, and we will just message each other about any concerns and issues we find, and then the owner will finalize the contract. We messaged her last night, but up until now, there has been no reply to us. I do not know if we will wait for her or move forward to find a new one. We want this done and over with so we can prepare. We prefer the unit because it is fully furnished, and we will just look for a roommate. But it feels like we are going back to square one, hopefully not. We are giving the owner the whole day today, and if she still does not message us, then maybe it is time to move forward. Do you think we are doing the right thing?
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12 responses
@LadyDuck (479259)
• Italy
9h
I hope you get an answer, but I would continue to shop around.
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@rakski (143493)
• Philippines
51m
Yes, I am doing that and we will see another one or two today
@Nakitakona (57966)
• Philippines
19h
Since there are students who are looking for a dorm to stay while studying probably there's already one who closed the deal.
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@rakski (143493)
• Philippines
43m
As of the time we talked to her Thursday afternoon, the unit is still available and we already expressed our interest and we discussed already the contract and payments. So I do not know where it went wrong
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@Nakitakona (57966)
• Philippines
25m
@rakski You may know later when the landlord or landlady will contact you.
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@rakski (143493)
• Philippines
Just now
@Nakitakona hopefully when contact us
@rsa101 (39144)
• Philippines
15h
If the owner doesn't respond, that's unfortunate. We can only hope that the rainy day is the reason for the delay. Perhaps the documentation simply needs to be adjusted or refined. However, I believe it's wise to continue searching as long as they haven't responded or given you a contract to adhere to.
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@rsa101 (39144)
• Philippines
Just now
@rakski Goodluck on that one.
@rakski (143493)
• Philippines
49m
Yes, I am still searching and will see another one later
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@id_peace (15829)
• Singapore
13h
My thought is that if the owner does not reply, it meant that she is not interested if it is over an extensive period of time. Time to move on.
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@id_peace (15829)
• Singapore
Just now
@rakski Yes but there are some mean people who simply did not care. They have lack of basic courtesy that their parents failed to teach them.
@rakski (143493)
• Philippines
47m
The owner can always make a courtesy reply that she will no longer have it rented, right? That they changed their minds.
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@DaddyEvil (153689)
• United States
19h
Yes, if you really like that unit, then give the owner the day to return your text message. After that, start looking again. I'm sure there is something for your daughter there. Have you been checking to see if someone else needs a roommate? That might be a good option, too, if they found something before you did. I always think you're doing the right thing.
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@DaddyEvil (153689)
• United States
Just now
@rakski I'm sorry that one didn't work out. I KNOW you'll find something and you'll love it!
@rakski (143493)
• Philippines
46m
It's more than a day now, we will see some units later as well.
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@brokenbee (11123)
• Philippines
1h
Yes, I think you are doing the right thing. If she still doesn't reply, I think it is better to find another one. I remember when I stayed in Manila. The first one was a small room that was occupied by 6 students. It was hard to review.... Then I moved to another apartment. It was better and I was able to review well.
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@rakski (143493)
• Philippines
52m
Yes, we are looking for many options. The lesser the students in a room, the better
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@brokenbee (11123)
• Philippines
Just now
@rakski yes, that would be better so she can focus with her studies...
@snowy22315 (192985)
• United States
10h
I agree with Loo.
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@Jenaisle (15460)
• Philippines
16h
If you both liked the place, then you can wait for the owner to contact you or ensure she received your message.
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@rakski (143493)
• Philippines
48m
We are looking for options. I'm thinking of how will it be if will have concerns in the future when the owner started like ths
@Tampa_girl7 (52897)
• United States
10h
I think that is a wise plan.
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@rakski (143493)
• Philippines
51m
Yes, I think so too
• United States
8h
I would give it a little while but not too long as you don't want to be without accommodations for your daughter when school starts. Hope you hear soon as that condo sounds perfect.
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@rakski (143493)
• Philippines
49m
We will see some units later just in case the one we talked to didn't get back to us
@JudyEv (358766)
• Rockingham, Australia
17h
That is a bit rude that the owner isn't getting back to you.
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@rakski (143493)
• Philippines
45m
I think so too. The owner can always reply that she changed her mind. We already expressed our interest, and talking of contract and payments already
• United States
13h
Definitely move forward just in case. It doesn't hurt to have more options.
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@rakski (143493)
• Philippines
50m
Yes, I am doing that. Later we will see some more units. I don't want to depend on that unit alone.