It was an insanely crazy day!

@MarieCoyle (46424)
July 19, 2025 12:06am CST
That's the only way I can think of to describe it. Son was to have a transfusion, infusion, and before those, an appointment with his primary for a check. He didn't sleep hardly at all last night, just wasn't feeling well at all. So of course, I didn't sleep either. Morning arrived, we got ready and headed out for all of this, which is normal now for us, if you can possibly call our lives normal at this point. Primary check went well, I of course don't go in with him unless he requests me to, but I was out in the waiting area. We left there for the treatment center. Son has had another port put in several weeks back, when he was in the hospital, as it was getting really impossible to find a vein for these treatments, etc. so they said if he had a port again for awhile, it would help the veins to heal again. It's worked before, so yes, we did it again. Plus, the port saves an insane amount of sticks and blown out veins. They hooked him up and immediately had problems. For some reason they do not understand, the port simply didn't work and somehow developed a problem that backed up all the blood they were trying to put in him in his usual transfusion. They checked it, etc. as ports last longer than that! Still didn't work, no matter what they did. Finally a surgical assistant took him and they put in a new port, in the other arm. Then his BP shot up and they couldn't get it down, so they gave him two shots for that (he has AFIB now since the accident). Finally, back to square one and they managed to get the transfusion done, and the new port works. Then the infusion. Then his BP shot back up...more running around by doc and nurses, etc. more meds. I felt like we were in a bad dream. He was pretty wiped out after all of this, and yes, I was as well. I think that's normal, it's easy to get overloaded and worried over medical procedures. Finally about 9PM, we made it back home. He ate some dinner, slept for about 2 hours, and now he is watching TV from the couch. For some reason, of course today was the day I had a lot of phone calls, some medical appointments for him, one for me, several friends, and my daughter, who came to the hospital for awhile to offer her support along with the son in law. Just when I thought things were calming down, I got a call from a very close friend. Her 2 grandsons, ages 10 and 12, were riding a four wheeler and turned it over. The oldest boy wasn't hurt except for some minor cuts. The younger one was life flighted to a larger hospital, and is currently in surgery for a brain bleed. They think he will be ok, but not sure what damage might or might not be permanent at this point, not yet. Usually, I never wish time away. But now it's a new day! I will be glad to put this one behind us!
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@1creekgirl (43893)
• United States
20h
Oh, bless your heart! What harrowing experiences. Is the port okay and bp normal? I'm praying for both of you and that sweet boy who got hurt.
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@MarieCoyle (46424)
19h
Port is new and hopefully will last for several months, unless they feel he can do without it. My friend's grandson seems to have survived the surgery, etc. well, they have not tested him yet to find if he has any permanent damage of any kind. He seems OK, but is of course still in bed and will have a long recovery. Thank you, Vicki.
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@id_peace (15924)
• Singapore
23h
It is a crazy and busy day. I hope that your son is stable now and on the road to recovery. When in the ward, usually it is very difficult to sleep.
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@MarieCoyle (46424)
19h
It has been a very long journey for him. Thanks so much.
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@id_peace (15924)
• Singapore
13h
@MarieCoyle No matter how long the journey will be, he will do well with the support of the family.
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@MarieCoyle (46424)
12h
@id_peace We are all doing the best we can for him. Thank you.
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@Jenaisle (15518)
• Philippines
19 Jul
That's a lot to happen within a day. I would go bonkers too if I experienced that. I admire your strength and courage to hold the line despite everything. I will be praying for you, your son, and even for your friend so that you can gather the strength to keep going. It isn't much, but that is all I could offer.
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@MarieCoyle (46424)
9h
It means a LOT, and I appreciate you so much. Thank you!
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@Jenaisle (15518)
• Philippines
8h
@MarieCoyle You're welcome
@FourWalls (76848)
• United States
10h
Oh, honey, I hate every horrible thing about this. I wish I could do more than pray and hug you.
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@MarieCoyle (46424)
9h
You are a wonderful, treasured friend, and we truly appreciate the hugs and prayers, Karen!!
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@LadyDuck (479421)
• Italy
19 Jul
Oh my goodness, my dear friend you had a horrible day, surely a day to forget. Your poor son had to endure so many procedures and I can barely imagine your stress while you were waiting. And to end the day the tragic event happened to the 2 grandsons of your friend. Let's hope that today is a better day and you can finally receive good news.
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@LadyDuck (479421)
• Italy
6h
@MarieCoyle - I am so glad to know that your son is feeling better. There are days we get terribly depressed.
@MarieCoyle (46424)
9h
Today was better...he rested a lot, and I can say that he is trying to keep his spirit positive. He made the comment that for awhile, he just felt he was going backward, but now he feels like he's got the spirit and strength to fight as much as he has to, to be better. Thank you so much, Anna.
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• Shenzhen, China
12h
it's bearable when you remember you have him around,some souls even long for that but helpless
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@MarieCoyle (46424)
12h
I know our family is very fortunate the wreck he was in didn't kill him. We WILL get him better! Thank you.
@Tampa_girl7 (52908)
• United States
22h
I hope that your son is doing better now and that the young boy will be okay. My son had a friend die from a 4 wheeler accident when they were in elementary school.
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@MarieCoyle (46424)
18h
I feel the laws are not strict enough on the four wheelers. Every summer, same thing, some teen or child is terribly hurt, or killed on one. Kids often do not have enough experience with handling anything like that to be driving it over a rough terrain. Thank you, Marie.
@wolfgirl569 (119551)
• Marion, Ohio
19 Jul
That was a very long day. Hope the young boy will be okay
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@MarieCoyle (46424)
18h
I hope so too, but from what I have understood, they won't know if he has any permanent damage for a few days.
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@RasmaSandra (87079)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16h
Oh, God tht sounds bad, I will put the younger one in my prayers,
@sallypup (65297)
• Centralia, Washington
20h
All I have to offer is a pile of virtual hugs. I'm sorry for all the disasters going on for you and yours.
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@MarieCoyle (46424)
19h
I am determined to get through this, for son to be better, and so forth. Thank you, Lenore.
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@JudyEv (358903)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Jul
That is just so horrible all round. What a dreadful day you've had, not to mention your son. I do hope tomorrow will be better.
@LindaOHio (195107)
• United States
19 Jul
I'm sorry for all the problems that your son had. I hope the young man on the four wheeler will be OK. Hang in there.
@arunima25 (91616)
• Bangalore, India
19 Jul
I love that quote that you put in here. That's a lot to endure in a single day and you did it. You survived this tough day too. Sending all positive thoughts and prayers for your family. I also pray that the young boy recovers well and hope thar there is no concerning damage.
• United States
19 Jul
Oh what a bad day you had. I'm sorry your son has to go through this.
@cherigucchi (15473)
• Philippines
19 Jul
I also worry about my daughter since the rashes are still there. I hope everything will be all right for you.
@Nakitakona (58122)
• Philippines
19 Jul
Sorry to hear the sad plight of your son. Hoping he will be okay.