Slower Dancing Songs: Do You Really Want to Hurt Me

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@FourWalls (79737)
United States
September 4, 2025 11:00am CST
There are songs that you don’t have to hear to “hear.” You see the title, and the song is playing in your head. Good ol’ ear worms. Welcome to one of them. This is one of the songs this month that feature ballads and songs that make you gently move, not “get up and boogie” (as the title of the Silver Convention song said). This is for @rebelann , who’s had too much rocking out to the songs I post…so I’m deliberately going with more mellow tunes. Here’s today’s song. Do You Really Want to Hurt Me - Culture Club Culture Club, and good ol’ Boy George! Come on! Let’s put our hands together for a guy who looks like Brooke Shields and Bob Marley! (Robin Williams) Sometimes I think that Culture Club could ONLY have existed in the 80s. (Then I look at Kiss, Elton John, and all the glam rockers in the 70s…) They were so visual, especially front man George O’Dowd. Culture Club and MTV were made for each other. And, while this is not my favorite Culture Club song, this was their major breakthrough. It’s one of those songs you can sway to and sing along with the chorus (come on, does anyone know any lyrics to this song other than the chorus? ), and it’s a happy transport back to the early 80s. With all the drug problems he’s had in his life, I’m happy that Boy George is still with us. Do You Really Want to Hurt Me Written by Boy George, Mikey Craig, Roy Hay, and Jon Moss Recorded by Culture Club From Kissing to Be Clever, 1982 I could waste a thousand years:
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@rebelann (114919)
• El Paso, Texas
4 Sep
I remember seeing this on MTV when I got my first cable subscription, all I could do was laugh
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@FourWalls (79737)
• United States
4 Sep
I know. I didn’t exactly enjoy watching them as much as listening to them.
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@rebelann (114919)
• El Paso, Texas
4 Sep
Trouble is once seen can't undo he image
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@rebelann (114919)
• El Paso, Texas
4 Sep
Oh dangit, now you've made me look him up.....never heard of him before
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@wolfgirl569 (124251)
• Marion, Ohio
4 Sep
Nope
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@FourWalls (79737)
• United States
4 Sep
Oh well, we’ll eat grapes tomorrow.
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@wolfgirl569 (124251)
• Marion, Ohio
5 Sep
@FourWalls Selling those
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@jstory07 (146227)
• Roseburg, Oregon
5 Sep
That is a nice simple song.
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@FourWalls (79737)
• United States
5 Sep
It is, indeed!
@RasmaSandra (90308)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Sep
Good ole Georgie and his music, He always had more makeup on than I did,
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@FourWalls (79737)
• United States
4 Sep
Me too, I never wore makeup so he obviously covered what I didn’t wear.
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@JudyEv (364833)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Sep
You're right about being able to hear it as soon as you hear the title.
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@FourWalls (79737)
• United States
5 Sep
There are some songs that are like that, and this is definitely one of them!
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@Traceyjayne (6127)
• United Kingdom
4 Sep
For a while, years ago Boy George lived a couple of miles from me, in the local town.
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@FourWalls (79737)
• United States
4 Sep
Wow, that’s cool!
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@AmbiePam (105149)
• United States
4 Sep
This song tickles me for some reason.
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@Tampa_girl7 (53621)
• United States
5 Sep
I have enjoyed some of their music over the years.
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@FourWalls (79737)
• United States
5 Sep
Me too! I enjoyed Colour By Numbers more, but I liked both of their first two albums.
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@Fleura (32976)
• United Kingdom
5 Sep
That certainly takes me back to a certain time!
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@FourWalls (79737)
• United States
5 Sep
Yes, it’s suddenly 1983 again!
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@Deepizzaguy (115552)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
6 Sep
I remember that song sung by Culture Club when it played on the radio in New Orleans.
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@FourWalls (79737)
• United States
6 Sep
I suppose it still gets played, too!
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@Deepizzaguy (115552)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
6 Sep
@FourWalls Our local radio station in Lake Charles plays the song since it fits their claim to play hit songs from the 80s and 90s.
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@NJChicaa (125082)
• United States
4 Sep
Yes. Of course
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@FourWalls (79737)
• United States
4 Sep
Like I know where your radio listening begins and ends.
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@LindaOHio (204683)
• United States
5 Sep
I love Culture Club and this song.
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@FourWalls (79737)
• United States
6 Sep
Hey, I’m doing pretty good this month with you!
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@LindaOHio (204683)
• United States
6 Sep
@FourWalls Will wonders never cease? lol
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@porwest (110185)
• United States
5 Sep
I actually recorded a little cover of this a while back. Gosh, those were the days, hey? Back in the 80s? When MTV actually aired music.
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@FourWalls (79737)
• United States
5 Sep
I read that VH-1 recently said that they were actually going to air nothing but videos for a week. My initial thought: “people still have VH-1?”
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@porwest (110185)
• United States
6 Sep
@FourWalls Right? For me, MTV was always the one I had on if I had any of them on. Now neither are ever on. lol
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5 Sep
yes, nice one to hear
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@FourWalls (79737)
• United States
5 Sep
Glad you enjoyed hearing it!