Do good manners matter to people at large anymore?

@ptrikha_2 (48483)
India
October 4, 2025 12:56am CST
I hadn't planned to write this one. Yet here as I am traveling by Metro, there is an elderly person with a small child. They have not got a seat. There are many young people sitting. Nobody has shown the courtesy to offer them a seat. I could have intervened but at times, I feel that good manners and behavior should come from within. What are people becoming now? Generosity, empathy - are they dying or dead? And then many claim themselves to be righteous! What do you think?
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@RebeccasFarm (95788)
• Arvada, Colorado
4 Oct
There are a few mannerly people around here but not many.
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@ptrikha_2 (48483)
• India
4 Oct
@RebeccasFarm Yes the good mannered ones are very less.
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5 Oct
Why such a comment? weren't there a few who complained that the site goes down on and off due to which they can't comment or message their friends?
4 Oct
Ask and you shall receive. Every individual is comfortable in his or her own orbit. How long did this person stand by the way?
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@ptrikha_2 (48483)
• India
4 Oct
@mytunemagic Close to 10 minutes and then a seat got vacant.
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@jstory07 (146110)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Oct
Thee are still a lot of good people around that have manners.
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@ptrikha_2 (48483)
• India
4 Oct
@jstory07 Yet the average is declining.
@arunima25 (92462)
• Bangalore, India
4 Oct
Hmm...have seen such things happening. But then have experienced other way round too. So agree with Judy Story's comment too. You could have intervened in a polite way.
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@ptrikha_2 (48483)
• India
4 Oct
@arunima25 I have intervened a few times but somehow I was observing if someone would bother. Luckily a seat got empty after sometime and both the elderly person and the boy got to sit. There were around 4 to 5 males aged between 20 and 40 and nobody bothered. Not a good sign.