Seeing children that are panhandlers.

@MarieCoyle (49562)
October 8, 2025 7:59pm CST
I am seeing more instances of children, usually about ages 9 or 10, to 12 or so, out begging. They ask for ''a few dollars'' from everyone they can. Often you can see them talking to someone through a car window, and when they see you, they hurry to get to you to ask you for money. It seems they are being sent to panhandle by parents, as a child is more likely to collect money than an adult. Then the child knocks on your car window before you can even turn your car off, to ask you for money. We are encouraged by law enforcement to call the police when we see this, as they are really concerned the children will get hurt or worse. I had this happen today to me, of all the strange places, at the parking lot of a clinic I take my son to. I asked they young boy if he was by himself (this is a very busy area) and yes, it's in a good neighborhood, but panhandlers go where they are told the people are generous. He said his mother was waiting in the car. He looked scared. A security guard walked by while this was going on, and he told the boy that people were not allowed to panhandle there--This was the clinic to our bigger hospital, and that hospital campus has security. I didn't have to wonder about calling anyone, since he took care of it, and we went inside. If anyone did give them money, would it go for needs, or for something else since the parent is the one behind this? I told the child I had no cash, which was true. But then the guard showed up and I didn't have to elaborate...still, I feel bad for these kids. Would you give money to a child panhandler, when the parent sends them to do that? I do realize times are tough right now, really hard for so many. But this seems wrong, to send you kids out to beg.
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@snowy22315 (197340)
• United States
9 Oct
I have to say, I don't think I have ever seen that.
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
9 Oct
Snowy, I never have either until maybe August or so. But now, we are seeing it happen like it’s some type of fad or movement. Some child is going to be kidnapped or murdered, it’s not a good thing to see.
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@sallypup (66276)
• Centralia, Washington
9 Oct
That is tragic. Years ago I saw teens hassling folks in a Walmart parking lot for money. I told the greeter about them and she sent for help to clear them out.
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@sallypup (66276)
• Centralia, Washington
9 Oct
@MarieCoyle The kids at Walmart were more toward teens. I was worrying about them accosting Seniors and causing harm.
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
9 Oct
@sallypup Yes, it seems they like to target seniors, you are correct.
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
9 Oct
I think parents that send kids out to do this belong in jail!
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@jstory07 (146077)
• Roseburg, Oregon
9 Oct
I have never seen child panhandler just adults.
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
9 Oct
The theory seems to be that parents feel the child is going to collect more than an adult would. I honestly don't know how anyone can send a child out to beg. Hurts the heart.
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@LadyDuck (484814)
• Italy
9 Oct
I have seen children who are panhandlers in Milan. They are usually sons of gypsies who live in the outskirts of the large towns. In Switzerland it was forbidden to give them money, because the police know very well that the adults send them, but the adults get the money. We were encouraged to call the police.
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@LadyDuck (484814)
• Italy
10 Oct
@MarieCoyle - Those poor children are treated like slaves. Some are poor kids kidnapped by those horrible people, some even sold by their parents. At least the police arrives to find out what happened to them.
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
9 Oct
Luckily, the guard was there so I didn’t have to call police. What kind of life must these children have, being forced to beg by parents??
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
11 Oct
@LadyDuck These people have no business at all even being parents. So sad, and it should be illegal as well as deserving of prison time.
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@rakski (149161)
• Philippines
9 Oct
we have that here too. A lot of them actually. Sometimes, you can see the parents waiting in the nearby streets. I think parents are behind this as they will not know how to go about this kind of things. This is very wrong.
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@rakski (149161)
• Philippines
10 Oct
@MarieCoyle yes, I see that too. And I can see some kids not wanting food but money only
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
9 Oct
It’s my understanding that the children are able to generate more funds and more likely to get the money, so parents send them out. Yes, it’s so wrong and truly hurts to see.
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
11 Oct
@rakski Yes, some of them just flat out ask for money, you are correct.
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@pitsipeahie (5426)
9 Oct
I see those children—it has become such a common sight. Sometimes I give, sometimes I don’t. In general, I’m not the type who gives to beggars, whether young or old. But at times they look so pitiful that it’s hard not to resist. I know some may just be pretending, or being used by their parents as you mentioned, or even by syndicates, in case you don't know. That said, I rarely give to children panhandlers or adult beggars.
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
9 Oct
One of my friends decided to give to a young panhandler. As she took out her money there were instantly four more right there begging. Luckily her husband was able to get them all to back off and they managed to drive away.
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10 Oct
@MarieCoyle That’s so true! Once you give to one panhandler, another one comes along right after. Would you believe I’ve even experienced this inside malls? A few times while I was eating at a fast food place, kids would suddenly come up asking for money. I gave to one, and not long after, another one showed up. They usually wait outside establishments, too. Even on public transportation, some hop in and start tapping passengers to ask for money. Parking lots—same thing, there are plenty there. I’ve seen them everywhere, young and old. I even had some bad experiences with these panhandlers. One time I didn’t give anything, and the kid cursed at me. Some can get aggressive—there are cases where they throw things or even spit if you refuse. And yes, they can be very persistent, sometimes following you around until you finally give them something.
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
11 Oct
@pitsipeahie Yes, some of them get wild if you say no. Parking lots are not safe to wait in the car like they used to be. A person always has to be on alert now, and no one likes that feeling.
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@GardenGerty (166027)
• United States
10 Oct
No. I do not give any money to any panhandlers and if I saw that I would be calling CPS, as well as the police. Those parents are exploiting their kids. You are right, it is also dangerous.
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
11 Oct
I hope the security guard took care of it in this case. But yes, I would normally make a call, it's about children, after all.
@May2k8 (18966)
• Indonesia
9 Oct
I see a lot here and of course I don't give them money, if you look into it they are actually very rich in the village from beg everyone.
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
9 Oct
I am sure the ones I have seen are not rich. But to be forced into begging by a parent is just wrong, not to mention very sad as well.
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@LeaPea2417 (38537)
• Toccoa, Georgia
10 Oct
No, because criminals use children to lure people into being scams and other crimes.
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
11 Oct
Yes, they do. Children should never be put in such a position.
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@wolfgirl569 (123506)
• Marion, Ohio
9 Oct
I haven't seen it here but would not give to them
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
9 Oct
Some people worry that if the child produces no money through begging, he or she will face bad consequences from the parent, so they give. It’s just all wrong, no child should be in this position.
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@RasmaSandra (89739)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Oct
That is terrible and the kids can get themselves in trouble ot ask the wrong person and get hurt,
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
9 Oct
@RasmaSandra I know. The chances of the children being hurt, abducted,whatever—a parent putting a child in possible harm’s way should not have custody of a child, ever.
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@Traceyjayne (5747)
• United Kingdom
9 Oct
I’ve not seen it happen here, I would not give any money though.
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• United Kingdom
9 Oct
@MarieCoyle the children will not be seeing any of the money you are giving !
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
10 Oct
@Traceyjayne That was my thought as well.
@MarieCoyle (49562)
9 Oct
I hurt for the children put in this position. It’s just so sad!
@LindaOHio (203076)
• United States
9 Oct
I've never seen children panhandling. I don't think I'd give them anything.
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@LindaOHio (203076)
• United States
10 Oct
@MarieCoyle Not at all. They should be out playing.
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
9 Oct
It’s just wrong. The children don’t need to be put in this position!!
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@MarieCoyle (49562)
11 Oct
@LindaOHio I imagine some of them are doing what they do because it won't be pleasant for them if they don't. It's just wrong, totally sickening.
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@Shivram59 (45932)
• India
12 Oct
Yes, I give them money, but only if the boy or the girl looks poor and hungry. Here also you can see them begging at public places
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@Shivram59 (45932)
• India
12 Oct
@MarieCoyle Obviously he was not poor and may be his parents had asked him to beg. I'm glad you didn't encourage him. I've read there are gangs that kidnap boys and girls. dress them as beggars and make money.
@MarieCoyle (49562)
12 Oct
The child didn’t appear to be hungry, and was well dressed. Like I said, I had no cash at the moment, but the guard took over and told him that he could not panhandle there, it was not allowed.
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