How do you prepare for getting older?
By Amber
@AmbiePam (105493)
United States
    November 3, 2025 11:40am CST
                         
            I don’t mean money, although that is essential, but in other ways. My dad and his wife had saved for awhile, and recently renovated their guest bathroom. They put a grab bar in that bathroom, after having put one in their own bathroom a couple of years ago. Neither has mobility or balance issues at 70 and 71, but, of course, no one ever knows when that will change. I was glad they did that. In addition, after the renovation of the guest bathroom there are no longer any bathtubs. No chance of problems of getting in or out.
 It’s a little thing. I noticed with myself, I quit wearing significant heels. I never wore stilettos or anything, but even though I’m tall, if cute shoes had heels, I didn’t care. Now, nothing over two inches. 
 What about you guys?
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         @DaddyEvil (160813)
 • United States
                    7h
                    I do have balance issues at 62 years old and we installed two grab bars in our tub/shower so I can grab if I get dizzy. We also have a waterproof stool in the tub in case I need to sit down. I usually do sit down now when rinsing my hair. 
Pretty was looking for government grants to add a wooden back porch/steps and railing at our back door. But that stopped once trump went into office. Our back porch/steps now are concrete with a steep gradient. I've fallen down them once and don't go out the back door anymore. Our front porch doesn't have railings, either but it's only a few steps up to the top of the porch and I can lean on the outside of the porch for balance. (I fell up the front steps once and skinned my knees so I'm really careful going into the house now.)
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                    @AmbiePam (105493)
 • United States
                            6h
                                    
                            @DaddyEvil After a tornado hit her then area, Diana got a grant for a tornado shelter at her home. Funny enough, she got it around the time she got engaged to my dad. Even though she was going to move, she went ahead and put it in. Here, and maybe where you live, that helps sell a house.
 When she married and moved in with my dad, she wanted him to put in a tornado shelter. Now, my dad pays all the bills, but he wouldn’t put in a shelter. He said she could do it, but she’d have to pay for it. It’s the only thing he’s ever made her pay for!
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                            @DaddyEvil (160813)
 • United States
                            6h
                                    
                            @AmbiePam Home Improvement grants used to be fairly easy to get for older adults and Pretty always fills stuff out in my name. You can use grants for anything in the category they're issued for.
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 @sallypup (66571)
 • Centralia, Washington
                    7h
                    I am about your Dad's age.  I love our grab bars.  Two in the bottom shower and one by each toilet.  Pride means nothing when you fall and are lying on a hard floor and can't move.  When we had the bottom bathroom done over we took the low tub out and put in a shower.  We also put a chair height toilet in- don't know why the original toilet was so low.  We do have stairs and for me that is insanity.  We also have a hide a bed in my downstairs study so if age snags us we can sleep down there.
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                    @AmbiePam (105493)
 • United States
                            7h
                                    
                            Yes, my dad also put a grab bar by the toilet, and got a “taller” toilet. 
 I’m afraid of falling, and I’m just forty-four. I’ve lost my balance a couple of time recently, and landed hard. I can’t imagine how that affects the bones of someone older.
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                             @snowy22315 (198250)
 • United States
                    7h
                    Well, nothing at the moment..but I am sure I will. Honestly, although it is pretty here especially this time of the year..I do want to move before I get too old for various reasons, one being..these steep, hard stairs are no good for an old person..I can't imagine hoofing up and down these everyday when I am 80.
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                     @FourWalls (79870)
 • United States
                    5h
                    I didn't, it just happened.  A lot quicker than I thought it would. 
Seriously, once I paid the house off the first thing I did was get a walk-in bathtub.  I didn't have serious issues, and still don't, but I know they can show up before I know it.
                    
Seriously, once I paid the house off the first thing I did was get a walk-in bathtub.  I didn't have serious issues, and still don't, but I know they can show up before I know it.2  people like this
                                        
                     @BACONSTRIPSXXX (16159)
 • Torrington, Connecticut
                    6h
                    For now putting as much money into my 401k possible then making my forever home old man proof for when I'm in my golden years lol
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                     @xstitcher (36287)
 • Petaluma, California
                    15m
                    Two inches!?! Jeez, back in the days when I wore "heels" they were an inch or less, and they were never "stiletto-y"
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                    @AmbiePam (105493)
 • United States
                            12m
                                    
                            Honestly, I HAD to wear heels in my teen years. I wear size 11 1/2 shoe, and the only shoes either had heels or were orthopedics. And you know I wasn’t wearing orthopedics as a teen. But I have never ever been able to wear the skinny heels; it has to be a block heel.
                             @wolfgirl569 (124431)
 • Marion, Ohio
                    1h
                    I haven't made any changes yet. But I am sure in time I will
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                     @RasmaSandra (90497)
 • Daytona Beach, Florida
                    2h
                    Old age just came and knocked me for a loop, However, if all goes well I am only 16 just tell the the old bat in the mirror to go away, I still love my favorite music and that takes me back and I jsut don't think about it,
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                     @1creekgirl (44156)
 • United States
                    1h
                    We put in walk in showers a few years ago and that's a great help. With this back issue, I use one of those grabber sticks to keep from bending over as much. Poor Dale does just about all the housework. 
Getting old's a pain, literally. We don't drive at night now. Thanksgiving will be a relatively small meal, just four of us.
But still lots to praise God for...many blessings.
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                     @Fleura (33031)
 • United Kingdom
                    4h
                    I haven't really worn anything with much of a heel since I was in my 20s, and even then I never did often.
My main plan for old age is to build up a good store of interesting memories so if/when I am stuck in a chair at least I will have interesting things to think about 
                    
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                     @Traceyjayne (6201)
 • United Kingdom
                    2h
                    I don’t tend to wear heels very often.
I haven’t really thought about the changes as I get older…..maybe it’s about time I did though !
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                    @Traceyjayne (6201)
 • United Kingdom
                            1m
                                    
                            @AmbiePam very true . I will be 60 in January ……
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