Latvian Writer and Poet Eriks Raisters

@RasmaSandra (95920)
Daytona Beach, Florida
November 15, 2025 2:37pm CST
On Wednesday, November 15, 1967, I was ten years old. It was the day my father went to Heaven. I had come home from school at lunchtime and wanted to spend the afternoon at home with my father, who was in bed feeling poorly. My mother insisted I go back to school. She had also come home at lunchtime, working at the Latvian newspaper offices of “Laiks,” or “Time,” just a few blocks away. I never saw my father alive again, and the nitroglycerin tablet he had tried to take was found beside the bed on the rug. I felt I could have helped him, and my mother became Public Enemy Number One to me. I was told about the death of my father by the spirit of my maternal grandmother, who appeared beside me and patted me on the head. My father was a great Latvian patriot, and so, as fate would have it, his funeral was on November 18th, Latvia’s National Independence Day. So you see, with all these memories, including Martins' Names Day, November is not an easy month for me. BTW, I thought you would find it interesting that my mother’s father, whom I never met, was also named Martins. A photo of me and my dad
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@porwest (111866)
• United States
16 Nov
It is hard to imagine losing a parent at such a young age. I am lucky both my parents are still alive. My wife lost her mom when she was 12 and her dad when she was 19.
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@RasmaSandra (95920)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Nov
@porwest just to make a long story short, I will state the fact that my mother lost her father at the age of 5.
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@RasmaSandra (95920)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Nov
@porwest tomorrow I will write the story of my grandfather because it si a reall lulu of a story,
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@porwest (111866)
• United States
16 Nov
@RasmaSandra Like I said, I can't even imagine.
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@AmbiePam (116424)
• United States
15 Nov
That is an absolutely wonderful photo; I absolutely love it. And it’s so tragic to lose your father at ten that I cannot fathom it.
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@RasmaSandra (95920)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Nov
@AmbiePam that first year was murder, with me mad at mom and mom becoming skin and bones in her grief I am glad that we made it up in the end.
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@GardenGerty (168343)
• United States
16 Nov
@RasmaSandra I am glad you two did make up.
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@RasmaSandra (95920)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Nov
@GardenGerty easier to make up than not
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@shaggin (74943)
• United States
16 Nov
I’m sorry November is hard for you . I can only imagine how it felt carrying around all that pain growing up and into adulthood missing him and feeling like had you been allowed to stay home you may have been able to keep him alive.
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@RasmaSandra (95920)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Nov
@shaggin that might just have been wishful thinking on my part but if I could have ehlped him with the tablet I could have called my godfather who was the director of a hospital and medical researcher,
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@JudyEv (376111)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Nov
That would have been a devasting loss for you. Regarding the name, Martins, it's funny how these coincidences occur.
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@Deepizzaguy (119718)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
16 Nov
Sorry to learn about the passing of your father.
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@RasmaSandra (95920)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Nov
@Deepizzaguy wish he had been aroudn to return to Latvia along with my mom and me
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@Deepizzaguy (119718)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
16 Nov
@RasmaSandra I know what you mean.
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@LindaOHio (217838)
• United States
16 Nov
I am so, so sorry that November is difficult for you. The photo is priceless. I"m glad you made up with your mom.
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@RasmaSandra (95920)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Nov
@LindaOHio I had not choice she was all that was left to me but I also felt sorry for her since I was a rather rebellious teenager but later we ate out together and did other things we enjoyed,
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@LindaOHio (217838)
• United States
17 Nov
@RasmaSandra My father never relented after he disowned me when I moved out. I never saw my side of the family again.
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@snowy22315 (205400)
• United States
15 Nov
Sorry for the unhappy anniversary today
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@RasmaSandra (95920)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Nov
@snowy22315 thank you as they say thus is life,
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@LeaPea2417 (39776)
• Toccoa, Georgia
15 Nov
I'm sorry you went through that.
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@RasmaSandra (95920)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Nov
@LeaPea2417 as hard as it all was for me because I was a child that first year after my mom looked like a skeleton and scared me all over again that I would also lose her,
@DaddyEvil (170898)
• United States
15 Nov
It's hard to get over losing a parent. I'm sorry you didn't get to spend any more time with him.
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@RasmaSandra (95920)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Nov
@DaddyEvil my dad could have been saved and lived longer, but the 1960s did not have the one thing he needed - a surgery to unblock arteries. Angioplasty, etc., came along in the 1970s.
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