It never ends at work
By NJ Chicaa
@NJChicaa (125425)
United States
November 22, 2025 2:26pm CST
You cannot make this stuff up. The online grading program has a default setting for the weights of the different categories--assignments, quizzes, tests. Each department has separate ones that have to be adjusted at the start of each year. Yeah we all did that back in September but somewhere along the way I noticed that they had reverted to the defaults. I readjusted them a couple of weeks ago toward the end of the marking period which changed some students' grades.
I had one student who went from an A to a B+ and the parents went nuclear. They emailed me and like 4 more people up the chain. Everyone explained what had happened to MANY teachers and not just me. Well now they are showing up at school on Monday for a meeting to get an explanation about what happened. . . which they already have received like 3 or 4 times now. It is over an hour after I have to be at work so the supervisor said he didn't expect me to stay there but asked if I was willing to attend via Google Meet (online). I told him that I would speak to the head building union rep because doing that was out of contract hours. After speaking to him I emailed the supervisor that I wouldn't be attending.
The insane thing was that I was exasperated yesterday and marched into his office and said "just give the kid the effing A! I don't care!" He said the mother didn't want the A and they weren't going to change the grade anyway. I was like "what else do you have to tell this mother that you haven't already said?" He said "nothing--she just wants to talk about it." The woman above him apparently knows the mother and knows she is crazy. No thank you. They can deal with that since they make the big bucks.
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@RasmaSandra (91251)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Nov
I think probably the biggest problem is that parents don't supervise the kids homework and they should,
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@IvySaysHi (4592)
• United States
23 Nov
Wow I am so sorry it sounds exhausting just hearing about it so I can only imagine in your shoes it must be so incredibly annoying to have to deal with a parent like that.
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@LindaOHio (207083)
• United States
23 Nov
The mother just needs to blow off steam. Let her do it with someone else.
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@MarieCoyle (51468)
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23 Nov
I think teaching is so,so hard. Over the years it has gotten even harder. No wonder I know so many people who walked away from it and did something different. I'm sure sorry.
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@GardenGerty (166601)
• United States
22 Nov
So the mom needs a therapist not a meeting. Not an admin. Her kid needs to do his best work whenever possible. Getting all A's should not be easy.
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@BarBaraPrz (50822)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
22 Nov
That's right! Not in your pay grade... or something like that. Some people just like to talk to hear themselves speak and maybe feel important.
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@annierose (21724)
• Philippines
22 Nov
I totally get you. When I was a teacher, I dealt with all kinds of parents. Some were great to work with, but others… well, they could really be a handful.
There’s one situation I still remember clearly. I had to give a student a low grade because he had a lot of absences and didn’t complete many of his tasks. I actually knew this kid pretty well—I had taught him in a lower grade, and I knew he was smart. That’s why I couldn’t understand why he suddenly became so hesitant to talk to me whenever I tried to follow up on his performance.
The thing is, his parent was always updated. I informed her about his incomplete work and his attendance issues, and I called multiple times just to make sure she knew what was going on. So you can imagine my confusion when she still ended up complaining about his low grade.
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