I don't even know what my deal is lately

@NJChicaa (125521)
United States
December 7, 2025 2:36pm CST
No one would ever describe me as a ray of sunshine who lights up a room when I walk into it. That's just not my personality. I'm pretty chill and laid back but I also have a dry and sarcastic sense of humor. I'm not a mean person but I can come off that way both in person and online. Whatevs. Anyway the past couple of days I have been in a really salty mood. I was straight up angry at work for the entire day and I don't even have a good reason why. Today the cats are pissing me off. Usually it is just Charlie being annoying but I'm used to that but today I'm ready to just open the door and let him return to the wild. I even yelled at Claire for climbing up the couch and tearing down the quilt. I never yell at Claire. Adso is the only smart one as he has been staying in the bedroom and out of my way. I don't know what my problem is. I mean yes I know my problems but I don't why I'm so cranky these days. The fact that I have no patience for the cats is actually disturbing me.
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@AmbiePam (107738)
• United States
13h
Maybe all your health problems (I don’t know what you discussed with your doctor last week and if you got any answers) are finally culminating in a toll on not just your body, but your patience. You’ve got a stressful job, it’s the holidays, and you’re human.
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@MarieCoyle (51966)
12h
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@RasmaSandra (91580)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
11h
It could be that whatever worries or concerns you have have sort of rolled up in one ball and until you can unravel them and straighten things out, you are frustrated and cannot get on an even footing. I have had moments where I get up in the morning with tears, and I keep wanting to cry. You would not want to know what I say to myself but when I take a strong stand, all the nonsense ends, and I am all right again.
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@DaddyEvil (163144)
• United States
13h
Sometimes things just happen and there isn't an explanation that makes sense.
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@JudyEv (366802)
• Rockingham, Australia
7h
It's hard sometimes to know what's bothering us when we're angry or unhappy. I hope you feel better soon. The cats are probably hoping you feel better soon too.
@LindaOHio (207760)
• United States
3h
Are you feeling OK physically? Could that be playing a part. I know that I'm not merry even though Christmas is coming. That's because I'm missing my husband. Are you missing your ex? I hope you feel better soon.
@MarieCoyle (51966)
12h
You are very stressed out. I wish you could take a little vacation break and regroup.
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