If you could have just one thing for Christmas, what would you pick?
By Marie Coyle
@MarieCoyle (52353)
December 18, 2025 11:17pm CST
I should be noble here, and say I would pick something like peace on earth, no more wars or senseless killings, cures for diseases, and on and on...and yes, I do wish for those things. Maybe if everyone worked toward goals like that, it would really help--but at this point, I truly think it might take divine intervention to fix all that needs to be fixed.
So, here I am bringing it down to my own level. No, I don't want new clothes or a fancy purse or a trip to Timbuktoo. It would be hard to pull off, but what I really want is for all 4 of my children, their children, spouses, etc. to be in the same place with me, all at the same time. This sounds so easy, doesn't it? But it really isn't, not when at least one lives far away, and young families have a lot of demands--not to mention expenses and obligations.
I put a lot of thought into this. After Christmas, sometime in the first part of the new year, I am going to ask them all if we can't just make this happen. No, no one is dying that we know of...but the months and years are adding up and they fly by so fast. I really don't want the next time I manage to get all of them in the same place at the same time to be at my memorial service when I die! I do think they will try to make this happen at some point if I ask. It's been discussed before, but hey...life happens and it's always ''next year!'' but as I said, the years are passing. I want them to plan for it and all of us to make it happen sometime next year, if possible. I hope we can make it work.
Anyway, that's really what I want. A gift of time.
What would you pick?
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@rsa101 (40571)
• Philippines
16h
That was one of the first things I thought of when I read the title of this post. I’d love to wish for “World Peace,” but it feels like an impossible dream right now, with world leaders seeming indifferent to what’s happening both within and outside their countries.
So instead, I’m focusing on finding peace within my inner circle. That feels more achievable and realistic. I’m hoping next year will be smooth for everyone I know, and that peace will spread far beyond where I am.
So instead, I’m focusing on finding peace within my inner circle. That feels more achievable and realistic. I’m hoping next year will be smooth for everyone I know, and that peace will spread far beyond where I am.3 people like this
@MarieCoyle (52353)
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15h
I am trying to do the same--to focus on what I actually can do right here. It's going to take a lot of time, a ton of work, and some truly dedicated leaders that care to get us out of this big mess.
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@Nakitakona (58543)
• Philippines
16h
Peace on earth and goodwill to men. That explains everything.
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@MarieCoyle (52353)
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15h
Yes, it does. But it's almost to the point that it's going to take a magic wand or a miracle, to make it happen.
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@rebelann (115275)
• El Paso, Texas
6h
I pray you'll be able to get them all together at the same time just to have a nice weekend with YOU.
Or, fake your wake, I'll bet they all come, then shock them when you walk in alive and well. I got this notion from an episode of Little House on the Prairie.
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@rebelann (115275)
• El Paso, Texas
2h
Thats a good point, but I didn't think your kids ignored you.
@MarieCoyle (52353)
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4h
I honestly remember that LHOTP episode! But there's a big difference....her children basically ignored her, and she hadn't seen her sons in years and years. Mine don't ignore me, and in all honesty are as sweet and loving and helpful as they are able to be. So I am not complaining about being ignored, I just want us to all be together at the same place at the same time! Crazy hard to make it happen but I think we can pull it off!
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@FourWalls (81137)
• United States
4h
I have everything I need and want, so I’d have to go the “noble” route and wish for health for friends and family. Especially you and your son.
If I have to be base and materialistic, I’ll go for a month in Florida. 
If I have to be base and materialistic, I’ll go for a month in Florida. 
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@MarieCoyle (52353)
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4h
A month in Florida is a long time, and I wish you could have that. If I went there for a month, I wouldn't do it in the summertime, it's just way, way too ho! for me.
You are not base or materialistic! I hope you can get to Florida soon and soak up some rays! And thank you for the wish...so much. 



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@MarieCoyle (52353)
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4h
Sadly, you are right...somewhere in the world, there seems to always be a war. I wish that could change, too.
@snowy22315 (200231)
• United States
10h
I would like something similar. I think the older you get people mean so much more than presents. My Christmas will be very good if don shows up here as he says he is going to.
@wolfgirl569 (126632)
• Marion, Ohio
7h
My mom wanted that. Sadly the time she got to see it happen was the morning we took her to the hospital. She had called all 3 of us. I stayed with dad, my sister took her in and my brother went home.
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@just4him (319788)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12h
My Christmas wish would be for my children to get along with each other. I would like to see them all in one place. However, like you, it's doubtful it will happen. But who knows, miracles happen.
@JudyEv (367565)
• Rockingham, Australia
9h
I would pick for us to be able to help our son purchase a house. We've been working on this for a good few months but there is nothing available that we can afford.
@LindaOHio (208553)
• United States
11h
I hope you can make it happen.
What I want is impossible (having my hubby back); I'm glad to have cousin #2 here for Christmas and New Year's Day. I'm happy with that.
















