Finally, against all odds, I am back to Mylot!

India
December 30, 2025 10:27am CST
I initially thought to just respond to a few discussions, but then DE and Valerie noticed that I was back after a long gap. I’ve been away for the past nine months, dealing with challenges coming at me from all directions in life. Now my reasons to be away- I’m now officially involved in a legal case with my extended family over my ancestral inheritance. They are refusing to hand over what clearly belongs to me, including important property documents, partly because I live about 300 km away from the location. Alongside that, I’ve been facing ongoing career challenges. I currently work under a toxic boss, and unfortunately his boss hasn’t been any better or more supportive. There has also been a lot of travel, which added to the strain. I decided to step away from my project management website because I couldn’t continue writing articles consistently. So, altogether it has been tough on me and I had to take a break. Although none of my existing issues are solved, I sincerely hope the major challenges are over and I can slowly focus on my life. And well, hopefully I can do better than last time I was here at Mylot. I do see the members are less and some of the familiar ones are out for atleast a month. Perhaps New Year would see new members and previous members return to Mylot.
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@DaddyEvil (168292)
• United States
30 Dec
Hopefully things can be resolved in 2026 and everything will calm down for you in the coming year.
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@DaddyEvil (168292)
• United States
12 Feb
@RevivedWarrior You're welcome. Unfortunately, I'm having more health issues this year. *shrug*
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• India
12 Feb
@DaddyEvil Take care Champ! You can beat them , you are better than these health bullies! Take care!
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• India
12 Feb
Thanks. Hope you are having a better year so far!
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@just4him (322153)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
31 Dec
I'm sorry you're facing some tough challenges. I hope you win the challenge of your ancestry and can work in a less toxic environment.
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@just4him (322153)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 Feb
@RevivedWarrior It's good you're doing that.
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• India
12 Feb
Hopefully, Valerie! I am staying away from anything and eveyrthing that can deisturb my peace.It helps most of times if not all. Thanks for the support!
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@jstory07 (147540)
• Roseburg, Oregon
2 Jan
I hope your life will get better for you in 2026.
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• India
12 Feb
Thanks for the support Judy. Hope 2026 is so far great for you. Take care!
@RasmaSandra (94423)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Jan
I hope you'll have a much better 2026!
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• India
12 Feb
Thanks . Hope you are having a great 2026. Take care!
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@JudyEv (372097)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Dec
Im sorry you've had such a tough year. I hope 2026 will be much better for you.
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@JudyEv (372097)
• Rockingham, Australia
13 Feb
@RevivedWarrior Thanks. It's going well so far.
• India
12 Feb
Hopefully, but i see more challenges and time constraints but with a more clarity now comapred to last year. Hope you are havinga better year!
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2 Jan
It is said that time heals...you'll hopefully win the case. Keep the faith. Travelling for job related issues or keeping your peace?
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• India
12 Feb
Faith and hope are ones which are moving me these days. There is enough stress on these plus economical ones as well. Thanks for the support!
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@AmbiePam (113045)
• United States
30 Dec
I hate that you are having such trouble, but I am glad to see you return. Maybe sharing here you can release some of your stress by sharing your frustrations.
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• India
12 Feb
I am in two minds on that. For one, washing the "dirty laundry" here would not be something I am interested in. Yes, I can speak of pain. But then, maybe I can move away from such troubles atleast for some point of time. Perhaps , I need to think a lot about. Thanks for the support!
@snowy22315 (203164)
• United States
1 Jan
Welcome back, we need some fresh blood around here, and I am always happy to see members return. Valerie herself was gone for several months.
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• India
12 Feb
Well, I am gald to be back Snowy. I am trying to be consistent although I am finding difficulty in finding time for more converstaions these days. Thanks for support!
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• Philippines
1 Jan
Hey!!!! You are back!!! You are finally back! I hope everything is well with you, and I hope you enjoyed the holidays with your family. - my response to your discussion, above was my initial responsed without reading your post. But I am sorry that you are undergoing such a legal battle; it is really hard to fight for inheritance, especially when you have greedy relatives. But I hope you got what legally belongs to you. And I really hope there is a "will" so it is easy for you to get the part of your inheritance. But anyway I hope you this year will be a great year for you, less stress and I hope you win your case. God bless you. Just sincerely ask God for help. God bles. I always pray to Jesus and He always answer but some of my prayers are still hanging but He always granted all that needed an immediate help, so never forget nor stop praying. Aja!
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• India
12 Feb
Thanks for the support and prayers. Well, I had to stay away to sort things. It was not easy in many ways. Hopefully I can do better in 2026. Hope you are having a better 2026 so far. Take care!
@rebelann (115992)
• El Paso, Texas
30 Dec
Hopefully next year will prove better and we can all get a rest from the struggles of 2025.
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• India
12 Feb
Thanks. I really hope we do!
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@FourWalls (83080)
• United States
30 Dec
Welcome back, and I hope the new year sees you resolve all the issues. I hate hearing about family arguments like that.
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• India
12 Feb
Thanks. Well, the arguments and challenges are tough and this is now legal and it will take time. I have made peace with that. Hope you are having a great year so far!
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