A gift from the bride

@JudyEv (371504)
Rockingham, Australia
February 11, 2026 6:45pm CST
For some years now, it’s been usual to be given a small gift at weddings. It wasn’t the thing when I got married and I think it first started with Italian weddings. At the time, we knew these gifts as ‘bonbonnieres’. Our friend’s grand-daughter got married recently and, while we weren’t invited, we were given this stubby holder which shows the couple with their dog. It even shows the tattoos on his arm. Our friend often brought between four and six grandchildren down to our property in Donnybrook and we had some fun times with them.
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@AmbiePam (112492)
• United States
20h
That’s awfully cute.
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@JudyEv (371504)
• Rockingham, Australia
17h
It's a nice memento.
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21h
What a fun looking stubby holder Judy
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@jstory07 (147427)
• Roseburg, Oregon
21h
That looks really nice.
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@JudyEv (371504)
• Rockingham, Australia
17h
It has their names and date of their marriage on the back.
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@LadyDuck (493084)
• Italy
15h
Bomboniere in Italy are given from the newly weds to their guests and they must contain almonds covered with sugar that are called confetti.
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@LadyDuck (493084)
• Italy
14h
@Fleura I have no idea why. I know that it's a very old traditions, sugared almonds for all ceremonies in Church (wedding, baptism, first communion).
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@Fleura (33913)
• United Kingdom
14h
That is traditional here too - sugared almonds - but I don't know why, do you?
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@Fleura (33913)
• United Kingdom
14h
That's cute! Here guests normally get 'wedding favours' but traditionally they were a little bag of sugared almonds - no idea why.
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@JudyEv (371504)
• Rockingham, Australia
13h
I'd forgotten about the sugared almonds. We got seedling trees once which was nice.
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@pitsipeahie (5469)
16h
I agree, wedding favors weren’t really a “thing” years ago, or if they were, they were very simple. Now, almost every wedding has its own souvenirs for guests, and most of them are personalized with photos, pets, or little details that make them feel special and meaningful. We’ve also collected quite a few wedding souvenirs at home over the years. Every time we attend a wedding, there’s always something to take home. So far, the most unique one we’ve received was a packet of seeds, which I thought was really nice and different. At least it had meaning and was something you could actually use. But I was unsuccessful growing the seeds lol. It’s nice to see how creative couples have become when it comes to these little details.
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@celticeagle (185362)
• Boise, Idaho
21m
But what is it? Not sure what a 'stubby holder' is.
@DianneN (248808)
• United States
5h
The dog looks just like my childhood Labrador retriever. I am unfamiliar with small gifts at weddings, although we have a wedding in April to attend. I will be looking around for my gift
@thelme55 (77634)
• Germany
8h
That’s a nice gift. I think it is common nowadays to have small gifts given by the new couple in their wedding.
@LindaOHio (213563)
• United States
9h
Interesting that you received a gift.
• United States
11h
That's cute