He kept calling these women crazy.
By Amber
@AmbiePam (114137)
United States
March 5, 2026 12:04pm CST
There’s this friend of a friend, whom everyone seems to tolerate more than like. He’s been married four times, but also has two baby mamas. Every single time he talks about one of these women he talks about how crazy they are. I know one of them. She is decidedly not. One day he was talking about his third wife, and mentioned how crazy she was, when I asked him what all those women had in common. He said he didn’t know. I said they all have him in common. Maybe the problem isn’t them, but him. Maybe he ought to glance at a mirror and look to see if he’s the real problem. At the very least, have some respect for the mothers of your two children.
He avoids me now. But I’m not sure how someone has all those relationships and each time points the blame at the other person.
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12 responses
I wonder if he thought about what you said.
@LeaPea2417 (39626)
• Toccoa, Georgia
6h
I'm glad you told him the truth. Truth hurts but is needed in some situations.
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@RasmaSandra (94992)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
5 Mar
Beacause he himself thinks he's blamless and likey himself not right in the head but won't admit it,
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@Traceyjayne (8639)
• United Kingdom
9h
I think you are right in what you are saying, he is most definitely the problem. Seems like he knows it too since he avoids you now, after pointing it out !
Good for you !
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@valherma00 (1534)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
3h
the mother of his children deserves some respect, you are right. i always hated men joking or pretending to joke how their wives or girlfriends hate them or are difficult and such and they thought they were cool while telling stories like that; i mean, say something nice, for god's sake. it's good he avoids you cause he's such a fake. i hope you're okay with him avoiding you
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@snowy22315 (203928)
• United States
5 Mar
Lots of people like that in the world unfortunately, that don't want to take responsibility for anything.
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@DaddyEvil (169371)
• United States
15h
Usually, that type of person feels the need to blame others because they can't accept that there is something "broken" in their own minds.
I doubt he'll even think about what you said but I'm glad you said it, anyway. It NEEDED to be said to him.
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@LindaOHio (215562)
• United States
12h
Good for you for speaking out.. You're just as well done with him.
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@MarieCoyle (55580)
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5 Mar
Like you said, he never looks in the mirror! He sounds like the kind of person who always shoves the blame on someone else. Good for you in speaking up, Amber!
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