Diaries: Did you have one?

@AmbiePam (115356)
United States
March 19, 2026 2:34am CST
Call it a diary, call it a journal, a lot of people kept one growing up, and some still keep a journal today. I kept a journal until I was 16, and saved them until I was 19 when I threw them away. When my mom got dementia at the age of 46, I started keeping s gratitude journal. I read parts of it again years after my mom died, and thought it was hilarious. Things were so bad back then I listed the funniest things to be grateful for. I remember I listed a good parking space once, while another time I listed having Jelly Belly jelly beans on my gratitude list. At a particularly desperate moment I listed the fact that I only threw up once on a day I had a migraine. Of course, there were big things listed, like having a dad and grandmother that loved me, or one of my medications my insurance wouldn’t cover coming down in price. It really helped back then. So, what about you all?
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@jstory07 (147823)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3h
I never had a diary and did not want one.
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@AmbiePam (115356)
• United States
3h
I was a depressed child so it helped me express myself. I needed someone to talk to, but didn’t have anybody.
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@jstory07 (147823)
• Roseburg, Oregon
2h
@AmbiePam That's sad. I was raised in Europe and Asia and we weer always doing something and going somewhere. I had a happy childhood.
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@AmbiePam (115356)
• United States
2h
@jstory07 My life inside my home was great. But I was born depressed and suffered social anxiety of the highest sort. So life outside my home felt impossible.
@toniganzon (75041)
• Philippines
1h
I keep a journal. I have several Traveler's Journal from TRaveler's Company in regular and passport size. They're made of cowhide leather and you can customize the notebooks and all types of inserts you want. Can even use it as your wallet. It's my calendar planner, my dump it journal, my travel journal, and gratitude journal. There was one point I used one of them as my wallet. The special one I have is from Prada, when they collaborated with Traveler's Company. As far as I know it was exclusively distributed in London. Not sure it was sold in other parts of Europe. I remember waiting for so long for it to arrive to me as I had my personal supper buy it for me in London.
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@AmbiePam (115356)
• United States
1h
I definitely pegged you for someone having a journal. You’re a very thoughtful person.
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@toniganzon (75041)
• Philippines
54m
@AmbiePam I guess I am. I'm just someone who have a tendency to be obsessed at something I'm very fond of and journaling is one of them.
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@rakski (150063)
• Philippines
1h
No, I tried but after a few days, I forgot to write in it.
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@pitsipeahie (5567)
2h
I’ve tried a few times to keep a diary or journal, but it never really stuck. I’d start strong, then after a while it just felt like an 'extra' thing I had to do, so I’d stop. I guess I’ve accepted it’s just not for me. But I like what you shared about your gratitude journal. That’s actually how it works, when you train yourself to notice even the smallest things to be thankful for, you start to see something positive no matter how tough things get. It really shifts your perspective in a simple but powerful way.
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@MarieCoyle (56063)
2h
I kept a diary for quite some time as a teenager. Looking back, I wonder how I even had the time to do that but I evidently did. I went to school full time and worked full time (in high school!) and had to try to keep track of little sister at the time when I could. I kept them all in a little box. After I married, I didn't keep a diary anymore, but for some reason those notebooks were still in their little case through all of life's moves, etc.--until I couldn't find the case one time when I wondered where they were. I asked my husband and he said, oh, I threw them out. I was so sad and disappointed. He hauled around cases of stuff he wanted to keep and he threw mine out? Ugh. Well, at least I haven't had to worry about that kind of stuff anymore. Mine were more about feelings and life than about anything else, I think. But writing in them helped me through some hard times, like yours must have.
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@AmbiePam (115356)
• United States
2h
Your ex…well, I don’t need to expound.
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@MarieCoyle (56063)
1h
@AmbiePam He is not the same man I married, not by a longshot!! I look back sometimes and I have come to the realization that I have absolutely special and wonderful children that maybe I wouldn’t have had with someone else,but who knows? At any rate I have always been a strong determined person,and it all made me even stronger than I ever imagined I could be. My aunt said it best when we split up—he changed and he lost his ability to show he cared for me and the children.
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@Jehanne (186)
Just now
When I was in grade school and up to high school I did have diaries. I discarded it 5 years after graduating in college. But I still keep some of my scrapbook.
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@LadyDuck (495807)
• Italy
2h
Yes, I have one, I always had one. I write every day what we did during the day and what we ate. it's important to keep a track, often doctors ask for those details.
@JudyEv (374769)
• Rockingham, Australia
2h
Occasionally I'd start a diary but I never kept it up for long. My mother kept a diary most of her life but it was just about the day-to-day happenings.
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@NJChicaa (126709)
• United States
2h
I never had one.
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