Diaries: Did you have one?

@AmbiePam (132012)
United States
March 19, 2026 2:34am CST
Call it a diary, call it a journal, a lot of people kept one growing up, and some still keep a journal today. I kept a journal until I was 16, and saved them until I was 19 when I threw them away. When my mom got dementia at the age of 46, I started keeping s gratitude journal. I read parts of it again years after my mom died, and thought it was hilarious. Things were so bad back then I listed the funniest things to be grateful for. I remember I listed a good parking space once, while another time I listed having Jelly Belly jelly beans on my gratitude list. At a particularly desperate moment I listed the fact that I only threw up once on a day I had a migraine. Of course, there were big things listed, like having a dad and grandmother that loved me, or one of my medications my insurance wouldn’t cover coming down in price. It really helped back then. So, what about you all?
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@jstory07 (150020)
• Roseburg, Oregon
19 Mar
I never had a diary and did not want one.
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@AmbiePam (132012)
• United States
19 Mar
I was a depressed child so it helped me express myself. I needed someone to talk to, but didn’t have anybody.
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@jstory07 (150020)
• Roseburg, Oregon
19 Mar
@AmbiePam That's sad. I was raised in Europe and Asia and we were always doing something and going somewhere. I had a happy childhood.
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@AmbiePam (132012)
• United States
19 Mar
@jstory07 My life inside my home was great. But I was born depressed and suffered social anxiety of the highest sort. So life outside my home felt impossible.
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@toniganzon (82475)
• Philippines
19 Mar
I keep a journal. I have several Traveler's Journal from TRaveler's Company in regular and passport size. They're made of cowhide leather and you can customize the notebooks and all types of inserts you want. Can even use it as your wallet. It's my calendar planner, my dump it journal, my travel journal, and gratitude journal. There was one point I used one of them as my wallet. The special one I have is from Prada, when they collaborated with Traveler's Company. As far as I know it was exclusively distributed in London. Not sure it was sold in other parts of Europe. I remember waiting for so long for it to arrive to me as I had my personal supper buy it for me in London.
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@AmbiePam (132012)
• United States
19 Mar
I definitely pegged you for someone having a journal. You’re a very thoughtful person.
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@toniganzon (82475)
• Philippines
19 Mar
@AmbiePam I guess I am. I'm just someone who have a tendency to be obsessed at something I'm very fond of and journaling is one of them.
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@DaddyEvil (179042)
• United States
19 Mar
I did for a while when I was a teenager until I caught my mom reading it. She could have asked and I would have told her what was in it. But she chose to break my trust and read it without asking. I threw it away and never wrote anything about how I was feeling from day to day again. *shrug*
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@AmbiePam (132012)
• United States
19 Mar
I’m sorry she did that. That’s a really big deal, I don’t care what anyone says.
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@DaddyEvil (179042)
• United States
20 Mar
@AmbiePam Thanks.
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@rakski (163528)
• Philippines
19 Mar
No, I tried but after a few days, I forgot to write in it.
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@thelme55 (80349)
• Germany
19 Mar
I did since I came to Germany in my younger years. I found my first diary and read it. I could read the young me writing her struggle in the new country. It was the innocent me and my writing was different and orderly.
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@MarieCoyle (64486)
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19 Mar
I kept a diary for quite some time as a teenager. Looking back, I wonder how I even had the time to do that but I evidently did. I went to school full time and worked full time (in high school!) and had to try to keep track of little sister at the time when I could. I kept them all in a little box. After I married, I didn't keep a diary anymore, but for some reason those notebooks were still in their little case through all of life's moves, etc.--until I couldn't find the case one time when I wondered where they were. I asked my husband and he said, oh, I threw them out. I was so sad and disappointed. He hauled around cases of stuff he wanted to keep and he threw mine out? Ugh. Well, at least I haven't had to worry about that kind of stuff anymore. Mine were more about feelings and life than about anything else, I think. But writing in them helped me through some hard times, like yours must have.
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@AmbiePam (132012)
• United States
19 Mar
Your ex…well, I don’t need to expound.
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@MarieCoyle (64486)
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19 Mar
@AmbiePam He is not the same man I married, not by a longshot!! I look back sometimes and I have come to the realization that I have absolutely special and wonderful children that maybe I wouldn’t have had with someone else,but who knows? At any rate I have always been a strong determined person,and it all made me even stronger than I ever imagined I could be. My aunt said it best when we split up—he changed and he lost his ability to show he cared for me and the children.
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@GardenGerty (170846)
• United States
20 Mar
While Larry was sick and after, for a while, I kept a journal. Finding it later helped lift my spirits.
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@AmbiePam (132012)
• United States
20 Mar
I’m so glad.
@BarBaraPrz (52212)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
19 Mar
I've kept various diaries/journals off and on ever since I was 11. That was a miniature one with a few lines per day, Sat & Sun shared a slot. But that was ok, as I didn't have much to say, then, anyway. Not sure if I still have it in a box somewhere, I've moved so many times since then. I just bought a new one today, being as I'm just about at the end of my current one, that I've stopped and started, stopped and started, since 2010.
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@AmbiePam (132012)
• United States
19 Mar
That’s pretty cool.
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@LeaPea2417 (40028)
• Toccoa, Georgia
19 Mar
Yes, as a teen. I still have it.
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@AmbiePam (132012)
• United States
19 Mar
That is really cool that you still have it.
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@RasmaSandra (101839)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Mar
I had diaries from a young age but then once you read them that is it so when I left Latvia I got rid of all my diaries but kept some of the important dates and things I wanted to really temember,
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• United States
19 Mar
I do journal almost every day and most of the things I write about are gratitudes. I go back and laugh at some of the things I was grateful for (like you) and glad I got through those tough times. Probably seems silly now to be grateful for jelly beans or a parking space but I can certainly relate to that.
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@AmbiePam (132012)
• United States
19 Mar
@andriaperry (118527)
• Anniston, Alabama
19 Mar
I did as a kid, now I call them memoirs. LoL
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@AmbiePam (132012)
• United States
19 Mar
I love that!
@LindaOHio (222973)
• United States
20 Mar
I wish I would have kept a diary past the age of 18 or 19. I love going back and reading about what I did and what I was thinking. Some of the time I was dating my husband; so those days are very special to me.
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• Northampton, England
19 Mar
'Only good girls keep diaries. The bad girls never have time'
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@snowy22315 (214233)
• United States
19 Mar
Yes, I kept a diary as a teen. Nothing really of nite in there. I can't get myself to journal now, although I need to. In a way, I guess knot us kind of a hiyrnal.
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@LadyDuck (505028)
• Italy
19 Mar
Yes, I have one, I always had one. I write every day what we did during the day and what we ate. it's important to keep a track, often doctors ask for those details.
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@wolfgirl569 (141879)
• Marion, Ohio
19 Mar
I never have. Those silly things helped you get through a tough time. Sometimes the little things are the best
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@Traceyjayne (14880)
• United Kingdom
19 Mar
I used to keep a diary …when I was at school, but not for many years.
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• Philippines
19 Mar
I kept a diary during my high school years. I found peace in writing things that I couldn’t share with my family or friends.
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@Jehanne (2253)
• Philippines
19 Mar
When I was in grade school and up to high school I did have diaries. I discarded it 5 years after graduating in college. But I still keep some of my scrapbook.
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