How long have you known them?

@GardenGerty (169448)
United States
March 19, 2026 7:56pm CST
I speak of my friend Jane, whom I have known for 43 or so years. I will have coffee with her Saturday. Today I had brunch with Beth. I have not seen her in thirty years. She has moved around some. We have known each other for fifty years. It was good to catch up. I think we need to hold on to friends as long and strongly as we can. It helps when we are going through tough times. Her husband is also ill. Not as ill, in some ways, as Bob. Or at least not as confused. Bob had a rough night last night. Had a fever, or had his heated bed too hot, anyway, it was not easy. I am tired from that as well. I will go to bed very soon, and stay home tomorrow.
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@DaddyEvil (174323)
• United States
20 Mar
I'm sorry Bob is having difficulties and hope he's doing better quickly. Have a good rest. I was running a fever yesterday and throwing up during the night. I feel much better today.
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@GardenGerty (169448)
• United States
26 Mar
That does not sound good at all. I hope this does not happen often.
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@DaddyEvil (174323)
• United States
27 Mar
@GardenGerty It was happening once a week but didn't happen this week, thank goodness!
@rakski (156303)
• Philippines
20 Mar
I hope to stay friends with my circle. I keep them close though we are apart.
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@GardenGerty (169448)
• United States
26 Mar
That is a very good thing.
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@rakski (156303)
• Philippines
26 Mar
@GardenGerty yes, and it feels like we never apart when we came to see each other
@rebelann (117209)
• El Paso, Texas
20 Mar
Wow, I can't imagine what it's like to know someone that long, I've only known 1 friend for about 40 years but she's been in NE for about 39 so it's not like I really know her anymore but we keep in touch.
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@GardenGerty (169448)
• United States
26 Mar
I know it is not the same, but I have myLot friends that I have never met, or only met once, and have known them for twenty years.
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@rebelann (117209)
• El Paso, Texas
26 Mar
I believe it, aren't a few of your friends from that old Gather.com website?
@JudyEv (381928)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Mar
Keeping good friends takes an effort sometimes but it's always worthwhile. I'm glad you got to meet up with Beth.
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@GardenGerty (169448)
• United States
26 Mar
I think we need little anchors to our past. We met in prenatal classes before our first kids were born.
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@JudyEv (381928)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Mar
@GardenGerty Wow, that's certainly a long friendship.
@LindaOHio (222280)
• United States
21 Mar
I'm sorry Bob isn't doing well. I've known my best friends for over 60 years. That means I'm OLD. lol
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@GardenGerty (169448)
• United States
26 Mar
Or you knew them when you were just a child.
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@2ndchances24 (12195)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
20 Mar
That's a long time for friends to have I have 1 friend that I stay in touch with & that's enough for me.
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@GardenGerty (169448)
• United States
26 Mar
I think it is good for us to be getting together with friends.
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
26 Mar
@GardenGerty it is when you have friends to be around.
@AmbiePam (120637)
• United States
20 Mar
I’m so glad you got to see her, and visit. I agree wholeheartedly about friendships.
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@GardenGerty (169448)
• United States
26 Mar
We have known each other since before our oldest kids were born.
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@snowy22315 (208798)
• United States
20 Mar
Glad you were able to get together with her for a little commiseration.
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@GardenGerty (169448)
• United States
26 Mar
And catching up on the kids and tales about where life has taken us.
@wolfgirl569 (135641)
• Marion, Ohio
20 Mar
Hope you both sleep better
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@GardenGerty (169448)
• United States
26 Mar
We did. He is doing quite a bit better now.
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