Why was I missing for days?
By Toni
@toniganzon (76282)
Philippines
April 3, 2026 5:53pm CST
Big family drama started on April first.
April fool's day? Nope, it wasn't a prank. No joke. It was real. Got worse on the second day and the world turned upside down.
It was my sister and the idiotic boyfriend I mentioned. I wasn't involved.
When she's mad at him, she's mad at the whole world, at herself, and even at her very own son. My pitiful 15 year old nephew, I had to comfort because my sister was being unreasonably mad.
She screamed that none of us loved her and if it wasn't for her money, none would want to be near her! But I knew she wasn't referring to us, her siblings, or her son, but she meant her guy!
I'm exhausted physically from work because of all the stress with the staff recently.
I'm emotionally and mentally exhausted as well because of all the drama.
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@toniganzon (76282)
• Philippines
4 Apr
Yes and she is toxic too. I had to call our older sister because I couldn't handle her and she pushed us away. Telling the both of us we never loved her, our parents never loved her. She even told us if she didn't have money nobody would come near here. Which was partly true coz she knew the guy was only after that as well.
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@toniganzon (76282)
• Philippines
5 Apr
@LadyDuck She is and yet she is blaming herself that she is the issue for everything. Not seeing the guy has a fault at all.
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@LadyDuck (498681)
• Italy
5 Apr
@toniganzon - Your sister shows signs of depression and this guy is surely the cause of her problems.
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@toniganzon (76282)
• Philippines
5 Apr
@Jehanne She does. She told us she knew it was a mistake but she just couldn't get out of that situation. She is also very well aware the guy is only after her money. She knew all of us are against him.
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@toniganzon (76282)
• Philippines
4 Apr
It hasn't ended from the time she started a relationship with him and it's been 16 years.
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@Jehanne (877)
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5 Apr
@toniganzon (jaw drop) that long?... Hope she realizes the effect of the choices she made.
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@kaylachan (83970)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Apr
You're here when you want to be.
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@kaylachan (83970)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
5 Apr
@toniganzon I'm usually on daily, but I've been known to take a day off sometimes.
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@toniganzon (76282)
• Philippines
6 Apr
@kaylachan I am known to take years off. But I always come back anyway.
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@toniganzon (76282)
• Philippines
5 Apr
@DaddyEvil Thank you. Even if there was and I wanted to, I couldn't.
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@DaddyEvil (172144)
• United States
5 Apr
@toniganzon I understand. If we had the room for guests here, I'd invite you to come stay with us for a while.
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@toniganzon (76282)
• Philippines
4 Apr
OH yes and he has to deal with that since forever. At least now she has me and Craig near him.
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@rakski (151967)
• Philippines
5 Apr
@toniganzon he must be somehow relieved now that he have someone to go too when he needed escaped from his mother
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@toniganzon (76282)
• Philippines
4 Apr
That's the saddest part. She told me and our older sister that all of us hated the guy but why did she still choose him. She had a good relationship with another man before that lasted 7 years but didn't end up with him. She questioned why did God lher be with this man who doesn't love him.
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@DianneN (253818)
• United States
5 Apr
@toniganzon It’s difficult to understand why someone does what they do.
I was going out with someone I thought I would marry, until I met my husband and broke up with my long time boyfriend. My mother looked at a photo of my hubs and thought he was a New York sharpie. She didn’t like him at all until she met him. No one can stand in the way what one feels is right in their heart, no matter what other people say. Hopefully, your sister will get out of that relationship once she’s ready.
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@toniganzon (76282)
• Philippines
5 Apr
@DianneN Yeah, I'm not sure she'll ever be ready to leave him ever.
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@AmbiePam (117693)
• United States
5 Apr
@toniganzon She’s blaming God for her own decision?
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@toniganzon (76282)
• Philippines
4 Apr
Indeed. It is and she's questioning God why did He allow her to be with that guy.
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@LeaPea2417 (39869)
• Toccoa, Georgia
4 Apr
I am sorry you went through that. She needs to break up with that guy.
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@toniganzon (76282)
• Philippines
4 Apr
She never will. She is madly in love with him and even begged for his love. I told her she must learn to love herself first.
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@toniganzon (76282)
• Philippines
4 Apr
It may be ok but this will happen again for sure.
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@JudyEv (377843)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Apr
@toniganzon Oh dear. That would be very stressful.
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@LindaOHio (219063)
• United States
4 Apr
I'm sorry for all the drama. I like my life....it's lonely but there's no drama. I hope the situation resolves itself.
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@toniganzon (76282)
• Philippines
4 Apr
I am so jealous of you. I want that kind of peace.
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@LindaOHio (219063)
• United States
5 Apr
@toniganzon I hope things calm down for you.
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@augusta123 (9138)
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4 Apr
Oh that poor boy
why is the mother pouring her anger and frustration on that boy, it isn't fair.
why is the mother pouring her anger and frustration on that boy, it isn't fair.1 person likes this
@toniganzon (76282)
• Philippines
4 Apr
For sure it isn't. We repeatedly told her she should think about her son and the effect it would be on him in such situation but she said her son doesn' care about her nor love her. And she's aware that there's something wrong with her mentally.
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@valherma00 (2526)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
4 Apr
i'm sorry for your work situation, which i hope will change and as for your sister, i wish she finds someone who is more peaceful. i'm sorry this influenced you all.
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@toniganzon (76282)
• Philippines
4 Apr
Work can be easily handled. It's the drama that's more difficult to deal with.
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@valherma00 (2526)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
6 Apr
@toniganzon i agree about that.
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