Why was I missing for days?
By Toni
@toniganzon (75659)
Philippines
April 3, 2026 5:53pm CST
Big family drama started on April first.
April fool's day? Nope, it wasn't a prank. No joke. It was real. Got worse on the second day and the world turned upside down.
It was my sister and the idiotic boyfriend I mentioned. I wasn't involved.
When she's mad at him, she's mad at the whole world, at herself, and even at her very own son. My pitiful 15 year old nephew, I had to comfort because my sister was being unreasonably mad.
She screamed that none of us loved her and if it wasn't for her money, none would want to be near her! But I knew she wasn't referring to us, her siblings, or her son, but she meant her guy!
I'm exhausted physically from work because of all the stress with the staff recently.
I'm emotionally and mentally exhausted as well because of all the drama.
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14 responses
@toniganzon (75659)
• Philippines
55m
Yes and she is toxic too. I had to call our older sister because I couldn't handle her and she pushed us away. Telling the both of us we never loved her, our parents never loved her. She even told us if she didn't have money nobody would come near here. Which was partly true coz she knew the guy was only after that as well.
@toniganzon (75659)
• Philippines
53m
It hasn't ended from the time she started a relationship with him and it's been 16 years.
@toniganzon (75659)
• Philippines
52m
Indeed. It is and she's questioning God why did He allow her to be with that guy.
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@toniganzon (75659)
• Philippines
51m
OH yes and he has to deal with that since forever. At least now she has me and Craig near him.
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@rakski (151083)
• Philippines
23m
@toniganzon he must be somehow relieved now that he have someone to go too when he needed escaped from his mother
@augusta123 (7953)
•
21h
Oh that poor boy
why is the mother pouring her anger and frustration on that boy, it isn't fair.
why is the mother pouring her anger and frustration on that boy, it isn't fair.1 person likes this
@toniganzon (75659)
• Philippines
49m
For sure it isn't. We repeatedly told her she should think about her son and the effect it would be on him in such situation but she said her son doesn' care about her nor love her. And she's aware that there's something wrong with her mentally.
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@kaylachan (83816)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21h
You're here when you want to be.
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@LeaPea2417 (39803)
• Toccoa, Georgia
1h
I am sorry you went through that. She needs to break up with that guy.
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@toniganzon (75659)
• Philippines
57m
She never will. She is madly in love with him and even begged for his love. I told her she must learn to love herself first.
@toniganzon (75659)
• Philippines
54m
That's the saddest part. She told me and our older sister that all of us hated the guy but why did she still choose him. She had a good relationship with another man before that lasted 7 years but didn't end up with him. She questioned why did God lher be with this man who doesn't love him.
@LindaOHio (218097)
• United States
11h
I'm sorry for all the drama. I like my life....it's lonely but there's no drama. I hope the situation resolves itself.
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@valherma00 (2069)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
3h
i'm sorry for your work situation, which i hope will change and as for your sister, i wish she finds someone who is more peaceful. i'm sorry this influenced you all.
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@toniganzon (75659)
• Philippines
53m
Work can be easily handled. It's the drama that's more difficult to deal with.
