Aging Gracefully

@AmbiePam (120428)
United States
April 4, 2026 12:25pm CST
I don’t know how many people in Hollywood have face lifts, and even if they don’t have facelifts they have access to procedures that keep them looking youthful while you and I age normally. A commercial for “The Madison” came on TV again, and they showed Michelle Pfeifer. Talk about aging gracefully! In the TV show she plays the age she really is, which is a nice change of pace. Then I look at Helen Mirren (The Queen) and Ellen Burstyn (Alice Doesn’t Live Here Anymore, The Exorcist), who are even older, and I’m wowed. They are lovely, but also regal and impressive. I hope I age that well.
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@DaddyEvil (174176)
• United States
4 Apr
I think I still look good enough for my age. I don't get compliments like I did when I was 50 (Before the pandemic, one nurse stopped Pretty and I when we were going into a hospital to visit a friend and told us Pretty had to wait in the car since you had to be over 16 to see patients. We were both wearing masks. When Pretty told the nurse she was 31 years old, the nurse looked confused and told me to take off my mask and then told Pretty to take hers off, too, and then congratulated both of us on how well we were aging. ) but only Pretty calls me grandpa in public and most people look at us and laugh. Sometimes Pretty will wait until we're in a checkout line and then tells me she'll go home with me if I pay for her groceries. She says it loud enough people at other registers can hear her and, when I tell her I don't think so, they grin and laugh at us. My hair only has a white streak in the middle with white in my sideburns and the rest is still auburn... I can't grow a mustache or beard anymore because they come in pure white.
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@Dreamerby (10111)
• Calcutta, India
5 Apr
thats crazy! Pretty has a habit of embarrassing you in public
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@DaddyEvil (174176)
• United States
5 Apr
@Dreamerby When I tell her "no" she's the one who turns red.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
4 Apr
Who says I age normally? I believe that some people are blessed with great genes and are beautiful to begin with. There are other noninvasive procedures that can help, too.
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@Juliaacv (56276)
• Canada
4 Apr
I agree. I also think that a large part of aging gracefully includes one's hair style and their choice of wardrobe items. And I have always changed the style of items that I wore every 8 years or so over the course of my life. Although most women, myself included, dislike our chicken necks, Harper and Willow love it and will quietly tell me when we are cuddling that they like that squishy part of my neck. It is hard to feel bad when they whisper those sweet nothings into your ear.
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@AmbiePam (120428)
• United States
4 Apr
I love the way you think. Harper and Willow make everything better, don’t they.
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@AmbiePam (120428)
• United States
4 Apr
@Juliaacv After retirement you will still be in demand and needed, just by different people.
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@Juliaacv (56276)
• Canada
4 Apr
@AmbiePam Yes they do. And you know what? My son knows that I am a bit fearful of retiring and not having anything to fill my time with after working. I suggested to him today that I may just drop down to part time. He was quick to tell me if I wanted to retire a year early (which I do not) then I could be with the girls. He told me as soon as I retire, since I am a morning person, and he always loved mornings with me before I took him to school, that I could come there and get the girls fed, dressed and out the door. He also suggested that while I was there I could put something yummy in the slow cooker for supper-which he always loved when I did when he was a child. So.......maybe I am not so fearful of retirement as I was a day ago.
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@LadyDuck (502070)
• Italy
5 Apr
The physiotherapist of my husband, two weeks ago, asked me "how old I am", looked surprised and said "congratulations!". So I suppose I look good enough for my age and I look younger.
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@AmbiePam (120428)
• United States
5 Apr
I know you look great.
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@LadyDuck (502070)
• Italy
5 Apr
@AmbiePam I thought "what a odd question", now I realized he thought I was a lot younger than my husband.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54709)
• United States
4 Apr
They are all lovely. Those three look natural to me.
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@AmbiePam (120428)
• United States
4 Apr
You, my dear, are one who looks ageless. You and I have had this conversation before. You just don’t look your age at all.
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@AmbiePam (120428)
• United States
5 Apr
@Tampa_girl7 That is unbelievable.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54709)
• United States
5 Apr
@AmbiePam I turn 64 in September.
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@sallypup (69131)
• Centralia, Washington
4 Apr
I'm not aging gracefully. Know what? I am grateful that I am aging. One of my brothers and my Dad never had that gift.
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@AmbiePam (120428)
• United States
4 Apr
I’m sorry for you that you didn’t have them very long. I’m holding my breath with this aging thing. I just desperately want to hang on to my mental faculties.
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@LeaPea2417 (40020)
• Toccoa, Georgia
5 Apr
One who has claimed she never had a facelift (but I think she has recently) is Christie Brinkley.
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@AmbiePam (120428)
• United States
5 Apr
That very well could be.
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@wolfgirl569 (135491)
• Marion, Ohio
4 Apr
I have been told I don't look my age. I am happy with that
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@rakski (156072)
• Philippines
5 Apr
I am hoping that I age well too
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@JudyEv (381649)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Apr
I don't spend much time looking in the mirror. It's too depressing.
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@AmbiePam (120428)
• United States
5 Apr
I’ve seen your picture, and you are a beautiful woman.
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@AmbiePam (120428)
• United States
5 Apr
@JudyEv You’re welcome. Just remember, it’s true.
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@JudyEv (381649)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Apr
@AmbiePam You are such a kind person, Amber. Thank you.
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@Deepizzaguy (122011)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
5 Apr
I also try to age gracefully by taking care of myself working on being grateful and happy.
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@LindaOHio (222166)
• United States
5 Apr
Everyone says I look younger than I am; but that's because I'm fat; and my face doesn't have any wrinkles.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
5 Apr
Some of them have done well with face lifts and then some have gone so far it’s not good anymore I love Reba so much but her face work is just getting on borderline too much. I think Steve Nicks aged gracefully. As has Steve Marin lol
@Dreamerby (10111)
• Calcutta, India
5 Apr
Aging is a part of life and all of us should accept it as a naturalprocess.
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