Why I have to “fool” my doctor.
By Amber
@AmbiePam (116943)
United States
April 8, 2026 5:10am CST
Yes, I’m going to the doctor today about sleeping up to 18 hours a day (not on purpose). But having to “fool” her is now something I do automatically because she doesn’t seem to get “it”. I wish doctors would listen better.
I’m white, and some of you may remember seeing my picture. I’m very pale, and I don’t wear blush. In the past year or so I’ve ceased to wear makeup for the most part. It shouldn’t be a big deal since all I ever wore anyway was lip gloss and foundation.
So what’s the problem? Without the little makeup I did wear my paleness stands out, apparently, to her. I come in for something minor and suddenly she comments on my pale face and wants to check this and this, and so on. The other day, I tested her. I came in once again, with no makeup. She started to go on and on, and then stepped out of the room. I hurriedly went into my purse and put on some lip gloss. She comes back in the room, looks at me, and tells me we don’t need to bother doing such and such after all because I look fine now.
So, how do I “fool” her into not looking for red herrings with my health? I wear some stupid lip gloss. Good grief!
Doctors not listening is how you end up being a person with low blood pressure suddenly forced to take medication for high blood pressure for two years. That aggravated me to no end.
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@LooeyVille (37)
• United States
2h
That's just crazy talk on her part. Oh how frustrating. You're pale, she should get over it. I wish I could take you to my new doctor. He LISTENS and he's FABULOUS! And that new medication he gave me has fixed my daytime excessive sleepiness.
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@Marilynda1225 (89794)
• United States
Just now
I'm so happy that I have a doctor that listens. It would frustrate me no end if I had to deal with your doctor. I hope you can fool her today
@MarieCoyle (56919)
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2h
I have to wonder what she would say if you told her this story. I, too am extremely pale. I have always been pale. The old saying of “you can’t judge a book by its cover “ is so true. Doctors, as we know, can be so frustrating!! I’m sorry you had to put up with such foolishness.
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@snowy22315 (205600)
• United States
Just now
She doesn't sound like a very good doctor
. Wear that lip gloss girl
. Wear that lip gloss girl @Traceyjayne (9626)
• United Kingdom
19m
How frustrating .... It annoys me when I'm at the Doctor's and all I've said is hello and they are already tapping on the computer ... ! Sometimes I think I should say something like
" I've just eaten a frog in the car park "
Just to see if they are in fact listening ....
@Ciclis (75)
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Just now
That's awful and I don't think she seems to ve a very competent dr. Are there any other drs in your area that you can switch to? I wish you the best of luck










