Do you prefer a male boss? Or a female boss?
By The Horse
@TheHorse (237794)
Walnut Creek, California
May 17, 2026 12:19pm CST
I know I asked this question a few years ago. I am still interested in others' responses.
Yesterday, the Assistant Manager at Guitar Center, a female, told me that I should not wear open sandals to work.
I am battling an ingrown toenail on my left foot, and wearing sandals during warmer weather alleviates the pain.
A couple of days before that, the Manager, also a female, had asked me why I use "inventory" guitars to teach guitar lessons, when cheap "donated" guitars were available.
I said, "Because they're good," but she was gone before I could really explain. I "sell" good guitars by playing them during lessons. One of my students recently purchased a $1,000 Martin guitar from us after hearing it played by me repeatedly during our lessons.
A few years ago, that same Manager/Supervisor told me the cologne I was wearing is too strong. It is Patchouli, a "hippy" scent from the 1970s. It is associated with "hippy" music, like the Eagles, CSN, and the Grateful Dead.
My male supervisors have never criticized me for what I am wearing, what instruments I use during lessons, or how I smell.
They are not perfect. Our new "Lessons Lead" spends most of his time on his cell phone. I have no idea what he is looking at. I am losing students. They are not being called back when they want to reschedule.
OK, so back to my original question: Do you prefer a male boss? Or a female boss?
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@RasmaSandra (97236)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1h
When I worked in NYC on marine insurance one of the companies has a top boss and two under bosses for us insurance agents. The top boss was a Chinese man who thought he was the second coming of the Lord and none higher than him and the two under bosses were a gay couple and I tell you these women were a piece of work,
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@AmbiePam (119347)
• United States
3h
I have never liked patchouli. However, she ought to have kept her comment to herself. Actually, in California, I would have thought patchouli and opened toed sandals would be mandatory on men.
I’ll be honest, I hate seeing men in open toed shoes, but you’ve got a really good reason to wear them. And it’s understandable men would wear them too.
I’d honestly rather have a female boss. I’ve had both, but I preferred the female.
I’ll be honest, I hate seeing men in open toed shoes, but you’ve got a really good reason to wear them. And it’s understandable men would wear them too.
I’d honestly rather have a female boss. I’ve had both, but I preferred the female.1 person likes this
@wolfgirl569 (134531)
• Marion, Ohio
31m
Usually prefer a male boss. Too many women let it go to their head
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@wolfgirl569 (134531)
• Marion, Ohio
Just now
@TheHorse Like they are suddenly better and smarter than everyone else. Some men do too but not as often.

@Deepizzaguy (121297)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
1h
Male bosses since they are not easily offended by comments from males that they consider offensive.
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