Is the name your family calls you different than your real name?
By snowy
@snowy22315 (211881)
United States
June 23, 2026 8:12am CST
Oddly this morning I was thinking about my great uncle William. The family called him William, but in the world, they called him Bill. My dad's real name is Paul, but the family calls him Bud. Friends name is Steve, but the family calls him Stephen. My nephew is Steven, which is what the family calls him, but he will call himself Steve when talking to others. Do you have a different name out in the world?
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@snowy22315 (211881)
• United States
23 Jun
My mother is called by her middle name. My grandparents said they couldn't find a middle name that went with what they wanted to call her. She just goes by her first initial and middle name.
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@NJChicaa (127733)
• United States
23 Jun
@snowy22315 Supposedly one side of the family called me one version of the name while the other called me something else so as a baby I didn't respond to any name. My mother was like "just call her **** you can't mess that up!"
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@Shivram59 (51327)
• India
23 Jun
My family and friends call me with the name "Jai" which are the first three letters of my real name.
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@Juliaacv (57096)
• Canada
23 Jun
My 3 brothers and myself all go by a name that is a nickname of our official name.
My first name is 2 words, and cousins will call me that, and aunts and uncles.
I basically answer to either Julia or Julie, nothing else really as I do not see the aunts, uncles and cousins often.
My brother, Michael, goes by Mike, my brother Stephen, goes by Steve, and my brother Vincent Patrick, goes by V Patrick. We have an uncle who's first name as Vincent, and being my Dad's brother he shared the same last name.
Nobody knows my baby brother by any other name other than Pat, although I did drop his full name decades ago at a Christmas party where he and my hubs worked, and after that people started calling him Vinny. It only really stuck with a couple of friends of his.
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@Juliaacv (57096)
• Canada
23 Jun
@snowy22315 Pretty much so.
My legal name is Julia Anne, but really the only times that I ever heard that was when I was in trouble with my Dad and at our wedding. Even the will had me listed as Julie-so much for legalities.
But there are tombstones in our family plot with ancestors named Julia Ann, my Dad insisted on adding the letter 'e' to Anne, but otherwise it was bound to be my name as long as I was a girl, and the same holds true with all of my brothers except for Steve.
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@snowy22315 (211881)
• United States
23 Jun
Who uses your nickname? Is it just between you and hubby?
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@snowy22315 (211881)
• United States
23 Jun
@LadyDuck oh yeah, you have mentioned that before
Ducky is "ducky " means good, copesethetic Here
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@LadyDuck (506999)
• Italy
23 Jun
@snowy22315 - All my family used my nickname, my Dad, my Mom, my brother and my husband used the same, "ducky".
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@Marilynda1225 (91890)
• United States
23 Jun
I was well into my adult life when I found out that my moms sister Vivian (aks Vivi) was actually Irene Vivian on her birth certificate. She always used her middle name as her first name.
For me, my name Marilyn is always shortened to just Ma
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@Marilynda1225 (91890)
• United States
24 Jun
@snowy22315 long like a lamb baaaa or short if you're one of my kids and then it's Ma
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@snowy22315 (211881)
• United States
23 Jun
Sounds like you have a variety of names.

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@franxav (14630)
• India
23 Jun
@snowy22315 I have two more names, mostly my college mates used - Xivy and Xavier.
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@RasmaSandra (99777)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
23 Jun
My husband had a pet name for me Ruksis in Latvian that means Piglet it was a sort of secredt joke thing between us and I did not mind so he never called me by my real name and you know during this time after losing him once or twice I have heard this term whispered in my ear so I knew it was him,
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@snowy22315 (211881)
• United States
24 Jun
That was similar with Uncle William.
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@LindaOHio (223946)
• United States
26 Jun
My husband used to call me Lin a lot. So did some of my friends.
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@snowy22315 (211881)
• United States
24 Jun
My nephew is marrying a woman who is half Peruvian. They all use nicknames in their family..which are things like the Viking, the bird, etc.
@Ineeddentures (42546)
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24 Jun
Is the name your family calls you different than your real name
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@snowy22315 (211881)
• United States
23 Jun
Michael is a good name. One of my favorites, my son's middle name. Most Michael's end up going by Mike though.
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@snowy22315 (211881)
• United States
23 Jun
Yes, names can be a challenge sometimes. My son goes by his real name with other people, but we call him by a nickname.
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because my real name is so different from my nickname.
Also I and my siblings have endearment which makes other people end up confused too. Lol!