Two Cards
By Amber
@AmbiePam (124955)
United States
June 28, 2026 4:05pm CST
My dad loves funny cards, and when he gives me birthday cards, they are usually funny too. Incidentally, my mom’s were always sweet and caring. Anyway, the thing with him is that he never wrote in the cards. In his head, I might want to use it again so he leaves it unsigned. I told him years ago, if it came from him, I’m not reusing it no matter what, I’m keeping it. So, if he gave one to me with no message, I’d get a pen, hand him the card, and tell him to write something.
On occasion, a card I’d get him was so funny he’d want to use it again, and then he’d be disappointed when I wrote in it. I fixed the problem this year. I give him a funny one with no message so he can use it again, and then I get him a sweet one he’ll want to keep. This year, the funny one made him laugh so hard he almost spit out his drink. He’ll definitely use that one again.
On occasion, a card I’d get him was so funny he’d want to use it again, and then he’d be disappointed when I wrote in it. I fixed the problem this year. I give him a funny one with no message so he can use it again, and then I get him a sweet one he’ll want to keep. This year, the funny one made him laugh so hard he almost spit out his drink. He’ll definitely use that one again.18 people like this
14 responses
@Traceyjayne (12978)
• United Kingdom
28 Jun
My friend used to do the same but with envelopes. He would never write on the envelope or stick the flap down , in case you wanted to use the envelope again….his Mom always told him ….” All the cards I buy come with an envelope “ but he would say …..” yes, but what if you wanted to write a letter to someone, or you had to fill in and return a form….you would need an envelope then “ ……he had a point …
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@Marilynda1225 (91738)
• United States
29 Jun
Many of us have done the same thing and I always have extra envelopes on hand.
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@GardenGerty (170386)
• United States
28 Jun
Good you guys have come to terms with your wants and needs in the way of greetings.
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@jobelbojel (36800)
• Philippines
28 Jun
Funny card to reuse and sweet one so he can keep - you got itt!
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@BelleStarr (61643)
• United States
29 Jun
I keep all the cards I get for years. Sometimes I go and reread them.
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@wolfgirl569 (138974)
• Marion, Ohio
28 Jun
That is a good way to give him cards.
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@sissy15 (13364)
• United States
29 Jun
I used to do something similar with my mom, were i'd get her a funny card and a sweet one. Now I don't bother with cards and instead write people letters. It saves money, there's more room to write everything, and it's a little more meaningful. My mom has a letter I wrote her about ten years ago, which she still pulls out and reads from time to time. I found out the teacher I wrote a letter to when my son was little kept her letter and reads it from time to time when she needs a pick-me-up. She told my son she treasured it. It made me feel happy that I could do something meaningful for someone that took only a little time and effort from me. I got her some gifts too, but it was the letter she liked the most. Sometimes people just like to be reminded that they're doing something right. I always loved the funny cards, though, so sometimes I'll slip one in if I find one I find particularly hilarious, if I think they'll appreciate it.
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@sissy15 (13364)
• United States
30 Jun
@AmbiePam They don't get them often, so I know it means more to them. Teachers are often underappreciated and blamed for things out of their control. As a para, I am underappreciated by most, but our teachers always appreciate us, and my special needs kiddo's mom appreciates me, but thankfully, I don't have to take the blame for a lot of things they get. Paras aren't seen as much, but that also means we aren't getting the brunt of the blame for things.
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@snowy22315 (211415)
• United States
29 Jun
I never knew people re used cards like that. Good job on the funny card. I like that my dad's birthday and Father's Day are so close together. I usually send or give .one funny, and one serious card.
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@RasmaSandra (99753)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
28 Jun
And you are one smart cookie,
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@Marilynda1225 (91738)
• United States
29 Jun
Great idea giving your dad two cards. That's really funny that he didn't write in the cards .
When my kids were growing up I always put a dollar in their card. Some birthdays it was hard to even find that extra dollar but it became a tradition. Every year on my birthday my son puts a dollar in my card and I have a collection of cards all with the dollar still in them.

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@Fleura (36144)
• United Kingdom
29 Jun
I guess you could write a message on a post-it note and stick it inside the card. Then he could have the message and still have a card to re-use!
Rather strangely (for me) I never thought about re-using a card, although I do sometimes use the picture from the front and stick it on a plain card if I like it enough. Or use it as a gift tag.
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@JESSY3236 (22556)
• United States
30 Jun
lol I usually write something in the cards I give.
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@AliCanary (4850)
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29 Jun
My cousins solved the problem by recycling the cards even if a message was written in them (usually they were just signed). It became a joke to see how many different signatures were on the card. I thought it was a great idea!
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@AliCanary (4850)
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29 Jun
@AmbiePam lol, quite possible! I'm sure some of them have been going around for years. I write a Christmas newsletter to insert in my cards, so I suppose I don't need to sign them, but it's probably hard to recycle cards without the envelopes, anyway
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