Do some people make your head spin?

This photo is beautiful and that lady, well, she is German, everything is black or white for them and I know how much Swiss Germans are adverse to spending money.

Beautiful shot. Some people are just a wee bit off and of course it's people like you they latch onto.

I was admiring the photo. It is good she does not live any closer, she might get on your last nerve. Then she would be without friends to listen.

That really is a gorgeous flower. At least something special came out of your visit for you.

It is perfect indeed. Yes many people make my head spin.

Our lodger Antonio has a tendency to over-analyse everything, and to look for hidden meanings in the simplest things. For example Little One thought that the word 'compost' written on the lid of our compost bin in the kitchen had faded too much, so she re-wrote it and added a few decorations; he then had to ask whether this was some subtle message that perhaps they had been using the bins incorrectly and it was a passive way of getting the message across... My partner does tend to do this too, which is maddening but not to quite the same degree, thankfully. At our little beginners' music session last week Antonio, who is learning the violin, was trying to analyse a particular new piece of music. After we had our first attempt at playing it he started going on about how, part way through, there was a key change to A minor but it sounded like G major (or something along those lines) and the particular notes that gave these impressions.... The rest of us just stood there thinking 'What is he on about?' I had to tell him to just stop analysing it!

That's a beautiful pic. I think I am one who makes heads spin.

I tend to over-analyze everything…but I don’t impose it on others. I bore/annoy/infuriate myself with it. Glad Vince was able to help her some, too! That is a gorgeous flower.

It is such a beautiful bloom, great shot. She sounds like somebody that one can only take in small doses.

Some people can drive you nuts while being very sweet

That's a lovely bloom. You're the lady's calm spot in a worrisome world.

I know people like that. Yes, they make your head spin. I'm glad Vince could help with things she couldn't do herself. The gardenia is beautiful. I'm glad you said the name of the flower.

My gosh, that really is a lovely gardenia. I have a big bush of white ones in the backyard. They smell heavenly, but they are usually in various states of disrepair, lol

Your entire second paragraph literally described my ex entirely!

It's a beautiful flower. Uhm... I may not be as nice as you are. If someone drives me crazy, I avoid them. I'll still talk to them if they catch me when I'm out and about but when they bring up the same old stuff, suddenly, I've got an urgent need to be elsewhere. I'm sorry she's such a pain and hope she makes some new friends soon, for your sake.

Tha flower is really pretty. I don't think I can deal with her like you do

Earlier, I used to get upset or lose my temper with such people, but as I age, I tend to keep my interactions limited with them. Really, they used to make me want to bang my head against a wall. So, now I preserve my energy for other things.

the photo of the flower is too good. There are many people who really make the head spin. Thanks Judy for the lovely share

Pretty gardenia! Well, she is German and I know exactly what you meant. I have a lot of German friends.

it's straight from the dreams, so perfect, the photo. maybe cause she lives alone, could be that or it's her personality. i live alone now but i fear it will be like this forever and solitary does strange things to people. i think you have every right to vent