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vehaileairu @vehaileairu (2286) • Philippines 14 Jan 07

too much spending of money for vanity?.. do you know someone who waste all money going to spa, parlor or salon etc... and then you see them as the same, nothings change... i dont get it why most of them do that.. i know a girl who...

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silverpup Its not neccessary to keep going to parlours/saloons this often. What is the use in spending so much to get nothing out? Instead one can try some home remedies which are equally effective (of course nothing can cause a great change). If its so very essential,...

15 Jan 07

Leca @lecanis (16647) • Murfreesboro, Tennessee 14 Jan 07

Looking for input on the only child issue. I have one son (7 months) and due to family health problems, I don't plan on having any more children. However, comments are constantly made to me that it's wrong of me to make my son...

children

only child

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silverpup It is not true that being an only child will spoil the child. It all depends on the situation and the means of experiences that one goes through in life. So do not get bothered on this. Let anyone tell whatever they want to. Dont get confused. I only feel that...

15 Jan 07

Rubeena Bashir Kunju @rubyriaz007 (4187) • India 12 Sep 18

For many days Kerala faced a serious flood problem.Many people lost their lives and also house. Now that problem got solved as it stopped raining,but another serious problem arouse.After the floods , a dangerous disease like Rat...

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silverpup For many days Kerala faced a serious flood problem.Many people lost their lives and also house. Now that problem got solved as it stopped raining,but another serious problem arouse.After the floods , a dangerous disease like Rat Bite Fever has come. Many...

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Marie2473 @Marie2473 (8512) • Sweden 14 Jan 07

Me and my bf are talking about maybe getting apuppy. not just now, but soon. I like to plan thinks like this since it is like having a baby more or less, and I was wondering if somone has some tips. I was thinking about the rase...

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silverpup Hi I welcome this idea only if you can support the puppy for its lifetime, since dogs get attached to us very soon and they will not like to leave us (and we too, of course). I have a puppy at home. It has almost become a family member now. I cant even think...

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slanderson52 @slanderson52 (542) • United States 14 Jan 07

I recently saw a program on the Discovery channel showing a mother and father with 16 children, all biological!!! This poor woman has been pregnant practically from the beginning of her marriage on. If I remember right, I don't...

children

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silverpup hi slanderson52, It might be exciting to become a mom so many times but all the kids need to get attention, love and care. Also if one is finanacial stable too, I would advise not to go for more kids like this, as money is also not a stable thing. You need...

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hassanchop @hassanchop (820) • United States 14 Jan 07

My whole family has struggled with depression, and most of the extended family, and all of the nuclear family, has been on anti-depressants before, or is currently on them. I never have needed them, or even come close to needing...

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silverpup hi good that you have not had depression. Keep it up. Have a positive attitude in everything. The best way to beat depression is to have a constant positive attitude in everything and to have a positive re-inforcement in mind once you are depressed. That...

15 Jan 07

ComputerK1ng @ComputerK1ng (79) • United States 14 Jan 07

My sister is 18 and had a kid at 16. She still is very immature and even with having a child she refuses to grow up. Now she has decided to go to the army. She told my mom that mom would either have to adopt the baby or she was...

adopt

christian

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silverpup Hi ComputerKing, I would recommend you to adopt the baby, since it is your sister's its easy later to give herback when she becomes matured. A child needs motherly affection. even if it does not receive it now, let it receive affection from you. It will feel...

15 Jan 07

Sawsen @Sawsen (793) • United States 14 Jan 07

I grew up in a small town in California, where things were just different, people were nicer, and more trusting. I never had to deal with September 11th, or with terrorism, or with wars. Now all I hear about is hatred, anger, and...

times have changed

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silverpup hi Sawsen, I too have felt bad thinking about the same thing sometime before. Its true that we live in a world that is full of anti-social activities, hatred, harrasments, etc. I too long for a world that is full of love, care, helping and with basic human...

15 Jan 07

ugachaka @ugachaka (297) • United States 14 Jan 07

My girlfriend has occasionally suffered bouts with depression. I can never really relate and think just taking her mind of things will make it go away. Sometimes, she just has no desire to get out of bed and can go this whole...

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silverpup Hi Everyone experiences depression at some point of time. It fades away as time passes and when we try to engage ourselves from the most worrying problems. Even though your friend goes on tablets, she must try herself not to think of problems or what is...

15 Jan 07

oarnamav @oarnamav (2708) • India 4 Jan 07

I am a married and 52 years old man. I am very much happy in my family. I love my wife too. I have a son who is 20 & about to become an engineer whithin a years time. I am volunterily retired person (an engineer). My wife is...

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silverpup Let it dissappoint her or not. Dont be bothered so much. Its natural for a girl to get attracted towards someone who's so caring in her age. You cant do anything for that. Of course everyone gets dissapointed for some reason or other at some point of time....

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oarnamav @oarnamav (2708) • India 4 Jan 07

I am a married and 52 years old man. I am very much happy in my family. I love my wife too. I have a son who is 20 & about to become an engineer whithin a years time. I am volunterily retired person (an engineer). My wife is...

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silverpup I can understand. But I think its not a wise thing for a person of your age (may be for anyone) to express in words. May be this will help her to freely express herself towards you. Its better you express in the way you behave as treating her as your daughter....

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neo2neo @neo2neo (461) • India 10 Jan 07

I have this genuine question. I just came across a beggar and did not know what to do! When I thought 'how poor' and I pity him and moved my hand towards my pocket...and then I observed him. He could walk fine, his hands, legs...

beg

beggar

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silverpup Hi neo2neo, its a good question you asked. Its true that even if some are healthy they keep begging on streets. You know that it is a competetive world. Everyone is striving hard for money, including beggars. A man's stomach need to be filled in order to have...

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oarnamav @oarnamav (2708) • India 4 Jan 07

I am a married and 52 years old man. I am very much happy in my family. I love my wife too. I have a son who is 20 & about to become an engineer whithin a years time. I am volunterily retired person (an engineer). My wife is...

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silverpup Halo, I dont understand why you are so much bothered about a small girl of teens. I dont mean to hurt you. Its usual for teen age girls to like those people who are jovial or helping them out. So dont take it the wrong way. May be she's trying to impress you...

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oarnamav @oarnamav (2708) • India 4 Jan 07

I am a married and 52 years old man. I am very much happy in my family. I love my wife too. I have a son who is 20 & about to become an engineer whithin a years time. I am volunterily retired person (an engineer). My wife is...

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silverpup I dont know why you are so much bothered about a small girl of teens at this age. I dont want to hurt you. But understand that she is possibly immature for her age is like that. Girls of teens usually like jovial friends. But will like to have only a boyfriend...

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George B Vieto @Deepizzaguy (117841) • Lake Charles, Louisiana 5 Feb 18

Maine Game Wardens Bayley Grant and Scott Osgood and two hunters assisted a female moose to get loose from a muddy spring that the moose covered in mud up to her neck. The two hunters were looking for deer antlers in a cedar swamp...

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silverpup Maine Game Wardens Bayley Grant and Scott Osgood and two hunters assisted a female moose to get loose from a muddy spring that the moose covered in mud up to her neck. The two hunters were looking for deer antlers in a cedar swamp when they saw a moose with...

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Wanderlaugh @Wanderlaugh (1622) • Australia 12 Jan 07

Depression is a physical condition with mental side effects. I've had it, I beat it, and believe me, I'm thankful every day. I see a lot of posts from people trying to deal with it, so I'm more than curious what people have been...

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silverpup hi wanderlaugh, its true that depression or any sort of feeling should be worked out personally apart from taking tablets or advice from outside. Each one should try to beat it out only with positive reinforcement in their own minds. Whatever advice one...

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shywolf @shywolf (4514) • United States 12 Jan 07

I was just replying to another topic about the vet's office that reminded me of something that happened when I was about 13 or 14 years old. Do you think that this woman was wrong to treat me the way she did? Read on - We had...

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silverpup hi shywolf, I know how you would have really felt in that situation since I too have a doggy which draws so much love from all our family members. Pets are really wonderful! It really hurts very much when our pet is in trouble. But some dont understand and...

13 Jan 07

dsmmsd @dsmmsd (71) • Canada 12 Jan 07

Ive been with my girlfriend for approximately 3 years almost 4 and we started dating in our last year of highschool and now we are both in 3rd year university.. we go to differnt schools about 2 hours apart.. and i dono just...

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silverpup Hi dsmmsd, Call her and talk freely with her. Talk out. Dont just think she has changed. She might be really busy or must be occupied with some worries etc., So before u decide on anything catch up with her and talk to her in a soft lovable tone that your...

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