smints8985

@smints8985 (1594)

United States • Age 40

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Can it just be Friendship??

arunkrishnan005 @arunkrishnan005 (262) • India 7 Jun 10

I have seen many many boy having friendship with girls.But in the end they become lovers or something else.how can all think like this in their life? I dont think boys and girls can just be friends in life.they can just be casual...

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smints8985 I still believe a man and woman can still be just friends. Just like a guy can have another guy for his best friend, and a girl can have another girl for her best friend, I think the same thing applies to a girl having a guy as her best pal and the other way...

8 Jun 10

Do you plan everything beforehand or do you do things on the spur of the moment?

kiran8 @kiran8 (15348) • Mangalore, India 7 Jun 10

There are some people who never do things without planning things well in advance, beit going for a movie or eating out or even simple things like going for shopping or buying groceries.One of my neighbor has a fixed day for doing...

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smints8985 I like to have major things planned and lined up as to get an idea of how things are going to happen throughout a trip for example, I prefer to have an itinerary of things that we'll be doing, this helps me plan on what to bring for each day of the trip. But...

8 Jun 10

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Do you put perfume at night before bedtime/sleeping?

neelianoscet @neelianoscet (9615) • Philippines 2 Jun 10

My friend always have the ritual to put perfumes on herself, clothes or spray perfume on her bed or has perfume spray all over the room. She does it to be always smelled well. In case her partner visits or not she always does it....

putting perfume before bedtime

putting perfume before sleep

smell fine

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smints8985 No, I don't. To begin with, I'm not a perfume person, as long as it doesn't smell foul, normal human scent is good enough for me. Occasionally I would use body mist, but it's not a habit of mine to put on any fragrance really. I think some people are just...

3 Jun 10

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Parental Jealousy

elfbwillow @elfbwillow (307) 2 Jun 10

On opening this discussion I want to point out firstly that there is no parental jealousy at all within our little family though recently I have come across a few different situations in which I have seen this happen. When I...

children

jealousy

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smints8985 I believe each and every person faces their own issues in life. And at the bottom of each issue that we have involves only ourselves. Being content with what we have and do not have would be the best way to live our lives. It'll be easier to share our...

3 Jun 10

why are girls so emotional?

edbase @edbase (9) 3 Jun 10

i admit to myself that i am a very emotional person specially when it is about my family. i always cry when i have problems. but one time i think about crying is not the best solution to my problems. so because of that, i start...

emotional

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smints8985 All humans bear emotions, it's just that we express our emotions in different ways. When sad, some people cry to release the emotion while some people opt to do fun things to occupy their minds. Crying is an outlet, of joy, pain or sorrow. It is never a...

3 Jun 10

Never been Jealous before now....

jgbe4245 @jgbe4245 (56) • United States 5 Jul 09

Yes I am a typical woman I have recently been told. I am happily married so this comes as a shock to me. My sister recently became single and she and my ex have been talking a lot almost every day. She talked about him...

jealous woman

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smints8985 I guess that feeling is pretty normal. I remember the times when there was this guy who liked me but I never really liked him more than a friend, he of course gives me special attention and sends me messages everyday. And though I did not like him...

5 Jul 09

If you met someone online, would you consider meeting them in real life?

mssnow @mssnow (9484) • United States 1 Jul 09

Just for the record, Yes, I have met someone on line that i really care for. Of course we are still new and learning about each other so there will be a long time before we meet if we ever do. Yes, I know about all the dangers...

internet

real life

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smints8985 I have met someone in person whom I first got to know online. We are not in contact anymore right now though, it's been years ago. I don't know if I should consider that experience as a good one or not, he wanted to be more than friends after that first...

5 Jul 09

What kind of problem you facing during work ?

dominichan @dominichan (302) • Malaysia 19 Nov 08

what kind of problem you facing during work ? how you deal with it?

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smints8985 Problems with the boss, with the work ethics of co-workers and a whole lot more...

20 Nov 08

what if?

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 4 Apr 08

What if the one you truly loved never knew you loved them? Yet you still had some kind of contact with them? Although you have changed significantly. Would you try? Would you let them know?Is it worth the rejection? What if you...

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smints8985 If we happen to both be single then I do not see anything wrong with it, though it has been quite some time ago, you never know what could possibly happen. People change through time, and what was kind of impossible before may not be as impossible in the...

22 Apr 08

A stranger knocks on your door & asks to use the toilet, would you let them?

gemini_rose @gemini_rose (16264) 21 Apr 08

The stranger looks friendly and seems friendly and also looks in absolute desperate need of the toilet,they are doing the wee wee dance and they are really apologetic at having to disturb you and ask to use it but there is no...

the stranger needs the toilet

wee wee dance

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smints8985 Hmmm... I would probably have to trust my instincts on this one, there are people who look really innocent and I guess they give out a certain aura as to those who seem to have ulterior motives. If the persons seems mysterious then I would have to decline...

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When they turn the lights out, do you think it's time to leave?

desertdarlene @desertdarlene (8910) • United States 18 Apr 08

I work at a library and we often turn down or turn off some of the lights when we are just a few minutes from closing. You'd think people would get the hint? No! Some will continue to look for books in the dark! And, when you tell...

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smints8985 I haven't but at work I am usually the last to get up from my desk for lunch and after work, so this co-worker of mine would keep nagging me and he would usually be standing near the light switch and turn the lights off so that I would get up from my desk...

19 Apr 08

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Should I tell my daughter, I know she is pregnant

venshida @venshida (4836) • United States 18 Apr 08

I was in my daughters room looking for the cordless phone. I saw a book, and I opened it. In the book, it had paper work from her doctor. The paper work indicates she is 6 weeks pregnant. I want to confront her, but then I am...

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smints8985 Yes it was wrong to snoop... taking it from a daughter's side since I am only a year older than her. We want to be able to share things with you but we also want to have a level of privacy. To confront her or not is the problem, as of the moment it would be...

19 Apr 08

What are the qualities of a good boss or superior?

goldwin65 @goldwin65 (935) • Malaysia 5 Apr 08

Some people leave their job because of the boss whereas other remain in the same compay because they like the boss. So, what are the qualities that a good boss should possess? Do you like your boss?

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smints8985 A good boss for me should be a good leader, a good motivator and should be able compassionate to his employees. Someone who can push you to do your best and at the end of the day make you feel good about yourself. He/She should be able to communicate...

14 Apr 08

Do you listen to music or song while driving?

goldwin65 @goldwin65 (935) • Malaysia 14 Apr 08

I normally listen to the local radio music station. I feel good while driving I listen to the music. Sometime I even shake to the tune of the music or song especially my favorite songs. Besides by listening to the music while...

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smints8985 I am a new driver so I still get tense/nervous on the road that is why I listen to the radio while driving, it diverts my concentration from being nervous to being more relaxed while singing along to the songs playing on the radio. It is also effective to keep...

14 Apr 08

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Does listening to music affect your moods?

ellie333 @ellie333 (21016) 13 Apr 08

I find that if I want to get on in the house I play something really upbeat and polish to the beat of the music, if I want to cry I'll play something sad and I daren't put anything with a fast beat on in the car as I am likely to...

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smints8985 I never really thought that music did affect my mood not until lately at work, I often feel kind of bored while working since everyone is really quiet and I just want to sleep. And so I play upbeat tunes and sing along to it, and it does wake me up, and I have...

14 Apr 08

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do you give your real name to a stranger?

rhane7315 @rhane7315 (5649) • Philippines 14 Apr 08

when a stranger asks for your name and your number like cell phone and home phone, do you give it to them or do you give them false infos about you? most of the time it happens on me lol especially when i'm in a public...

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smints8985 I could give them my first name but that is basically all I can give. At times I find it hard to lie about things, like giving a false name or number so more often I wish they don't ask.. haha.. Once I was seated beside a guy in the bus and he started...

14 Apr 08

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What Car Did You Learn To Drive In & Who Taught You? How Old Were You?

ellie333 @ellie333 (21016) 13 Apr 08

Hi my daughter got given some money towards driving lessons for her 17th birthday and I am just amazed at how much they cost. My eldest daughter had a combination of both lessons from an instructor and I put her on my insurance...

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smints8985 I learned to drive just a year ago during my visit to the US, I was 21 then, my uncle taught me how to drive, he was known to have taught a lot of people he know to drive. I learned to drive in a Mercedez, the old model that is, I think it was an 300E that my...

14 Apr 08

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What is the best position for you to read?

cross10 @cross10 (506) • Indonesia 12 Apr 08

I prefer to read on bed, feel more comfortable. how bout you?

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smints8985 It is most comfortable to read sitting on a comfortable couch where it is well-lighted and quiet. Since our living room is lit by dim lights I do not usually stay there to read. The most common place for me to be reading is on my bed, but it is really not the...

13 Apr 08

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Do you like people being in your bed?

Elixiress @Elixiress (3878) 13 Apr 08

I don't mean physically in your bed with you. I mean do you mind when you are out or somewhere else in the house and someone lies in your bed either to sleep or to watch TV. It all depends who it is to me, I hate it when my...

bed family smells

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smints8985 For me it also depends on who it is, more often than not I would prefer that nobody else lies on my bed except for myself, but truth of the matter is sometimes it is unavoidable. For example, on a Sunday when everyone stays in one room to bond with each other,...

13 Apr 08