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syndibee @syndibee (799) • United States 3 Mar 07

how old is too old for having a baby? how do you come up with your ideal "cut off" age? for me it used to be 35 because that's when the risk of birth defects rises dramatically. now i had this last baby when i was 39 and he's...

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tag1982 I have heard of women and seen them, well into their forties, having babies for the first time. Personally, I think I would be too afraid of the risk to the child. I don't think I would want to be having babies in my forties.

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rogen_andrei @rogen_andrei (638) • Philippines 27 Feb 07

I was kinda bothered when my girlfriend sent me some text messages saying she can't sleep no matter how hard she tries to. I told her to get a glass of warm milk, maybe it would work..She did, but still she can't sleep...I really...

advise

sleeping

sleeping problems

trying to get some good sleep

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tag1982 I have had a hard time sleeping my whole life. I haven't found anything that really works for me, but some people claim that a warm bath before bed, reading before bed, and not eating and not drinking within a few hours of bedtime help. Maybe these will help...

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mbarryton @mbarryton (1872) • United States 28 Feb 07

ok heres my problem. i have a 7 year old son who is the sweetest little boy in the world. he has made this statement in the past and i didnt know how to answer him. he asked me again last night and hes statement was "mom your...

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tag1982 You could maybe explain to him that dying is a natural part of life just like being born and that everyone dies at some point in their life. It may also help to tell him that even after you are gone you are still a part of him and that you will always be with...

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marciascott @marciascott (25529) • United States 27 Feb 07

No my husband never helps with anything. the dishes you can forget it , help to clean the house forget it. I guess I am the maid. I think both couples should share house work. especially if you both work, and even if you women...

washing the dishes

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tag1982 My boyfriend and I live together and I work full time while he is a full time student who also works part time. He does help with the dishes along with other household duties when he has time. I know I shouldn't complain because I am lucky to have someone who...

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vanities @vanities (11395) • Davao, Philippines 20 Feb 07

my husband is fond of downloading movies and songs especially those newly ones...is it then illegal to download on such things here?/ what are the rules then??

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tag1982 I am not exactly sure what the rules are, but I have downloaded on both Napster and Itunes and love doing it. Have burned cd's there too. Those are both legal programs.

26 Feb 07

tacoman25 @tacoman25 (233) • United States 26 Feb 07

Is that you really do value the time you spend with that other person when you get to see them. So many people who are with their boyfriend/girlfriend every day take this for granted. I was in a long-distance relationship for over...

boyfriend

girlfriend

relationships

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tag1982 That is so nice. Congrats on your relationship and making it this far. I was in a long distance relationship that didn't work out and I know how much trust it takes to make it work. There are many obstacles and difficulties. Good luck to you and your...

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creed22 @creed22 (112) • United States 26 Feb 07

Do you have the perfect age you would want to, or already have gotten married? Do you beleive in abstinence until marriage? I believe my perfect age would of been about 21, when im still young and full of energy, but not young...

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tag1982 I don't believe there is a perfect age for marriage, but rather an ideal age that varies from person to person based on individual circumstances and characteristics. I used to think my ideal age would be twenty-five because I would be done with college and...

26 Feb 07

erminiasanjose @erminiasanjose (1588) • Philippines 26 Feb 07

Some people say that the greatest moment is death. Do you believe? What's the greatest moment to you?

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tag1982 Well death is a major experience in a person's life, but I have to argue that birth is the greatest moment based on happiness being the result of the birth and that death is the grand finale.

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aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 26 Feb 07

ok to those of you with small kids or just to those with an opinion. i have 3 small kids and i use a childs harness with leash to keep my kids where i can see and reach them. when i had my first and he started walking he hated the...

had children

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tag1982 I don't think you are a horrible mother at all. You are protective of your children and care about them. I have never seen the leash used for children. The people who make these comments should be ashamed of themselves! Their kids could be like the ones I hear...

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tag1982 @tag1982 (30) • United States 24 Feb 07

What is the best way to save money for a house? Are there good short-term investments I should make? I would like to buy one maybe five years from now. I don't have a lot of money to invest. Would appreciate any advice.

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tag1982 Thank you for that tip. I am definitely going to look into it!

26 Feb 07

Deelicious @Deelicious (362) • Philippines 26 Feb 07

You had to choose between two telephone booths and you can only pick one at this time. You're sure that the phone in the first phone booth is working because it is currently occupied. However, on the second booth, no one is there...

what if

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tag1982 I think I would choose the second phone booth.

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tag1982 @tag1982 (30) • United States 24 Feb 07

What is the best way to save money for a house? Are there good short-term investments I should make? I would like to buy one maybe five years from now. I don't have a lot of money to invest. Would appreciate any advice.

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mckenziemom @mckenziemom (523) • United States 23 Feb 07

We have lived out in the country now for nearly a year and a half. Life is is quiet and laid back. We have well water on our property so for the time being we are not able to have a dishwasher. I have always had a dishwasher in...

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tag1982 I would have to say the dishwasher which is easier for me say, considering I have never had one.

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rebelyell @rebelyell (17) • United States 23 Feb 07

I have heard many opinions about soulmates and I have my own, but I would like to find out how other people feel about them. What exactly are soulmates? Are they real? What makes you someones soulmate? Can you be more than one...

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tag1982 I very much believe in soulmates and have found mine. My boyfriend and I believe we are soulmates. It is hard to define a soulmate, but I think it is someone you are meant to spend your life with, your best friend, lover, companion, all in one. I do believe...

24 Feb 07

marief2rnurse @marief2rnurse (2704) • United States 21 Feb 07

If you're getting to know someone romantically, should you open up about being depressed? Since I don't have anyone else to talk to about my worries and fears, do you think it's okay or would I risk losing them?

sharing problems

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tag1982 Only share it if you are comfortable and feel you are at a point that you can trust him. If you tell him and he decides not to be with you based on that, then he is not worthy of you anyway. You deserve someone who cares about you and all your problems.

21 Feb 07

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superbaaz @superbaaz (133) • India 16 Dec 06

I DON'T BELIEVE IN THIS KIND OF RELATIONSHIPS AS THEY TEND TO GET OVER VERY QUICKLY AND WITHOUT COMMITMENT.

relationship

support

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tag1982 I support live-in relationships because I have been in two myself. I believe it is better to live with someone before marriage because it opens your eyes to a lot of things you may have never known about that person. In fact, if it wasn't for the first one...

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earth2jacq @earth2jacq (1502) • Philippines 21 Feb 07

I am now 27 years old. For 9 months now I had been lying to my parents. I never told them that I am semi-living in with a special someone. I said "semi-living in" because I still go home to our parent's house on weekednds I say...

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tag1982 That doesn't sound sinful. The most important thing should be the happiness of you and your love. As for him being married, a lot of people stay married but are through with the relationship do this for financial reasons. Hopefully there is a lot of open...

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