tony198244

@tony198244 (66)

China • Age 45

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Fireworks! I would ban them, what is your opinion?

oldchem1 @oldchem1 (8132) 7 Nov 10

We have just celebrated 'Bonfire Night', 'Guy Fawkes Night','The 5th of November', 'Firework Night' here in the UK when traditionally bonfires are lit and fireworks let off. To be honest I HATE fireworks - always have, when I was...

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tony198244 I come from china,maybe we have the diffirent traditon.sometimes i also hate the firework,but in our country it's a symbol of some good things,so it is impossible to forbide fireworks.in some way,it usually disturb us ,when enjoy the calm life.but what we...

7 Nov 10

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Have you found your purpose in life?

natnickeep @natnickeep (2336) • United States 6 Nov 10

Or I guess the first question should be do you think we all have a certain purpose in life? Something planned for us, etched in stone, our eternal fate. Have you found this thing in your life or are you close you think? I...

life

purpose

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tony198244 I love my life,when i was young,i was dreaming of being a manager in the future,but unfortunately,i have no choice but to be a teacher,or i can't live well .so sometimes we have to give up something in order to live a happy life.it is very difficult for me to...

7 Nov 10

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Would you like an office with a window?

bounce58 @bounce58 (17380) • Canada 2 Nov 10

Wouldn’t you rather have a window at your workplace? One of the perks of getting a position of responsibility in a company is getting an office with windows, and with a view. At least it is where I work at. Although I have a...

office window

responsibility

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tony198244 Although i have no that workplace,i really hope that someday i can get that kind of office.when we are working ,we can enjoy the beauty of nature,make us relax.as for HR girl,maybe they are some another "good scnery",i admire you that you have that romantic...

3 Nov 10

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Why Is Money Never Enough?

ddaguno @ddaguno (3107) • Philippines 21 Oct 10

I have a job. My parents have jobs. My older brother has a job and so does his wife but why is money always not enough for our expenses? What I get is enough for my necessities but I cant not help when I see that my relatives...

expenses

money

short

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tony198244 I have the same situation with you ,but sometimes we shouldn't have felt bored for life .money is very important indeedly ,but when we earn a lot,we can spend a lot ,when we earn a bit,we must spend a little,don't compare with some pepole.we should be relax...

21 Oct 10

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Why do some people are too fat, even they eat only little?

arunmails @arunmails (3011) • India 20 Oct 10

[b]Friends, I have a big confusing question? I have a friend who is so bulgy and large in body. When we happened to eat to gather, I was shocked, because he eat only 1/4th of the food that I eat. I asked him...

bulgy

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tony198244 I think that some people should try to change their habits of life.sometimes our habits make us fat or bulgy.for exmple sleeping after meal.you'better see a doctor to make sure whether there are some promblems about your healthy,it is possible that you lose...

21 Oct 10

Do you believe that love is exist ???

fey008 @fey008 (295) • Indonesia 4 Oct 10

Hi Mylotters, i was reading newspaper, watching tv and others many "Bad News" i was read, hear and seen.. to many criminals in out there... so, do you believe that "LOVE" still exist in people "hearts" ???

love

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tony198244 of course,love is existed everywhere.we live in a enormous space,so we weill come across diffirent things,people can't avoid making mistakes ,because there are plenty of tempts or pressure.

5 Oct 10

Would your family members help you out once you are in trouble

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 4 Oct 10

Do your family members, like your uncle, cousin, aunt, and siblings willing to extend their hands to help your out when you are in a desperate situation? I meant if you really have nowhere to go, would they consider help you out?...

family

help

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tony198244 I have a happy family ,when we are in deep trouble ,everyone will extend their hands to help out,whatever we come across ,we can get helpness from my family members.we know we have same blood in our body.i also have same feeling ,but one of us hurt ,our heart...

5 Oct 10

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Do you like to have a trip ? Which place is your best choose ?

xtmlove @xtmlove (402) • China 4 Oct 10

I like to travel very much, but few of times to take action. Not only I'm not have enough money, but also my work is very busy now. When I have time to take some interests of myself, I like to collect some information of places of...

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tony198244 Sometimes we just hesitate to do some things by some reasons ,but when we want to do,we will find there are a lot of reasons that we can't do.so i hope when we face with life ,once have some chances ,we should seize them.sometime when we have enough money, we...

5 Oct 10

How often does your family get together?

yeyelee @yeyelee (370) • China 4 Oct 10

I'm studying in another city away from home,and my parents are working in different city away from home and me too.I have nowhere to go when school breaks.My family and me just get together during Spring Festival for almost two...

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tony198244 I have the same situation with you,espedially when some festivels come nearly,i will miss home more.Here are no relatives.i have my own family,and my daughter.but in order to get good job,i have no way.sometimes i want to change this ,by some reasons,it's...

5 Oct 10

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What Did You Learn Today?

StephanieAnnC @StephanieAnnC (4274) • United States 2 Oct 10

Apparently, we learn something new every day. So, what did you learn today? I'm currently studying education psychology and I just read a passage about the differences between boys and girls. They even had statistics!...

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tony198244 Yes , i have the same idea,most of them have this kind deeds ,when some girls do some things,they always think a lot ,this is girls'natrue.they are cowardice by natrue.this express the another aspect"softness ,prettiness" ,on the contratry,when some boy do...

2 Oct 10

Do you think we worry too much?

alottodo @alottodo (3056) • Australia 2 Oct 10

It just seems to me that today's people worry to much about every thing...what we eat...what we don't eat...how to bring up the children and so on...there is so much confusion out there and every one is feeling guilty of one thing...

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thankful

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tony198244 It happens to me ,sometimes i always worry about something that is not very important for me ,but i can't control my anxiety.in my life i suffer a lot,including work ,life,and family.i have to worry about all of things ,now i pain,from your idear ,i learn a...

2 Oct 10

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How will you know that she/he's the RIGHT one?

dave100503 @dave100503 (15) • Philippines 1 Oct 10

We all do want to end up with someone who's really meant for us, to spend the rest of ourlives with him/her... But we also do experience questioning ourselves how will we know if it's really her/him? How will you decide on it? Is...

right one

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tony198244 Maybe, you mean that you want to depend on someone in you life ,but you are not sure whether there is a true emotion ,is right? in my opinion you'd better get along with this "person" for a long time,day by day you will find that what the person like.don't...

2 Oct 10

what kind of friend are YOU?

yomy1984 @yomy1984 (177) • United States 23 Sep 10

everytime i go out with my friends, or sisters, brothers, with my family members, i am a kind of friend who tell them what is right and what i think is not appropriate. Really, seriously, i have to say it before we go to...

particular

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tony198244 i have experenced the same thing.when we give somebody some suggestions ,we should accept some ones.i have a lot of friends,evry time we go out to play ,we exchange some ideas ,such as some clothes ,using things and others things.sometimes we will share some...

24 Sep 10

Do you like rain?

leo2050 @leo2050 (347) • India 23 Sep 10

It is a saying that Rainy season is the most beautiful and romantic season. Couples enjoy very much with their partners in this season. I too like rainy season. But recently, one week heavy rainfall has created very adverse effect...

heavy rainfall

rain

rainy season

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tony198244 yes,rain is good or bad,different people have different idear.but somethings" Going beyond the limit is as bad as falling short"so when we talk about something,we shoud think about from two sides.for good or bad things have different explaination for different...

24 Sep 10

life is short...

clairekorea @clairekorea (28) 23 Sep 10

Life is short...dying or not? How can you make life longer? Happier?

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tony198244 when we face with life ,sometimes we have no way to solve time,this is to say ,life is limted ,nobody can change it ,what we can do is cherish time ,do some meaningfull thngs evryday ,don't waste any time.don't hesitate to do anything that you like ,ot you...

23 Sep 10

cruel love

make_it_real @make_it_real (76) 23 Sep 10

Have you ever think that love is being cruel at times? On what way it is somehow unfair in your life? For some reason i am bothering myself for this thought. In my past experiences in relationships i have discovered things...

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tony198244 when love appears,of course , there are kinds of things,sometimes love is romantic,we look forward to getting romantic love,unfortunately ,there are a lot of tragedy things appearing,because in order to get true love ,some people are willing to do...

23 Sep 10

Is Friendship is the 1st towards love???

magnetizer89 @magnetizer89 (105) • India 23 Sep 10

As everyone says that love starts with friendship... everyone has its own different views about love... so wat are your views towards love.. Do you think that friendship is the first step towards love???

friendship

love

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tony198244 I gree with you .when we contact with others ,we will find how they are like now and then .when i feel some person is good one ,we may like him or her,after some days ,maybe love her or him .so i have the same idea with you that friendship is the firt step...

23 Sep 10

Does divorce always give a bad thing?

Ifamous @ifa225 (14468) • Indonesia 22 Sep 10

my parents were divorced about twenty five years ago. i was so jealous whenever i see a kid hug by their father. i feel an emptiness that i could not understand till now. but most of all, i am glad that my parents were...

divorce

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tony198244 In fact ,divorce is harmful to some children .it makes some children not live happily.they want have both mother's love and father's,unfortunately,most of children won't enjoy these loves after their parents divorced.so i hope when we consider marrying,we...

23 Sep 10

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Me, my boyfriend and shopping habits

jonnifc @jonnifc (1017) • Philippines 21 Sep 10

I didn't know whether to put this discussion under "relationships", "lover" or "shopping". Anywho, during our first year together, whenever my BF and I would go shopping, we would end up fighting. He has shopping...

fight when shopping

shopping habits

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tony198244 I find that the problem is very interesting to hear. when we do shopping ,maybe we will ask some advice for her /his partner ,especially ,some women clothes,because when they go out, hope others can give different praise .but as a man have too much thouhts,it...

22 Sep 10