wysecom

@wysecom (346)

South Africa • Age 57

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Is transpecification a right?

urbandekay @urbandekay (18278) 16 Feb 12

My friend explains that all his life he has been trapped in the wrong body. And now with the wonders of modern medicine, like many people who say they were born in the wrong body, he can have an operation to change his...

dolphinoplasty

rights

transpecification

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wysecom it would be interesting. to start with, the doctor would web the feet together, implant a breathing system - gills - as found in fish, prepare plastic heads different from humans, train him to speak and behave like a dolphin, develop alimentary canal like...

21 Feb 12

Gaze not too long into the abyss, lest the abyss turn its gaze upon you

urbandekay @urbandekay (18278) 17 Feb 12

Are you familiar with this quote and how do you interpret it? Sometimes it is paraphrased as, He who stares too long into the void, finds the void also stares back into him all the best urban

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wysecom let sleeping dog lie. the abyss is not a good place to keep staring into. evil may become attractive and justifiable if you keep imagining what it entails. the more you want to know everything, the higher the possibility you may be consumed and destroyed by...

21 Feb 12

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Who are better secret keepers ... Men or Women

crippledsoul @crippledsoul (24) 21 Feb 12

experience based comments please ....... In my experience gender does not matter when it comes to keeping secrets it depends on the person, but the general idea is that men are better keeping at men's secrets and women are...

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wysecom It depends on the subject matter. If it is an issue pertaining to other people, both men are women are basketmouths. When it comes to personal issues especially things not easily accepted by the society, women keep more secret than men and are ready to...

21 Feb 12

Mylotters are sleeping or?

shibham @shibham (16977) • India 31 Jan 12

Hi everyone. Say, You have posted a discussion and waiting for a long time for a single response. You have responded to your friends dis and waiting hours for comments. You have posted some pics and no response u have gotten...

mylotter

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wysecom I am back. There are some interesting discussion which are pasted on the wrong channels. For instance, if the topic would interest 'religion' and you paste it under 'friends', You may have to wait longer for any reasonable volume of responses. Moreover,...

3 Feb 12

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What do you think abou ARRANGE MARRIAGE???

mhimi_viduya @mhimi_viduya (140) • Philippines 30 Jan 12

Hi!! Have you ever try to be with someone whom you don't love but still have no choice but to deal with him/her because your parents insisting you to do it?? Arrange marriages, is it still happening today? Here in the...

marriage

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wysecom Arranged Marriage is not all bad but there are some types that must be discouraged. Why do people always run to the extreme without analysing all possible positions? You only gave one instance and concluded that all insatnces are bad from your...

1 Feb 12

Prenuptial Agreements

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 31 Jan 12

Would you sign a prenuptial agreement? If so ,why? Or if not, why? Me? I would. Marriage to an richer person should be seen partly as a business. and I do believe there should be ground rules. And an agreement is a way to write it...

marriage

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wysecom No love lost. In South Africa, we have what we call 'marriage in community or out of community of property'. Why this method entered the system is not much known by me but I see it as OK. At times it becomes very important especially if one partner goes...

1 Feb 12

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Maggiepie still in the hospital

Maggiepie @Maggiepie (7816) • United States 30 Jan 12

I'm is recovering, but still in the hospital - please hang on, friends, to quote the Terminator: I'll be back!

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wysecom Recover soon but what is the problem that sent you to the hospital!!

31 Jan 12

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Eat COCKROACH for 50$?

Bamboee @Bamboee (645) • United Arab Emirates 30 Jan 12

My husband offered me to take part in a competition held in a near by place where they are giving 50$ for eating a cockroach. Its up to us to eat it alive or cooked. I was first taking it as a joke, until my parents even informed...

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wysecom why do you guys hate croaches this much? Have you forgotten that as an insect it must have a good store of protein? But people eat worms, locust, maggot/caterpillars, etc. Have you forgotten that croaches have been sharing your food and you never threw away...

31 Jan 12

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What is your interpretation of these words of Christ's?

urbandekay @urbandekay (18278) 19 Jan 12

8But be not ye called Rabbi: for one is your Master, even Christ; and all ye are brethren. 9And call no man your father upon the earth: for one is your Father, which is in heaven. 10Neither be ye called masters: for one is...

interpretation

words of christ

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wysecom As the High Priest, I am compelled to enter this discussion eventhough late. Jesus used earthly scenarios to explain the heavenly system so that we can understand. The first thing to do to any scripture is to understand the literal and then allow the Holy...

31 Jan 12

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Love, Respect, Trust

Nightshade13 @Nightshade13 (74) • Philippines 30 Jan 12

Hi Mylotters, What do you think is the most important in a relationships? Is it "Love", is it "Respect" or is it "Trust"? For me, you need all of those three to keep your relationship healthy. Love alone doesn't guarantee a...

relationships

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wysecom Most people are so myopic to a point the adage 'love is blind' is fulfilled in them. What love are you referring to in a relationship? There is nothing like love but what you can gain from the temporary relationship while still alive. Trust? Do you trust...

31 Jan 12

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Mylotters are sleeping or?

shibham @shibham (16977) • India 31 Jan 12

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wysecom It is not compulsory that people should respond to every stupid discussion started by someone. Personally, if the introduction is not catchy, I wouldn't waste my precious time on it, friend or no friend. Internet cost is far higher than what we earn on the...

31 Jan 12

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can i post or discuss with my language?

utopia96 @utopia96 (639) • Indonesia 31 Jan 12

hai my lot lovers, can i post or discuss with my language,if i have any referall or comunity becouse i can,t write english fluenly?

post or discus with my language

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wysecom I can see that your level of English is scaring you stiff. Well, you most likely going to improve in heaps and bounds. Learn to speak and write by speaking and writing. Do not be ashame to ask questions if need be. If you post in a different language, you...

31 Jan 12

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What is the ideal age to be married and what is the best age difference?

Yanzalong @yanzalong (19083) • Indonesia 27 Jan 12

As we know people got married at different ages among them. Some got married very young at the age of 17, while some others at the age of over 40. How old should your spouse be? This is interesting to discuss, I think. What is the...

age difference

marriage

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wysecom 'Marriage is a necessary crime which a man must commit and accept the guilty verdict honourably'. Say NO to all else except ONE. Get married when you are matured and stable. Stability should include emotional and financial; not when your mom is still...

31 Jan 12

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Return of the most beautiful car ever!

urbandekay @urbandekay (18278) 29 Jan 12

That automotive cultural icon the Jaguar E type, celebrated as the most beautiful car ever by Enzo Ferrari has returned in new guise. In 1961, E-Type Jaguars were the most exciting, ahead of the curve and staggeringly fast sports...

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wysecom ...mmm... nice car, hand made, certified, upgrades available anytime, most beautiful sporty in the 60s,.... that was then. There are better hand and factory made cars than this. What makes this Jaguar the best and most beautiful? Your choice is good but...

31 Jan 12

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Christian women, what would Jesus do?

urbandekay @urbandekay (18278) 29 Jan 12

Or rather what would Jesus say if you asked, "Does my bum look big in this? all the best urban

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women

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wysecom I am not a woman. It is a narrow road, so narrow it can only take two people at a time; you and Jesus. So, if your bum wouldn't let him walk with you, well, think about it and reshape. Again, if what you are wearing makes the walk awkward ...mmm.. He...

30 Jan 12

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I dönt know why, but i dont love my life

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 29 Jan 12

I have heard people saying that life is exciting,they have started loving their life.but in mine there is not like that. I dont have anything that can make me happy.dont knw where leads to me

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wysecom Hi Rahu, you are mourning and moaning over nothing important. If myLotters are to actually advice, you haven't told us who you are and what you are doing currently. Your introduction is too skimpy to make sense out of. With an introduction such as yours,...

30 Jan 12

How do you regain spirit after numerous failures?

squallming @squallming (1775) • Malaysia 20 Jan 12

One thing about life is that there are endless challenges and problems that you haunt you. Some people may be able to stand them, some people may not. People around you can help you but they may not always there. Many people had...

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wysecom something went wrong does not mean i failed, it means i forgot to put a particular stitch in place properly. so, i re-examine the whole stuff and start afresh with 100% attention. in the first place, i do not get involved in trial and error projects which...

23 Jan 12