xinben

@xinben (20)

China • Age 41

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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How important is viginity to you?

megumiart @megumiart (3771) • United States 6 Dec 07

For me, it is something i want to loose to the right person, someone I'm truly in love with. I'm not necessarily waiting for marriage, though. How important is this to you?

love

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xinben For me,I think it is important. Because I am virgin.

6 Dec 07

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can you watch movies in movie house alone or you have a companion with you?

ciades @ciades (1623) • Philippines 24 Aug 07

I am 27 years old, but I never watched movies by myself in movie houses. I want to experience it too, but i don't think so...??? i think i will try. :-) For me i can't enjoy watching movies in the movie house alone. I need to...

watch movie in movie house

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xinben I sometimes watch movies alone. I think some movies that you watch alone,then you can taste it deeply. But some movies wo shuold watch with others,so we can share happiness.

7 Sep 07

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Have you ever met homosexual?If so,how will do?

xinben @xinben (20) • China 21 Aug 07

I have met some gays who want to date with me. But i am not a gay.I just want to be their general friend. In my country,homosexual are regarded as abnormal. So how do you think of it?

love

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"You Can't Love Another Until You Love Yourself"

Malyck @Malyck (3425) • Australia 20 Aug 07

True or False? I think it's spot on; people who are unhappy or insecure within themselves will not be able to give their whole to a relationship or another. it's unhealthy to only be happy for or because of another, and not...

happiness

love

people

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xinben yes,i think it is ture . if you don't know how to love yourself,then you will not love another very well.

21 Aug 07

if given the opportunity would you work abroad?

Hazel Funcion @Zelmarq (12607) • Cebu City, Philippines 26 Jul 07

I have not entertained the idea or maybe I refused to entertain the idea and open my mind to the possibility of going away from home. My sister is already there in Taiwan working as factory worker together with my cousin. My aunt...

abroad

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xinben I really want to go abroad to work. I want to experience different life and culture.

20 Aug 07

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please help me..i wanna get out of the country as soon as i can..

angel_of_charm @angel_of_charm (4133) • Philippines 13 Aug 07

friends i wanna go abroad to work..i wanna leave the country so i can forget of the pain that Philippines had gave me..i don't think i can still go on another day living in here..if you had some ideas please kindly tell me how to...

working abroad

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xinben hello,i also want to work abroad.But i don'k know how to do it.From here,i learn some suggestion. Good luck and best wishes!

20 Aug 07

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when love meets poverty,how do you choose,leave or not?

xinben @xinben (20) • China 16 Aug 07

In many movies and stories,love can go on with poverty very well.But in reality,I don't think it is ture.So when you meet this situation,do you choose to leave?

love

poverty

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xinben yes we should try our best to better life.

19 Aug 07

when love meets poverty,how do you choose,leave or not?

xinben @xinben (20) • China 16 Aug 07

In many movies and stories,love can go on with poverty very well.But in reality,I don't think it is ture.So when you meet this situation,do you choose to leave?

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xinben hello! I admire you all marry for love. I hope in my life i have a chance to visit EU.

19 Aug 07

when love meets poverty,how do you choose,leave or not?

xinben @xinben (20) • China 16 Aug 07

In many movies and stories,love can go on with poverty very well.But in reality,I don't think it is ture.So when you meet this situation,do you choose to leave?

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xinben yes, it's easy said than done! But we should try our best to balance it very well.

19 Aug 07

when love meets poverty,how do you choose,leave or not?

xinben @xinben (20) • China 16 Aug 07

In many movies and stories,love can go on with poverty very well.But in reality,I don't think it is ture.So when you meet this situation,do you choose to leave?

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xinben Thank you for response. Yes,i hope you will never confront that situation. good luck for you!

19 Aug 07

when love meets poverty,how do you choose,leave or not?

xinben @xinben (20) • China 16 Aug 07

In many movies and stories,love can go on with poverty very well.But in reality,I don't think it is ture.So when you meet this situation,do you choose to leave?

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xinben that's ture love! Congratulate you have it!

19 Aug 07

what is the best way to win a girl's heart?

ronreyes @ronreyes (4724) • Philippines 1 Jun 07

OK... so I like this girl so much... I saw her in my school. I want to court her! But the problem is... I'M NERD! Girls don't like nerds right!? Besides me being NERD, I'm also a WEIRDO! I'm afraid she won't...

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xinben Just be confident and be yourself.believe me,you will find your ture love.Good luck and best wishes for you !

16 Aug 07

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when love meets poverty,how do you choose,leave or not?

xinben @xinben (20) • China 16 Aug 07

In many movies and stories,love can go on with poverty very well.But in reality,I don't think it is ture.So when you meet this situation,do you choose to leave?

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Forever BLUE

butterfly39 @butterfly39 (3904) • Philippines 9 Jun 07

Oh...I really like these guys. They all sing well...but Lee Ryan is really really great. "BREATH EASY"

blue

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xinben yes,their songs are grate!Although they split up,I love them and their songs all the time!Listening their songs is very enjoyable.Good luck and best wishes for them!

15 Aug 07

If he cheated on you, would you want to know the truth?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 13 Aug 07

Sometimes I think that it is better not to know the truth about a cheating spouse, especially if you love that person. When you know the truth you have to deal with it. And, sometimes dealing with the truth means breaking up your...

cheating husbands

cheating spouses

investigate your spouse

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xinben hello!beautyqueen.It's really a good question.Sometimes i also think about it.It's very hard to make decision. For me ,if i love this person very deeply,I will choose to live in the dark.Otherwise i would leave her/him.

14 Aug 07

how to do international trade well

xinben @xinben (20) • China 13 Aug 07

I am a green thumb in international trade filed.I have been woked in an Imp.&Exp.company for 1 month.Because my major is not international trade but bioengineering,i don't know how to do my job well.Could you give me some...

i want to do my job well