xingxingsky

@xingxingsky (176)

China • Age 47

Joined myLot 17 years ago

No good thing ever dies.

Responses (160)

xingxingsky's Responses

Salary negotiations

Chipog @Chipog (19) • South Africa 21 Oct 09

Suppose you are working under someone who is paid on commision. The sales of that person is the first quarter of the year increases by a very good margin. As a person working under this person you feel that your contribution to...

salary negotiations

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xingxingsky Well, salary is always a sensitive topic in office. Most of time, we avoid talking it with our supervisores unless we're looking for a job. But if you really feel unfair, you can tell your boss. Maybe your boss didn't know all of your contribute before. Make...

23 Oct 09

how to do job

elengleas @elengleas (2) • China 21 Oct 09

when we do work, are you feel absent of something, you lose something? when we start our job,we have made the plane, include when or where to do. But if you finish anything you planed, what are you going to do? watching something...

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xingxingsky Just relax. Yes, we need do more work and learn more knowledge for our future. But it's not all of life. We also need to be relaxed. After I finish a hard work, I'd like to browse websites to enjoy some news about sports, entertainment or ecnomics which can...

23 Oct 09

Have you ever made a call to a radio or TV station for songs?

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 21 Oct 09

When I watch TV, I watch songs most of the time. I see many people making calls to TV stations asking for songs. Thare are people who make calls often. I have never made such a call. What about you? Have you ever made a call to...

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xingxingsky No, I never call radio or TV station to ask for a song to somebody. I'm not used to it. But I think it's a good way to give a blessing to your family or friends.

23 Oct 09

have you ever colored your hair?

buping @buping (952) • China 21 Oct 09

hi all. what's the color of your hair? have you ever colored it? and how many times you colored? my hair was black, but i went to barbershop to let my hair colored to blonde, and i felt a little bit freshed when it was colored,...

blond

color

hair

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xingxingsky My hair is black. And I once colored it yellow and somewhat gray when I was in university. I felt it very interesting. But my father was shocked. He didn't understand. He solded me. So I can't do it any more.

23 Oct 09

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Are you depressed at work?

mikesan1190 @mikesan1190 (62) • United States 20 Sep 09

I know that work is one of our greatest responsiblities in life because with out it we would not have money to pay off bills and have money in general. But Many people including myself get depressed at work for alot of...

depressed at work

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xingxingsky Yes, I really feel depressed. I have been in this situation since 2-3 years ago. I tried to find another job I have more interest on, but I haven't found one. You know, changing industry is always hard even if you've done enough prepration. What can I do? Just...

21 Sep 09

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Did you like reading e-books?

izathewzia @izathewzia (5134) • Philippines 17 Sep 09

If you noticed, there are a lot of e-books now. Some are free to download and some are for sale. I downloaded a lot of free and started reading it. Some are good and helpful in my internet or marketing career but others are just...

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xingxingsky I think e-book is a good thing. It gives us another way to get knowledge or entertainment. And it's really convenient if you want to search or copy. You just need to press "Ctrl F" or "Ctrl C". But to me, it's not a very comfortable way to read. Reading...

20 Sep 09

Not having a baby, does it bother you?

pormadi @pormadi (1300) • Indonesia 17 Sep 09

According to my culture, not having a baby after gettint married is something not acceptable. Adopting a child is not normal choice for my culture. I have married more than 2 years ago, but I do not have a baby. It bothers...

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xingxingsky Two-year is not a long time. So take easy. I know there are so many people who get their baby 3-5 years after their plan. In fact, this time is becoming more open and tolerant. It's ok even if having no child. DINK is a new fashion style of life. Whatever...

20 Sep 09

A limelight or a behind-the-curtain person? What are you?

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 16 Sep 09

I cannot sing but I have a strong music sense, I cannot dance well but I have a good number sense, I have strong taste buds if not culinary skills. I have always been a background person - shy, hiding, do not want to come to...

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xingxingsky I'd like to act as either role according to the circumstance. If it needs me in limelight, I won't feel nervious. Otherwise, I don't mind being behind the curtain.

18 Sep 09

Do you have a good relationship with your mother- in-law?

ivygrey @ivygrey (550) • Philippines 16 Sep 09

I do! and I'm proud, yes I am. I have many friends that always cries to me about how they hate their mother in law, and how their mother-in-laws made their lives a living hell every single day. Well, first and foremost one thing...

mother in laws

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xingxingsky You're so lucky. And I'm lucky too. I have a good relationship with my father-in-law and mother-in-law. My wife and I fell in love five years ago. At the beginning my father-in-law and mother-in-law objected. They thought I was not a nice man. But they...

17 Sep 09

Do you like INDIA food?

sanjeevdr @sanjeevdr (95) • India 15 Sep 09

Hi very body how many of you here being non INDIAN and like INDIAN food. Whats your likings among INDIAN food.why do you like it.How often do you have it for your lunch or dinner or bread fast.

indian food

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xingxingsky Unfortunately, I have no knowledge of India food. But I'd like to try it if I have the opportunity.

16 Sep 09

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Do you like to read before sleep?

yuhongchao1981 @yuhongchao1981 (286) • China 15 Sep 09

I like to read papers,magazines and some books lying in bed before sleep.I am pleased to do that.It does make sleepy to help me fall asleep.It is a good habit,isn't it?Do you like to do that?

read

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xingxingsky Yes, sometimes. I know reading books or magazines helps me be asleep quickly. But if I want to read some my favorite books I become more excited and don't want to go sleep.

16 Sep 09

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Are you good at maintaining relationships?Is it necessary to go all out ....?

kiran8 @kiran8 (15348) • Mangalore, India 15 Sep 09

I have noticed that some people have the knack of maintaining good relationships with every family member inspite of doing nothing much or without going out of the way to do so.There are also others who are ready to go to any...

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xingxingsky I always believe that maintaining relationships is an art. Some people seem have this nature since their coming to this world. Others are not so lucky. But I think everyone should traing this skill. It's the basic skill of living in the society.

16 Sep 09

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Shop for groceris, husband or wife?

vingyan06 @vingyan06 (2486) • Malaysia 15 Sep 09

Who shop for groceries in your family, husband, or wife? Your mother or your father. Do you think man can do better in groceries shopping? Lets discuss. It come to my mind a few question related to this topic. please share...

groceries

shopping

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xingxingsky My wife shop for groceries in most time. I must admit I didn't do a good job about this. I think I will change this and improve my initiative because she's pregnant. :)

16 Sep 09

Does this actually happen?

VANILLAREY @VANILLAREY (1470) • India 15 Sep 09

I have been watching it on movies and other media. A man opens the door for his perfectly healthy wife or girlfriend. The same thing when she wants to get out of the car. Sometimes the man adjusts the chair for the girl to sit...

behavior

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xingxingsky I guess it happens mostly in occidental countries but seldom in oriental area. You know, Chinese people have the tradition of respecting the old and loving the young. But it seems Chinese women don't get more special care unless they are pregnant. It has...

16 Sep 09

Boss setting a bad example

ranrobin @ranrobin (8) • United States 1 Sep 09

Several months ago my department got a new boss. She is a very likeable person and seems to get along with all of us--there are only seven people in my office. She has lots of experience in our business and has been very...

attitude at work

boss

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xingxingsky I don't know how long this condition last. I think if it's not a long time, why not give her more time to solve the relations between family and office? Yes, her present status affects your work. But I think most of people may face some serious troubles in...

2 Sep 09

Daddy's Girl/Boy? Mommy's Girl/Boy? or BOTH?

narvech87 @narvech87 (61) • Philippines 30 Aug 09

Hi friends, I have come up to this discussion because i wanna know the reason why most of us is more closer to Mom or Dad and why some us can't have it both? Honestly, my answer to this discussion is none of the above....

family

parents

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xingxingsky Yes, I've heard there is a special emotion between Dad and daughter or Mom and son. I guess it's a wonderful phenomenon. Maybe because of gender difference, maybe because of family member position, and maybe it can't be explained scientifically. But there also...

1 Sep 09

Who is the best player in the Real madrid team?

jyotirmoyy @jyotirmoyy (104) • India 11 Aug 09

There are manny famous and great player in the Real madrid team..you have to choose who is the best player in the Real madrid team? 1.Ronaldo 2.Bengima 3.Kaka

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xingxingsky I like Raul since many years ago. I appreciate his loyalty. He's a great leader and soldier in match. And he's also a gentleman in life.

12 Aug 09

Do you go shopping every day or just once a week ?

greenline @greenline (14838) • Canada 11 Aug 09

The full time job I have takes hours and hours of my time each day. I just have no chance to go around doing any shopping on the week days, except just to drop by at convenience store. So, I do shopping just once a week on...

shopping

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xingxingsky I'd rather stay at home than go shopping. There are always millions of people in shopping store or supermarket. I'd like to buy something on internet. My wife is like me. So we go to the supermarket once per week or two weeks.

12 Aug 09

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Are you concerned about your weight?

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 11 Aug 09

My latest worry is regarding my weight. Yesterday, I got the sad news that my weight is increased by 2.5 Kg. I am worried and planned for one month action plan to reduce my weight. As the first step, I walked twenty...

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xingxingsky Don't mind your weight. I think maybe you should pay a little attention to your food and exercise regularly. But the most important thing is keep your optimistic attitude to everything. After all, health is more important than shape.

12 Aug 09

do you forgive people who hurt you?

pyre82 @pyre82 (103) • Philippines 5 Aug 09

have you ever experienced being hurt badly by someone and yet you forgive him/her for what he/she has done. it may be a martyr thing to do for some people and yet to some it is the best way to live a beautiful life of no worries...

hurt

martyr

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xingxingsky It depends. To me, most of things can be forgiven but there are still some things can't. And I believe a sentence just like most people - "Forgiving doesn't mean forgetting". You can forgive them, and you can still regard them as your friends. But, never never...

6 Aug 09