yrayne

@yrayne (76)

Age 42

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How do you manage your guilt?

yrayne @yrayne (76) 26 Aug 08

..hoe do you manage your guilt when you can't give your children's needs because of some constraints.. I believe its hard for parents not to give the needs of their children however, there are those circumstances when parents...

family

How could a relationship last long?

yrayne @yrayne (76) 21 Aug 08

..How could we make our relationships last long? I'm afraid because I have witnessed and known much relationships being broken..

relationships

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Have you ever thought of going back to being a student?

kharen @kharen (1488) • Philippines 21 Aug 08

I'm still a student and I want to still stay as is. I wonder how will it work for me when I graduate and get a job... having my own salary and money yet having a lot of responsibilities to live and be able to survive life. It...

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yrayne ..well, life must go on.. It may become tougher in every stage as we took a step forward, however, it become more meaningful and challenging based on how you handle your own decisions and situations in life.. It's nice to be a student of course.. But it's not...

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Do you have friends in the internet you felt closer than people you actually met

Jenaisle @Jenaisle (16566) • Philippines 15 Aug 08

The Internet is an entirely dynamic world. We meet people and become friends even if we haven't met them personally. We learn about new culture and concepts from them and find common interests and likes. When you meet those...

friends

internet

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yrayne ..oh yes.. i met my cyber mom.. we felt so connected and I even call her mom.. whenever I have problems, I send her messages.. she sends back messages too.. she really lets me feel that I have a real mom in her.. though we never saw each other because we are...

15 Aug 08

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thank you

yrayne @yrayne (76) 13 Aug 08

..First, I would like to say thank you for all those who shared their opinions on how to show love to children.. My next question is, how do you manage your guilt every time you can't give your children what they needed or what...

child rearing

Will you still trust a friend who once betray or lie to you?

cecelgay @cecelgay (563) • Philippines 11 Aug 08

for me bestfriends are just like lovers on different level which is one of the most important factor that must have is a trust but what if your bestfriend once betray or lie to you, will you still trust her/him?

betrayal

friendship

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yrayne ..how deep is the betrayal..? for me, I could still trust a friend but not much or not the same as I've trusted her before.. it will be harder to be betrayed the second time around.. we can still be friends but not too close.. there will already be secrecy...

11 Aug 08

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Do you believe in Tarot Card Readings?

phillygirl606 @phillygirl606 (1112) • United States 11 Aug 08

So yea when I was a teenager I use to get my palm read and my cards read, but I haven't in a really long time. Well this lady was nice enough to read my mom's cards for free, not once but 3 times last week. She basically told my...

readings

tarot cards

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yrayne ..oh.. i don't.. i just let God do His will for me.. And i try my best to be ready for whatever circumstances that will come my way..

11 Aug 08

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Is this normal?

taface412 @taface412 (3175) • United States 11 Aug 08

Okay here's a thought. What do you guys think about a woman who is attractive, smart, caring, funny, and most of all real who has never been in a serious relationship? And yes I am talking about myself. I have always been more...

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yrayne ..hey.. you're just normal.. your time is just isn't here yet.. just wait.. maybe, it would be better for you to have your vacations to different places.. communicate with different kinds of people.. and maybe you need to lessen being hyper active.. I mean,...

11 Aug 08

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what makes you stressed out?

chellymarz @chellymarz (408) • Philippines 11 Aug 08

lately there so many stuff that i have to do yet my time is so limited. i get stressed. i need to unwind but im not yet finished with the things i have to do. Oh God! please help me!

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yrayne ..people say, the secret of doing your job in order not to be stressed is to love it.. you needed to have the initiative to finish it.. enjoy working so that no matter how busy you feel, atleast, after your accomplishment, you could feel satisfaction and not...

11 Aug 08

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Are you focusing on the right thing?

arkaf61 @arkaf61 (10881) • Canada 11 Aug 08

WHen your child does something silly, what bothers you most: the silly thing that was done, or what other might thing about it and about your parenting? I was just in the phone with a friend of mine. Ok so her 19 years old...

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yrayne ..you're right.. I am a believer and I would say that if the child is pregnant, maybe God has other plan for her.. You need to explain to the mother that the child is a blessing.. there are so many mothers nowadays who are not married but they have successful...

11 Aug 08

Will He Come Back? What Should I Do If He Didn't?

Yohanna22 @Yohanna22 (42) • Philippines 11 Aug 08

I wonder if you could help. I was going out with a guy for 10 years. At the start we were madly in love, there was passion, security, everything, although intellectually we were incompatible. I needed friends and other contacts...

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yrayne ..well, for me, maybe it would be better if you give him a little space.. however, you could just send him a message saying you are sorry even if you think that you've done nothing wrong.. then tell him you love him and you miss him terribly.. maybe, in that...

11 Aug 08

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Showing love to children

yrayne @yrayne (76) 11 Aug 08

Some parents would say they love their children and they show it by giving all the demands of their child like cellphones, money, etc.. However, do you think it is advisable to do this? I mean, would the child really feel the love...

child rearing

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do you like to watch movies alone or with a friend or group?

shiloh_222 @shiloh_222 (5479) • Philippines 8 Aug 08

me? it's either the with a friend or with a group. i don't like watching it alone when i am watching it in a movie theater. it's ok if i am in my room. i have a friend who would always alone and we disagree about the advantages...

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yrayne .. i love being with somebody.. either my hubby, my friends or my families..

8 Aug 08

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When you are sent to the laboratory for some testing, what are your fears?

Jenaisle @Jenaisle (16566) • Philippines 8 Aug 08

At one time or another in our lifetimes, we are sent to the laboratory for some tests to be performed. What are your usual fears when you are up for testing? Be it urine, blood, feces , biopsy, etc? I know your usual fears would...

fears

laboratory

tests

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yrayne ..for me, its blood.. and needles..

8 Aug 08

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Mindreading

viralata46 @viralata46 (27) • United States 8 Aug 08

How would you know if you could read other people thoughts? Do you think that type of thing is possible???

mindreading

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yrayne ..well, for me, i think that's not possible.. maybe, we could guess what's going on to somebody's mind, but we can't actually read their minds.. it's the same as, maybe we could understand what's going on in somebody's life through his eyes but we can never...

8 Aug 08

starting 1 week ahead of schedule!!!

neilchua @neilchua (888) • Philippines 8 Aug 08

instead of starting my work on the 18th of august, someone called me and told me that i was rescheduled this monday, aug. 11. wow, i guess that's better right? wish me all the best guys. i'm gonna miss spending more time here on...

work

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yrayne ..I'm working.. but during my breaks, i open mylot.. its interesting.. i want spending my break time here..

8 Aug 08

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Do you sleep with light on?

lixiaos77 @lixiaos77 (1030) • Shijiazhuang, China 8 Aug 08

My wife like to sleep in dim light. But i can't get refreshed fully if there are light when i sleep. She don't know why but she does like to sleep this way. I bend her way but I don't think it is good to my health. Do you sleep...

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yrayne ..i could sleep in both.. whether the light is on or the light is off.. but i would prefer putting the lights off..

8 Aug 08

Would you be a "blessing" to anyone?

ednasgomez @ednasgomez (160) • Philippines 8 Aug 08

In our family, i do all the Stuffs. Everything they wanted, they needed is not a question to me. What matters most and my concern is the happiness i could give. As much as possible no NO's to answer with whatever they ask. I am...

a blessing

a gift

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yrayne ..sure i do.. but for me, i should also learn to say NO because not everything they ask is good.. If i feel and i think that what they are asking me is for their own good, then i give it.. i really chose when to say yes and when to say no.. i don't want my...

8 Aug 08

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How much you love me?

pinduko @pinduko (192) • Philippines 8 Aug 08

Many of us don't know how we express our love to someone even how to tell it.. there are times we want to show but we are very hesitant to tell or show it. I'm not so very close to my parents since I was a kid. Until now, I...

family

love

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yrayne ..I was born in a family who is not oriented on showing or saying how you love each other.. but somehow, all of us show affection in different ways like taking care when somebody is ill, giving respect, and appreciating when someone does good or excellent...

8 Aug 08

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Why Many People Got Easily Angry?

HULYO @julyteen (13252) • Davao, Philippines 8 Aug 08

i don't know why, many people now got easily angry even in small disputes. most people don't have enough patience either to wait things. attitude of the people now is different from the life of people before. what is the cause of...

angry

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yrayne ..well, people undergo different situations in life.. sometimes, their or our attitude is influenced by what we are experiencing in life.. For example, you meet somebody who easily got angry even in small things.. Maybe that person has other things in mind...

8 Aug 08