yuliahar

@yuliahar (18)

Indonesia • Age 48

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Always angry can make blood pressure

ardano @ardano (145) • Indonesia 6 Apr 07

Hi every body don't be angry to your friends mistake,angry can make your blood pressure high

blood pressure

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yuliahar in health journal says that when we get angry, we have more adrealine hormones to speed up our power for enegize to ged mad, right? so it will make our heart to do much pumps to support that energy to have more power to our muscles. then our blood vessels get...

13 May 07

What Feng Shui is all about? Is it real or just superstitious belief?

iszo07 @iszo07 (472) • Malaysia 8 May 07

I heard a lot of people said feng shui had help them improve their business. Feng Shui is not a religion or even taboos. It is more like how you arrange certain things in your place. With "right" arrangement, it will bring you...

feng shui

superstitious

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yuliahar I do arrange my home and office with a little guidence. I fell more comfort after using those help. eq like we should not put anything in door step.. means that something like crashing that something while we stepping in our house or room. another sample like...

8 May 07

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Can your children talk to you about everything?

KissThis @KissThis (3003) • United States 6 May 07

My niece came to me about a problem that she was having at school. While I am willing to help her out I asked her if she had talked to her parents about what was going on. She told me that she didn't feel comfortable about...

advice children

helping

parenting

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yuliahar yes..yes..yes.. with touch of love they will confidence and comfort talk about everything.

6 May 07

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Do you live through you kids

averageJoe23 @averageJoe23 (88) • United States 3 May 07

I know for alot of us out there we wanted to grow up to fast and wanted to be "grown" as my parents use to tell me...when you take your kids to the park,party etc;do you sometimes see yourself reliving your childhood and wish you...

parenting

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yuliahar yes.. always.. even I don't have mine. but I have not mine yet, with my nephew, she's more often playing with me than her parents. such a happiness look at her smile, laugh, and the way she looking at me while playing. And I love her so much

3 May 07

Would you want your kids to be concentrating on their studies or also spend time

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 26 Apr 07

When I was in college, i was active in extracurricular activities and was an officer of an organization. I didnt find it as a hindrance to my studies but it actually made my life in school more interesting and i really learned a...

academics

extracurricular activities

studies

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yuliahar formal education and finding a skill is a different thing, and in my opinion, having a skill is the most important thing in our life. I had studied in nursing scholl, but my skill is in selling and management. what a different world. children are amazing. they...

27 Apr 07

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teaching kids at home

mtoxales @mtoxales (374) • Canada 14 Apr 07

When I was a kid, I cannot remember if I learned reading or writing in school or through my mom's help. I can only remember a paper with letters and I have to write the first letter to complete the word and I know my mom did the...

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yuliahar let them learn by themself. it's more qualify then we teach them. first by giving them writing tools: books, pencils, pens, colouring pens.

14 Apr 07

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cooking at home

mtoxales @mtoxales (374) • Canada 14 Apr 07

Do you cook at home? If you do, how do you cook? Do you have a meal plan for the whole week or do you just decide what you will prepare when it's cooking time? If you don't cook at home, do you dine-in or take out food or order...

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yuliahar by asking my family member what they prefer to eat today. but sometimes, i already stock a few ingredient of food to make ant weekend so i spent much time with families rather than buying cooking ingredient.

14 Apr 07

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Overwhelmed? Do you ever take on more than you can handle?

dedicated_28 @dedicated_28 (1383) • United States 14 Apr 07

I have to admit I am one to take on anything that comes my way. I have a hard time saying no to people and I sometimes think I am superwoman. I like to help people. Right now, I am extremely overwhelmed. I have 2 children who i...

overwhelmed

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yuliahar yes.. sometimes i feel that way too. had first job only 17years old, feeding my 2 younger brothers, my mom. when i started getting married, my mom got 2nd stadium cancer. me and my husband got less money to find better medical service to mymoms. almost...

14 Apr 07

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what is bluetooth??

padu19 @padu19 (1441) • India 5 Apr 07

hi friends i want to know what is bluetooth technology. of course i know it is used for data transfer. but what else can be done using bluetooth and what are the other softwares connected with bluetooth.. please help me out..

data transfer

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yuliahar bluetooth like other radio technology using air frequncy to transmit. no software needed to transfer via bluetooth, just connect two unit that has bluetooth connection on both unit, then a signal appear in each unit. eq. handphone to pc, both must have...

5 Apr 07

my friend is in love with a girl who already has a boy friend???

harsha_kak @harsha_kak (241) • India 3 Apr 07

but still he is loving her. do u think its right???

life

love

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yuliahar we don't choose who we love, but love finds our match to us. we can't blame your friend, neither his girlfriend. they do the decision. love will find the way. coz love is a mysterious thing

5 Apr 07

My little baby girl is getting older...and it's KILLING me! LOL

chaygylmommy @chaygylmommy (2470) • United States 4 Apr 07

I am turning into my mom and it's KILLING me! LOL My daughter just turned 3. She had a hard start to life...born not breathing due to her lungs not being fully developed. She had to be taken 2 months early because of my health and...

parenting

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yuliahar God do the job in mysterious way. our child is our bless. god gives us them with some reason. pray and pray, let his hand do the rest. I'm sure you're a strong mom, got god's support in your heart.

5 Apr 07

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Should A Women Expect A Gentlemen To Open The Car Door Before Getting In.

sunshinelady @sunshinelady (7609) • United States 4 Apr 07

This is something that was done when I was younger. It was not unusual but the norm for a guy to do this. It was a nice show of respect for the women. I don't see this being done anymore and I have even heard women say that they...

courtsey

politeness

special treatment

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yuliahar it's not just impreesive as a norm guy, but above of all indicates that's guy is respecting his woman as honor human. my mom was told me , find the best man from the attitude (expecting my man to open my car door is one of the point, i assumed). fing greatest...

5 Apr 07

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Is my 15 mo. old eating enough?

goowter @goowter (51) • United States 26 Feb 07

My wife is a little worried that our 15 mo. old daughter isn't eating enough. She is only 20 lbs and hasn't really gained weight in a while. Though she is getting longer. Anyway, we feed her pasta and meatballs, deli meat and...

toddlers eating parenting advice food

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yuliahar my toddler's too. she'd eating very little. every time she ate, she's got only a half of spoon of rice. so, we're (the family) manipilates her by taking eating one person by another. so, when my husband's eating, she's got a half of spoon of rice. when i am...

27 Feb 07

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stepchildren

ZenDove @ZenDove (698) • United States 26 Feb 07

What do you do when you just don't like your stepchildren? I'm talking any age but mine are 8 and 10. They're not bad kids and I have a love for them but I do not like hanging out with them. I even have compassion for them as...

parenting

second marriages

stepchildren

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yuliahar get closer to your religion. show the kids that they must regard the older not even their blood parents, laso other person they live with. i think all religion told us to respect our parents, right?

27 Feb 07

Can people who commit suicide go to Heaven?

eeseharden @eeseharden (603) • United States 26 Feb 07

This question hits very close to home for me and I want to find out how some of you understand this to be. My great uncle recently shot himself after suffering for the past 3 years with cancer. He left a note to my great aunt...

death

heaven

suicide

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yuliahar God had written every single paths of our lives. birth, marriage, jobs, happiness, sickness, even our death. when the time's come there's no way to run. but when we think we had to kill ourselves, it;s not god's way. devil had wishpering bad command to our...

27 Feb 07

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