zakaya

@zakaya (23)

Age 61

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How long do you think someone should wait to date after a spouse dies?

jillhill @jillhill (37353) • United States 6 Jun 11

I know someone whose wife died three months ago....they had her creamated and last month finally had a service for her. Last week I saw him twice with another woman already. Supposedly when this guy was married to his wife they...

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zakaya Perhaps he is very lonely and needs the companionship he once had with his wife. I think it's his business, as it's his life and he should do whatever he feels comfortable doing. Life is for living so why wait for the approval of others before you can start...

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At what age do you want to die?

rekhum @rekhum (2420) • India 27 Mar 07

I want to die real young.50 would be perfect. I don't want to carry crutches and don't want to get mocked at by teens during my old age.I don't want to suffer the pain.The backache.Nasty.So when i turn 40-45 i am gonna start...

die

old age

old man

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zakaya I want to be in my 90's and have grandchildren, great grandchildren and even great great grandchildren. I would love to be able to tell them what life was like when I was young and to look back on how the world has changed during my life time. I also would...

28 Mar 07

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Does anyone do paid to read email programs?

Kythe42 @Kythe42 (1412) • United States 28 Mar 07

There are a lot of good programs out there that will pay you to read advertisment emails. You're not going to get rich doing this, but you can make some extra income on the side. Each individual program won't pay you that much,...

earn money

paid to click

paid to read

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zakaya I've often thought about doing this but I think life to too short to be spending it reading boring email for pittance. They just don't pay enough for it to be worthwhile.

28 Mar 07

What's your take on "Harry Potter is the source of all evil"?

jollyjeangiant @jollyjeangiant (219) • United States 26 Mar 07

I keep running into people online who claim that Harry Potter is teaching our children witchcraft and necromancy. Having actually read the books (which I note many of these people have NOT) I find nothing could be further from the...

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zakaya Harry Potter books and films are a bit of harmless fun. Most children will see it as fantasy and nothing more and those who would want to go into witchcraft and necromancy would do so anyway. As long as the books show the difference between good and evil and...

27 Mar 07

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child support

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 26 Mar 07

should dad's who don't bother to pay child support still get to have visitation rights. i don't see how it's fair for my ex to never pay for anything and still get all his rights. my daughter is not getting her rights to the money...

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zakaya Although your daughter's dad is in the wrong I think he should see her, not for his sake but more for her. She may grow up to resent the fact you kept them apart over money. I would continue to fight to get the money owed, but let him have visitation rights.

27 Mar 07

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Do you display family photos in and around your home?

gapeach65 @gapeach65 (805) • United States 26 Mar 07

I love my family photos, I have them everywhere. I have pictures of my children at different ages hanging on the wall going up my staircase. I call it my "wall of fame". There are a few pictures of other family members there too,...

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zakaya I have a few small photos around the house but not to many. Saying that most rooms have at least 2 photos in it, these are mainly my daughter, step children and my partners grandchildren. My step daughters both have wall to wall covering of photos of their...

27 Mar 07

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ANNOYING things that WAKE YOU out of a SOUNG SLEEP ??

texasclassygal @texasclassygal (5305) • United States 26 Mar 07

So we all have ways that we can't stand to be woken up, myself I get up very early in the morning to make breakfast for my boyfriend and get our son out the door in time for work and then most times I will go back to bed around...

sleeping

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zakaya What woke me at about 2am this morning was a group of students chatting, laughing and shouting loudly. This really makes me angry, because there is no need to make so much noise at that time in the morning when they must know most people are a sleep and have...

27 Mar 07

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Full body massage--- at the spa or at home?

Rexy_leigh @Rexy_leigh (1189) • Philippines 26 Mar 07

Full body massage is a great way to get a blissful relaxation and can surely drive you to a sound sleep. After I get a full body massage at the spa, I have to go straight to my bedroom and throw myself unto my dream land.:P...

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zakaya I used to do audits for a health club and would have to endure a free full body massage once every 3 months. I know it was a hard job but someone had to do it. But it was bliss and I would recommend it to everyone, especially to those suffering from stress....

27 Mar 07

if you could build an extra room what kind would it be?

easymoney75503 @easymoney75503 (1702) • United States 26 Mar 07

if you could build on to your home and make an extra room what would you make? a bedroom, livingroom, bathroom, sitting room, game room etc? why would you choose that? what kind of stuff would you want in it? who would you share...

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zakaya If I had the money I would build a consveratory which is something I have always wanted. the extra room would be great and it's lovely and warm during the winter months and cool in the summer months. The room would be all mine to enjoy and have a bit of peace...

27 Mar 07

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How many times do you wear your jeans or pants before washing them?

rogen_andrei @rogen_andrei (638) • Philippines 21 Mar 07

Let's say, you went out to the mall for a couple of hours and then got back home, would you throw your jeans to the laundry basket after changing your clothes? or would you hang it somewhere and wear it again the next time you...

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zakaya Like you unless they are really dirty, I would wear them a couple of times before washing them. I think it would be waste of time ect washing them after only wearing them a couple of hours. Also they would fade and wear out if you washed them that often.

22 Mar 07

Attention anyone who believes in a life after this!!

cyntrow @cyntrow (8523) • United States 21 Mar 07

Do you do good deeds and take care of your fellow man because you feel that it will gain you points in the afterlife, or do you do it because it makes this life worth living? I have always been taught to live for others. I am a...

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zakaya Like you I do it because it's the right thing to do and it helps to make the world a better place. I also believe in the saying 'what goes round comes round'. So I like to think that when I do good to others it will return to me. And it works because I have...

22 Mar 07

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Those christians who knock on your door and try to convert you...

Strawberry_chaos @Strawberry_chaos (302) • Australia 22 Mar 07

What do you think of all those christians, whether they be j-ho's or whatever, who come and knock on your door, anxious for a chance to try to persuade you to join their religion? Do you appreciate that they're probably good...

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zakaya What do I think of them? Not a lot. There is nothing worse than having to answer the door to people preaching to you and when you politely tell them you are not interested they still wont go away. My brother would say I'm not interested and before they could...

22 Mar 07

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Which household chore do you hate doing the most??

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 20 Mar 07

For me it's LAUNDRY!!! Yuck!!! I don't mind washing and drying, but folding and putting away drives me crazy. I do it constantly, yet, it's never done. Everything I fold ~ the kids just unfold...I hate laundry! And you would...

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zakaya For me it's got to be the dishes. I hate washing dishes and I think it's time I got a dishwasher, but I'm sure I would end up hating emptying the disherwasher. Next, is ironing. It's not so bad if you do it in front of the telly then the time just flies by,...

21 Mar 07

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What was the last Movie you Watched?

mzbubblie @mzbubblie (3839) • United States 20 Mar 07

On my weekends, Sometimes I try to get to the movies or rent a movie to watch at home. I tell you the prices to go to the movie theaters now-a-days, I'd rather wait until it comes out on DVD..lol This weekend I watched the...

movies

theater

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zakaya The last movie I watched was the 'The Last King Of Scotland' and I thought it was brilliant. As it is mostly based on true events it was frightening to watch as well as fasinating. Forest Whittaker was brilliant and well deserved the best actor award as his...

20 Mar 07

Most money you have made online in one month

tacoman25 @tacoman25 (233) • United States 19 Mar 07

Ok all you internet entrepreneurs, impress me. I'm really curious how much people are capable of. You don't have to tell me how you did it, or if it was even legal, just give me a rough dollar amount. If you want to tell the...

income

internet money

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zakaya I haven't manage to make any real money and would love to know how I could make regular money each month. The only thing I have done is surveys and managed about $20. Writing content for websites sounds good. How did you get into it and how much does it pay.

19 Mar 07