zapatee

@zapatee (477)

Philippines • Age 53

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Living With An Actor, I so love it

hardworkinggurl @hardworkinggurl (37063) • United States 8 Feb 11

I am very fortunate/blessed to live with an Actor as I get to see him in so many different plays, taping of films and commercials. We travel many times depending on where and what show/plays he is doing. I am also the program...

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zapatee hmmm, free cocktails, meeting different actors, seeing the plays, seeing your man do what he loves to do, oh you really are lucky, hardworkinggurl!. just go easy on the cocktails, . i have so much respect for theater...

8 Feb 11

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Google Chrome

goldeneagle @goldeneagle (6743) • United States 3 Feb 11

OK...I need some advice from those among us who are more computer literate than I am. I just created a gmail account for myself today, and I saw a thing on there that said I could get email alerts and other useful things with my...

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zapatee i had firefox before but it was very sloooow, so i tried chrome. at first, crashes were frequent and it didn't carry the easy features i liked about firefox. but when the crashes were much lesser and i noticed that it was a bit faster than firefox then i...

8 Feb 11

After relationship - give yourself a break

Suggar @Suggar (3606) • Bulgaria 4 Feb 11

Hello friends, i am just on my way to talk about relationships tonight. I'm not participating here regular, because i feel that i have nothing important to say, but tonight i have inspiration to share something important for...

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zapatee i agree with you, suggar. giving oneself a break before jumping into another relationship would really do us good. smell the flowers, like some say, and think about yourself for awhile. some people only need a few months before they get ready for another...

5 Feb 11

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MOM or DAD?

thegreenbunny @thegreenbunny (214) • Italy 3 Feb 11

A collegue of mine is getting divorced and since he has a kid he had to go to a judge to decide who the kid will stay with, which is kind of sad. But the worst thing is that the judge asked the kid (he's only 4 years old!) "Who...

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zapatee some countries have laws that cover this predicament, like for a child at a certain age range is made to live with his/her mother while the father continues to give support. when the child is older, he/she then can make a choice whether he/she wants to live...

4 Feb 11

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at last...........thanks God.....

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 4 Feb 11

i was sad for past few days because of many disappointments,but i still prayed to God that i will accept those failure and disappointments and wait for my luck, and i am really happy this day because i have a new lover which is a...

god

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zapatee it is always a nice feeling when after all the trials and sadness there comes new hope and blessings. it's good to know that you're happy with the better things coming into your life. that's a nice attitude you got, not losing hope. we should always keep a...

4 Feb 11

Beautiful letter by a father to his Children

Professor2010 @Professor2010 (20156) • India 10 Dec 10

Friends, the following letter is worth reading, The words are actually applicable to all of us, young or old, children or parents. I am sharing this because of 3 reasons 1. Life, fortune and...

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zapatee a nice letter. written very simply, yet full of wisdom and reality. i hope many people are able to read and learn from it. there are many lessons to learn in life. the young especially needs to open their hearts and minds to the realities of life without...

3 Feb 11

Do you have an email account set up just for myLot?

JenInTN @JenInTN (27514) • United States 2 Feb 11

I didn't think about it when I first started myLot so my notifications and such just go to my regular email...well...the one I use most. I am ok with it that way but I have pondered the fact that one might want to have an email...

mylot only

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zapatee i have 3, but i only check the 2 every couple of days. i set up one for online sites i've subscribed to for free e-books and for online freelance sites that i'm keeping regular tabs with for work that might interest me. the other one was set up for personal...

3 Feb 11

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When you are emotionally hurting, what do you do to overcome it?

snowhybiscuis @snowhybiscuis (1882) • Philippines 18 Jan 11

When you are betrayed, hurt by somebody, a close person had left you, or when somebody strikes you, what do you do? We get hurt by a lot of trivial things around us. Even the things that we think of even if it does not have sound...

pain

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zapatee first, i try to acknowledge my feelings, the anger, resentment, and hurt. then bury myself with work. often, keeping myself busy helps like a sort of therapy because it makes me "unload" the negative feelings i got from somebody or something. work also helps...

2 Feb 11

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How long should you keep your laptop?

beamer88 @beamer88 (4259) • Philippines 30 Jan 11

With the current pace of technology, gadgets are fast becoming obsolete. I have a 3-year-old Acer laptop and a lot of my techie friends have been telling me that in a year or two, I should consider buying a new one. I understand...

laptop

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zapatee my laptop is over 5 years old. i've had it fixed around three times last year. it's an old model, but after the repairs it doesn't have any major issues for now. i just need to have the ram upgraded and the battery changed, although i use it often at home and...

31 Jan 11

Need a Masculine Name

LilyoftheThorns @LilyoftheThorns (12918) • United States 30 Jan 11

I want a really cool, manly man name for a character in my story (but let's not go crazy). I have come up with a few names, I'll list them and you guys can tell me which you like best OR you can give your own name. You'll...

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zapatee i like dean cade. or what about steve, david, drake, or connor? i'm not very good with american surnames, but i like these first names for men characters in movies or books. .

31 Jan 11

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What moral thing will you choose?

bingskee @bingskee (5234) • Philippines 31 Jan 11

Daughter Kay told us what she read in Time magazine while we were having dinner. There was an article about being moral and there was a quiz. I cannot forget one of the questions she mentioned where a group was being hunted by...

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zapatee oh my, bingskee, that is one big dilemma indeed. but if my baby dies because i shut him up so that the rest us in the group will live, will their gratitude (if ever) and my life still matter to me when i will be just as well dead as a mother (and as a person)?...

31 Jan 11

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How to find a career what you like?

lasitck @lasitck (40) 23 Jan 11

Im a hard worker.Can any one help me to find my career.Im lost in life.

career

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zapatee it is easy to be a hard worker when you have a job or career you already like. first though you have to have the academic background or skills for the kind of job you want. find your passion. there are a variety of industries and sectors that require different...

31 Jan 11

How far have you gone in your career?

aileen2008 @aileen2008 (838) • Philippines 31 Jan 11

Hi guys! Let us share some info regarding our career and how far have we gone in our career. I am an accountant and is already 35 years old. In my assessment, I have not really gone far with regards to my being a CPA. Sometimes I...

changing careers

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zapatee i switched to my third line of career right around your age. my two previous careers may have been different from each other, yet each one somehow complemented and were in parallel in some ways since both involved travels, connecting with different kinds of...

31 Jan 11

amazing mylot

figurativeme @figurativeme (1089) • Philippines 29 Jan 11

I was reading a post and this leaped into my thoughts. That one other good thing, aside from others, mylot has brought me is the re-awakening of my curiosity for concepts posted here and I have encountered before but never fully...

mylot and info

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zapatee i agree with you, figurativeme. i often learn many things from the the variety of posts members make every day. some are inspiring, insightful, and i find the different views and perspectives from such a global community very interesting. a valuable platform...

30 Jan 11

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confessions from an abused woman

skyhss @skyhss (1142) • United States 26 Jan 11

This is going to be the most difficult discussion I've ever started but I feel I need to do it. My ex-husband was emotionally and physically abusive (more mental/emotional than physical but it happened). He alienated me from my...

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zapatee what a sad life you had with your ex, skyhss. glad to hear you were able to get out of it. just try to be strong and believe in yourself. abusive people are sick in the mind. i've met a few in my life and am glad i was able to detach myself from them. i don't...

27 Jan 11

My mom just complain about I had done nothing on my vacation

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 30 Dec 10

Well, my 12 days vacation almost over, and I will be back to work on next Tuesday. That is a pretty long vacation for me, and I have to admit it, I had done nothing, really. That is why my mom keep on nagging. I suppose take that...

home

vacation

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zapatee my idea of vacation is to go to a nice place far away from home and work site and just laze around, sleep, eat, read, watch tv, soak in the sun, visit tourist sites, and window-shop, even meet a few people around. staying at home for 12 days and doing nothing...

26 Jan 11